DallasClient

He looks fine. Reviews look good. I say try him out. I like to top a straight guy every once in a while.

He looks fine. Reviews look good. I say try him out. I like to top a straight guy every once in a while.

The OP seemed, to me, to be upset that, during the attempt to use the app to cruise, there were some nasty things said about him that the "kid" didn't address - either with the offending parties or the guy. I was addressing his upset, not the choice to use the app, which the OP seemed to say it was not only something they had done before, but that he was willing to do again. That doesn't mean that when it goes awry there is nothing to do about it, or that it's "his fault" - he was upset, the service provider didn't get it or address it, and it's my opinion that if you're hired for this kind of job, when something does goes awary, you don't sit on "it takes two to tango," but you step the fuck up and make it right.
 
And to your point, yes it was probably naive to think it was a good idea. It can work out great, but it can also spell disaster. And yes, it might have been better that the OP address this with the guy, but I imagine that would have been hard to do in the moment.

Actually, I think a major part of your problem is with the escort you hired for the overnights. Part of his job is to please YOU and make you feel like you were enough for him sexually. If you had sex with him and you finished (or not), he should not be like "hey can I have some twinks over so I can get off again?"
 
He needs to do that shit on his own time at his own house.

I do this a lot and I've done the Grindr guys open to gen, used hot escort to get Grindr guys for free, etc.. Here's what I have learned.
 
I'm not much on overnights. I can't imagine two nights. I love having sex with a young 18 to 20 something guy and I'm in my 50s. But sex is only an hour or so. The rest of the time I hate listening to their vacuous conversations, their annoying music, their constant phone usage and it dinging all night. In 3 hours their crap is all over my house, wet towels on dressers, not using coasters, dishes everywhere and my cranky old queen list goes on LOL.
 
It sounds like you are better suited for one hour sessions like I learned. You get the fun, your done and no drama.

I do this a lot and I've done the Grindr guys open to gen, used hot escort to get Grindr guys for free, etc.. Here's what I have learned.
 
I'm not much on overnights. I can't imagine two nights. I love having sex with a young 18 to 20 something guy and I'm in my 50s. But sex is only an hour or so. The rest of the time I hate listening to their vacuous conversations, their annoying music, their constant phone usage and it dinging all night. In 3 hours their crap is all over my house, wet towels on dressers, not using coasters, dishes everywhere and my cranky old queen list goes on LOL.
 
It sounds like you are better suited for one hour sessions like I learned. You get the fun, your done and no drama.

I do this a lot and I've done the Grindr guys open to gen, used hot escort to get Grindr guys for free, etc.. Here's what I have learned.
 
I'm not much on overnights. I can't imagine two nights. I love having sex with a young 18 to 20 something guy and I'm in my 50s. But sex is only an hour or so. The rest of the time I hate listening to their vacuous conversations, their annoying music, their constant phone usage and it dinging all night. In 3 hours their crap is all over my house, wet towels on dressers, not using coasters, dishes everywhere and my cranky old queen list goes on LOL.
 
It sounds like you are better suited for one hour sessions like I learned. You get the fun, your done and no drama.

And don't be so hard on yourself. You had a twink over who wanted to play around with guys his own age. Not too uncommon but it sounds like you were too nice in allowing him to indulge it knowing you were probably not going to be able to perform even if they let you join in. When you're feeling it, get a local guy for an hour, and have fun. Most escorts know that an hourly visit is for YOU not to satisfy their needs and if they are a good one, they will. Out of about a hundred or so, I have had a handful of hourly guys that I couldn't get it up. I ask to give a bj and have them blow their load all over me. Sometimes, that does the trick and will do it for me. Our bodies have a mind of their own sometimes, don't let it bother you. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and soon, have a new guy over! Cheers.

I do this a lot and I've done the Grindr guys open to gen, used hot escort to get Grindr guys for free, etc.. Here's what I have learned.
 
I'm not much on overnights. I can't imagine two nights. I love having sex with a young 18 to 20 something guy and I'm in my 50s. But sex is only an hour or so. The rest of the time I hate listening to their vacuous conversations, their annoying music, their constant phone usage and it dinging all night. In 3 hours their crap is all over my house, wet towels on dressers, not using coasters, dishes everywhere and my cranky old queen list goes on LOL.
 
It sounds like you are better suited for one hour sessions like I learned. You get the fun, your done and no drama.

I do this a lot and I've done the Grindr guys open to gen, used hot escort to get Grindr guys for free, etc.. Here's what I have learned.
 
I'm not much on overnights. I can't imagine two nights. I love having sex with a young 18 to 20 something guy and I'm in my 50s. But sex is only an hour or so. The rest of the time I hate listening to their vacuous conversations, their annoying music, their constant phone usage and it dinging all night. In 3 hours their crap is all over my house, wet towels on dressers, not using coasters, dishes everywhere and my cranky old queen list goes on LOL.
 
