SirBillybob

10 hours ago, newdad said:

Is Montreal the big gay destination in Canada?

A close second.

I booked and met up with a creator in Brazil, his home. The one-hour donation for personally materializing his PPV script was only twice what he charges for any single PPV. The PPVs are usually collabs that can often be found more in full for free on a collab’s X or without upcharge on a collab’s OF page. Occasionally a session drifts into free vid domains, searching by actor name. Obviously these collabs are not legally drawn up. As an aside I’d be keen to see Brit Twunk in action with him. 😉

But will they bend the way you want to score? 

I already know, though not necessarily a Stock position, that DIY masterbate [sic] will figure more prominently than any promise held out by another master list.😉
 

My only recommendation for Bangkok spas, albeit going without saying, is to bring modest amounts of local cash currency bills for tips. The array of choice can be dizzying and induce FOMO. I prefer to cut imaginary losses in the pursuit of a balanced vacay. If you lean to masochistic overthinking there’s another chatroom typically touted. 

On 2/21/2024 at 12:55 PM, azdr0710 said:

not at all.....the forum has been wringing hands and agonizing about rates since Hooboy days (the early 'aughts)........

I'd like a dime for every time the forum has had to explain Econ 101

 

But where’s the 3rd variable, ie, the diva gradient, on the Econ 269 credit course PowerPoint chart? I’ll give you a nickel for now.😉

53 minutes ago, d.anders said:

I usually ask 3 questions, and all three answers are very important to me. If I get a response with only 1 question answered, I move on. I don't have time for service people who play hard-to-get. Instant turn-off.

Imagine how busy this guy would be if he had a customer-focused personality (enjoying his life and eager to please). A mediocre massage would not even matter. Imagine if he actually had strong talent as a masseur. He'd be booked solid for months.

I'm guessing this is a provider who is OK with the occasional hookup.

I get that. My imagination can run amok as well as I run up against my own tolerance for labour-intensive arranging.

One could understand him being circumspect and tentative with inquirers if he has a literal homicidal backstabber ex imprisoned and conceivably interested in making life difficult years on in the context of this profession. Guys who apparently don’t even know him personally came across as snarky and providers have to work to roll with such; that category is few degrees of separation from, say, tire-kicking time-wasting.

Not gonna get “I’ll be hosting specifically at 911 Fukmeova Blvd, my phone # is 2nd-att-empt, my therapeutic massage practice is legal, and the rate is clarified upon session booking duration, wink nudge, &c.”

Being rushed from a gym workout by ambulance with a blade deeply embedded in your back could be, well, traumatogenic.

Currently a contact number and more reviews, so perhaps somewhat more relaxed and confident.

It is true, though, there is a continuum of communication detail and clarity among our hobby candidates, yet the enterprise is in many ways set up for ambiguity in written messages.  

What was wrong with briefly specifying location Maspeth? It’s a few minutes from LaGuardia and several subway stations in the vicinity. Would be consistent with a travelling provider and telegraph to a punter the breadth of commute involved. Though I understand the desire for more detailed info regarding how a session would play out. Of course that temp location is ancient history and moot. 

I binged on the series last week during long flights abroad. We’ll have to wait to see how fabulous any artefacts that emerge from the meticulous Alexandria dig appear. 

1 hour ago, EZEtoGRU said:

Further to this, I see on the Stock website they have a video of him dancing at the club on Febuary 16th.  So he does still dance there.

Right, he is here a lot due to various commitments and projects depicted on social media but has performed at Stock inconsistently, like many of the pre-pandemic guard. Since the summer revamp there’s only one guy, a reliable attender, I experience behind the drawn drape, but because he gradually yet responsibly packed on some weight and he alone does it for me.

In comparison, Campus has somewhat picked up this year. 

I rarely weigh in on purchase costs so this post is lengthy and I’m likely not influenced by a counter position because my logic is dug in.

I don’t see why there should be a relation between structured posted erotica and session price. Why would one be a lucrative cash calf and the other a lucrative cash cow, in the event of profit differential, simply due to the existence of two products? Why would two cash cows inflate the value and cost of each on its own?

