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SirBillybob

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  1. Affairs are often, in part, a misguided attempt to adjust an imbalance in power and authority ... the younger migrant’s rather circumscribed stock value put to default use in the context of non-negotiable ultimatum ... herein alluded to by the disappointed author. Non-condoned implicit or explicit breaches a cray-cray attempt to reconcile the upper-hand imposition as experienced by the young infidel, however logical and conventional those expectations are viewed by neutrals. There is usually more involved that the typical trope from which emanates a relatively narrow view of practical handling this type of not uncommon scenario. Advice to retaliate with the extant superior resources, if taken, simply theoretically reinforces the notion of a flimsy house of cards toppled by a runaway train dynamic. The image that emerges for me is a snake swallowing it’s own tail. And, sigh ... an identical reset after the tears are wiped away. After all, it was just an unfortunate choice of recruit into the bind. God only knows why more mature well-heeled guys with resources to sponsor ‘desirables’ don’t seek adequate insight coaching prior to the sponsee’s trans to ‘despicable’.
  2. True, but some respondents are making well-meaning suggestions that don’t make sense to me because Unicorn’s details are not clear. Make no mistake, I anticipated a superfluous bossypants salvo ... a few seconds timing, seems about right.
  3. Yeah ... "[sic] now I got his letter" when the previous third-person antecedent is the live-in 'fiancé'. Common sense suggests that the 3rd party spilled the beans, but then "[sic] that he said was monogamous with him", following the beau as antecedent, suggests that the poster's beau related this detail to the poster ... why would the 3rd party assert his own monogamous stance? Perhaps it means the unfaithful beau asserted the exclusivity of the 3rd party (to the 3rd party). Aargh ... non-isosceles triangles! Need side labels 1, 2, 3 ; point labels A, B, C. Then I can tap into empathy.
  4. It is hard to discern who is who and who knows what ... grammatical switching between 2 players in the third person point of view in the account. My sense (Asunçion) from one or more sentences is that the infidel already knows that the unicorn knows and that the scallywag has been given a reprieve until end of academic term. In fact, it is very unclear who wrote and sent the letter, the infidel or the affairee. I wish posters would carefully review long passages from the perspective of somebody who knows nothing of the story. They might realize the ambiguous parts that require editing.
  5. I have heard of it and the club in Centro that hosts the day boat trip but operates more regularly as a sex club. Never been in spite of months of visits. If you go to Rio I suggest checking out the nightclub before committing to the cruise. Likely the same clientele plus sunscreen. For some reason most of us assume it is worthy of a hard pass. Most older guys prefer the sure thing of hot trade in a bathouse with escorts for usually no more than $40USD a trick. And spending the day at the beach or elsewhere with a similar hire. Of many guys that go to Rio and report, none I know have taken the boattrip plunge.
  6. If they do not specify "not a scort", one of two things is likely operating: they are hireable or they are too modest to insinuate they get repeated employment offers due to being hot. Can you believe that when I travel and indicate "mature, generous, fit, love muscle physiques (sometimes adding the ATM and rose emoticons), have a thick wallet/billfold" I get inquiries about what that means!? How much more 'on the nose' can I be? I usually do not respond because they may be trying to snare me and report it. I do respond to those who reach out without the question 'what exactly are you suggesting?' But these are in locations where providers tend to advertise with impunity, and the non-escort designation may be more frequent. One time a hot-headed little asshole spontaneously suggested shooting me on sight, as if I were a pedophilic trafficker. He wouldn't have been able to catfish me for aggession entrapment if he wanted to. Better empty boiler-plate threats than Grindr HQ censure.
  7. Oh, sorry my mistake, I honestly don't know what can transpire. I guess "top" suggests insertive anal. However, the dozen reviews mention posing, muscle admiration, pic accuracy, more than top action. Perhaps they are just being discreet. And perhaps I am unfairly stereotyping Eastern European BBs in terms of what they deliver.
  8. A little tilt here internationally. Many older and/or "rubenesque" clients hook up with hot muscle gods in Brazil spa brothels, providers who do not discriminate based on appearance and charge the same ridiculously low rates. Perhaps the OP is in a position to visit Rio with a batch of Magnum condoms and get the self-consciousness royally fucked out of his system. Including octogenarians who need help on the stairs (not kidding). Also somewhat the case in Barcelona. When in Santo Domingo the main client group on apparently successful 'search trade and destroy horniness" missions appeared to be African American men, the majority of whom would be considered clinically obese. Similarly,where there are North American strip clubs, performative attention may help desensitize image concerns. That said, I agree with a little effort the desired trade can be obtained locally, and that internal locus of control is worth pursuing.
  9. Found him ... muscle_god on Hunqz. Bulgarian, one of the images suggests extensive 'backne'. Great physique. Top only, likely more oriented to worship. Paris loaded with hot ads currently. I wonder if linked to a Musclemania event this weekend.
  10. I suggest Google search “noelshack faux” ... various fora posts in slang-ish French but some red flags. May be a scam. You will need a translate program. Also odd that the ad is not on a typical platform. However, the OP may have omitted other relevant data. Perhaps it is a legit escort posting photos on a third-party platform not specific to commercial sex trade. I honestly don’t grasp what the OP is asking here.
  11. No. The club model found in Montreal, Toronto (more in its heydey), south Florida, Atlanta(?), in Mexico (but hit and miss there), etc has not caught on in Europe. I do not put NYC in the aforementioned category. I would not waste my time in any club in Europe that replicated the NYC model ... unless perhaps if the meagre scattered brothel scene in Europe disappeared.