It sounds like you are better suited for one hour sessions like I learned. You get the fun, your done and no drama.

Actually, I think a major part of your problem is with the escort you hired for the overnights. Part of his job is to please YOU and make you feel like you were enough for him sexually. If you had sex with him and you finished (or not), he should not be like "hey can I have some twinks over so I can get off again?"
 
He needs to do that shit on his own time at his own house.

It might have been better for you to control the Grindr contacts with your profile pic cluster showing you both and you being the primary host, or even being folded in to his profile but you doing the texting. That might have inhibited some of the nastiness because they would be responding directly to you.
 
It sounds like he put himself in charge, fished them in, then tagged you in and he was then proxy and switchboard operator for snotty remarks. Similar to if he added "BTW I share a bedsit with my female room-mate but she likely won't just walk in".
 
I prefer the less glamourous term "hypersexual" over "insatiable" ... either ring of obsessionality, though, and I would not have a guest in my home who could not unplug.

I do this a lot and I've done the Grindr guys open to gen, used hot escort to get Grindr guys for free, etc.. Here's what I have learned.
 
I'm not much on overnights. I can't imagine two nights. I love having sex with a young 18 to 20 something guy and I'm in my 50s. But sex is only an hour or so. The rest of the time I hate listening to their vacuous conversations, their annoying music, their constant phone usage and it dinging all night. In 3 hours their crap is all over my house, wet towels on dressers, not using coasters, dishes everywhere and my cranky old queen list goes on LOL.
 
It sounds like you are better suited for one hour sessions like I learned. You get the fun, your done and no drama.

I do this a lot and I've done the Grindr guys open to gen, used hot escort to get Grindr guys for free, etc.. Here's what I have learned.
 
I'm not much on overnights. I can't imagine two nights. I love having sex with a young 18 to 20 something guy and I'm in my 50s. But sex is only an hour or so. The rest of the time I hate listening to their vacuous conversations, their annoying music, their constant phone usage and it dinging all night. In 3 hours their crap is all over my house, wet towels on dressers, not using coasters, dishes everywhere and my cranky old queen list goes on LOL.
 
It sounds like you are better suited for one hour sessions like I learned. You get the fun, your done and no drama.

I do this a lot and I've done the Grindr guys open to gen, used hot escort to get Grindr guys for free, etc.. Here's what I have learned.
 
I'm not much on overnights. I can't imagine two nights. I love having sex with a young 18 to 20 something guy and I'm in my 50s. But sex is only an hour or so. The rest of the time I hate listening to their vacuous conversations, their annoying music, their constant phone usage and it dinging all night. In 3 hours their crap is all over my house, wet towels on dressers, not using coasters, dishes everywhere and my cranky old queen list goes on LOL.
 
It sounds like you are better suited for one hour sessions like I learned. You get the fun, your done and no drama.

Actually, I think a major part of your problem is with the escort you hired for the overnights. Part of his job is to please YOU and make you feel like you were enough for him sexually. If you had sex with him and you finished (or not), he should not be like "hey can I have some twinks over so I can get off again?"
 
He needs to do that shit on his own time at his own house.

I have occasionally struggled with finding a healthy way to think about my time spent with escorts. My ultimate need is a little more emotional than physical and both can be satisfied but the emotional part is obviously much more tricky.
 
How can I satisfy an emotional need to be sincerely cared about and desired with someone I have to pay to spend time with me.
 
I think the answer is different for everybody but, for me, it is in maintaining realistic expectations of others. Even the most sincere, empathetic escort has to have their own healthy emotional boundaries to maintain their sanity. The best I can do is choose guys carefully and when I feel myself passing a boundary I pull myself back. It kind of sucks but I focus on the positive part and enjoy it for what it is.
 
I'd try to focus on the good parts of what you had with the guy and put the negative parts into the perspective of a one-time bad experience - not something that is wrong with you.

Hope you feel better. Things like this have happened to most people and we all bounce back. Personally I have learned to think of escorts/masseurs as business arrangements, not friends.

Actually, I think a major part of your problem is with the escort you hired for the overnights. Part of his job is to please YOU and make you feel like you were enough for him sexually. If you had sex with him and you finished (or not), he should not be like "hey can I have some twinks over so I can get off again?"
 
He needs to do that shit on his own time at his own house.

I spoke to Hoganxx, his ad is down because he is taking a short break. He likes what he does but is just taking a vacation. He'll be back.

I spoke to Hoganxx, his ad is down because he is taking a short break. He likes what he does but is just taking a vacation. He'll be back.

I just wrote him. If he responds, will set up a time and check him out. ?

I just wrote him. If he responds, will set up a time and check him out. ?

I just wrote him. If he responds, will set up a time and check him out. ?

An easy way to see his previous accounts is to look at the reviews by DavenportMan. This is a fake reviewer. Stay away from anyone this person "reviews".
 
https://rent.men/DavenportMan