  12. "Femelle" is pejorative in the human context ... bitch (in heat) or bottom bitch. Now his Whatsapp is going to suck up all the nuclear plant energy in western Europe. LOL Without 20 male reviewers, however, his target audience is ambiguous.
  13. No. Prostitution is legal in CR so it is comparatively lax, but not Canada. Your source is ads and strippers who are down for private hire. However, strippers are more expensive and much less likely to offer much more than worship, vanilla play, etc. Like anywhere else, advertising providers are not keen for a meet-and-greet in advance.
  14. I have not met a provider in Canada (my home) that seems aware of our prostitution law. Technically, CD can advertise and sell himself, as buying is what is illegal. He cannot, however, offer procurement of a third party. I also worked somewhat, vetting couples for Immigration. The whistleblowers tend to be family members or friends, but in this case the public profiles do call for extra discretion. I also easily discovered “Alex’’ true identity. I met them briefly socially, unaware of their history at the time. Nice guys and they are also altruistic but, yes, naïve. I do not know if their advocacy for international gay rights has paradoxically lowered their guard. I doubt being transparent in commercial sex work is a statement of freedom assertion.
  15. Apart from the poorly edited ad, who but a bobble-head, notwithstanding looks and charm, would publicly broadcast one's American spouse's illegal escort trade here like it's a Pride parade float? 'Oh, my divine husband tag-teams me here if you are lucky ... we are funding his conjugal status sponsorship through our joint prostitution but not paying associated wage taxes while he seeks a legitimate work permit.' (assuming this is the case) Way to use discretion and tact to legitimize your marriage with immigration authorities. PASS.
  16. It is not listed in October Fugues magazine and in Sept there was an ad recruiting dancers.
  17. These guys are often changing their social media. A Facebook page suggests he really buffed back up for a comeback a year ago ... if those photos are real, and I assume they are, he looked fantastic up to 6 months ago, but then it abruptly ends and the IG account listed is now disabled. The twitter also abruptly ends. I would consider meeting him in Madrid if he returns, which is likely. Looks like he last competed in Alicante in July 2018 and looked fantastic.
  18. I have found him attractive for years, peaked in a 2012 competition. I was taken with his pro photos back then. I think his more recent RM photos are the ones in clothing, professionally done. He has the same real name as a competitor from Argentina but they are two different folks. For a fairly accurate more current representation, there are 2 vids at mymusclevideo ... search "domenec". One is from Livemuscleshow but I think now expired on that site. A little grey in the beard from a few years ago. I would put him at about age 32 or more. "Frank"ly, he starts at 300 Euros (at least when in Dubai) but you can get guys just as hot for a half-hour trick for 50-75 at Thermas in Barcelona.
  19. Miami, but somebody else beat me to that joke. The concept of "strip club" south of Mexico may be different than you are accustomed to, as globally the range goes from watching entertainment from a distance, either stripping down performers or dancers starting out and often remaining in skimpy gear, to places with semi-private or private lapdance areas. The latter are few and far between, whereas nightclubs with go-go dancers are more plentiful. What type more specifically are you referring to?
  20. In general, I do not think escorts delineate serostatus or prophylaxis status as a way of dissuading clients from condom use. The original question related to the conceptual understanding of various HIV prevention terms. It did not intend to undermine condom use in general for a host of STI prevention.
  21. According to my Grindr profile settings the closest thing to TasP is "positive, undetectable". Therefore, cross-referencing that auto-dialogue box content with the "about me" component that might include the TasP wording may provide a clue as to what communication is intended.
  22. There has long been a need to differentiate among three versions of HIV transmission prevention, none of which refer specifically to non-ARV protection, via latex barriers for example: post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) for a neg person, pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) for a neg person, and treatment-as-prevention (TasP) of a poz person for the sake of a neg person. None require a verified poz diagnosis of a sexual partner (at the level of disclosure outside of jurisdictional legal considerations) but any of the three can include such. TasP is conceptual for the neg because it does not hinge on ARV uptake for the neg (nor precludes it) and involves planful rigourous ARV treatment of the poz. TasP refers to treatment of the poz person and is predicated on ensuring and monitoring viral suppression. Because it can be stand-alone as a prevention measure, a unique specific term is needed where transmission patterns are assessed in the context of negative partners not taking preventive ARV. However, it can also obviously occur in conjunction with PEP or PrEP uptake by negative partners. Treatment (TasP) is not prophylaxis but doubles as prevention. PEP and PreP are not treatment but are prevention, essentially anticipatory treatment of a hypothetical exposure (prophylaxis). Condoms are prophylactics. I don't find the above to be confusing or a poor choice of semantics. ------- The escort describing "treatment as prevention" is: (a) Using the term (TasP) erroneously as a misnomer for his PreP, or ... (b) Is poz and relying on and conveying his monitored ARV treatment as an exclusive (or component) mode of prevention, not precluding the component of TasP for poz clients or PrEP for neg clients, or ... © Assessing clients for serostatus and ARV treatment along with conventional markers of viral suppression. I am not getting into disclosure legalities, such as for (b). However, the client "in the know" may take the term TasP or its long form, used correctly, as an opening to discuss prevention with the provider or as an opening to discuss its incorrect use where the provider is neg and on PrEP. My guess is that (a) is the most common. I know for sure that © is the least common.
  23. Campus booth curtains might also require some lighting retrofitting because the cubicle zones are already dark and rely on light bleeding in from the main space. Stock curtains are opaque but the lighting outside the cubicle seems stronger and spills in.
  24. I think that one slang there for dick is “peru” translated turkey, if I am not mistaken? Enjoy going south on your Thanksgiving dinners, a marriage of NoAmer and SoAmer!
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