It would be like buying iPhones in a hypothetical situation where Apple gets directly paid to advertise as opposed to marketing costs reflected in purchase price. My big head doesn’t buy into what the little one may recklessly do backflips over. 

We don’t need in advance product user manuals on the simplicity of genitals’ positions in orifices. 

Although 3rd party platform erotica may substantiate an ad’s content and blur out red flags otherwise, it’s a moneymaker not an added ad expense in attracting session biz. The escort role delineation can often be obscure, should that be a provider’s preference.

My two regular meetup guys this year so far are buff OF creators whose presentation got me obsessing about in-person appointments. One a Caribbean nation fellow in Canada, $259 USD equivalency with no upcharge for travel to my hotel; the other a South American in BCN Spain’s Eixample hosting at his very decent lodgings, $162 USD equivalency. There is nothing unique about me in terms of appearance (that they get previewed), no complex negotiating dynamic. The experiences are great, no more or less bespoke in my view than others’ descriptions of other hires, and the price seems commensurate.

I am not aroused or smug by savings because I don’t think I got a special deal. Neither has an overblown name for himself. 

Erm … NOPE

On 4/26/2023 at 11:26 AM, pubic_assistance said:

… I am surprised no one has mentioned Bangkok.  It's been several years, since I've been there but the low key attitude about homosexuality and sex work always provided an easy environment for me … handsome men who you could choose from … 

He got a fast car … city lights lay out before us.

14 hours ago, lerbut23 said:

Does anyone know if Jasper is still dancing at Stock?

There have been a few over its history. If you mean “I” the tall lean tatted long-haired chap doing stints in Florida and some modelling, yes he was dancing here in early February when I went by between winter trips abroad. 

6 hours ago, bio2007 said:

So I red a lot on gayguides forum and it looks like is actually not that safe brining Garotos from websites into your hotel room and ppl on the forum seem to prefer sauna encounters or hour/love hotel.
 

Am I thinking wrong about the fact that the hotel is actually safer due to security at the entrance and the ability to store your valuables into the room safe? I would not trust much a love hotel and the sauna is convenient but less comfortable than my hotel room. So now I am concerned even for an hotel room. 

PS I have been to SP before and many times to South America so I have a bit of knowledge but always happy to get some more expert views. 

Other than perhaps the uniqueness of escort sauna infrastructure, any quarters that places you alone with trade is not the deciding factor for harm. All versions of room privacy type are represented in assault, drugging, robbery, and homicide. Such is not an expert view.

Let your ‘big head’ squirm about it. Anxiety is basically prophylactic and far better than seeking any misguided venue format generalization whether derived from consensus or the anecdotal.

On 2/14/2024 at 7:40 PM, big-n-tall said:

[Abridged] You will always be fuckable to me... although, I'm sure you're a great doler. 😛

Now that’s a good deal.

In Brazil, position designation is usually the third question, following the t’bom (?) greeting and where one is from. My answer is always ‘gosto todo’. It’s not up to me to imply or state any restriction that might undermine the chance of an unforced error (I prefer the element of striker surprise). He can verbally assert what he wants but I won’t register affirmation though obvious I heard him by smiling. I neither relieve him of all ambiguity nor indirectly impose self-conscientiousness about deviating from a self-defining role. That is an overt manifestation of the wise comments herein regarding fluidity.

I don’t experience a relation between physical build typology and what transpires. 

3 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

The trend is to avoid words from our own language to describe people that have a different linguistic background from us.  Since he is from Montreal, this phrase may be better suited for him than White Trash:

La poutine blanc

Tabernouche! You just ruined food porn for moi, everywhere in my ‘hood.

Pre-existing wrt steroid abuse or stand-alone psychopathology and blatant entitled egoism in tandem with Darwinian natural de-selection award pursuit while already on probation for domestic violence. Our outrage surely surpasses any testosterone-fuelled  anger that may be a factor. 

If the word “handcuffs” or “sting” is employed in a review look at it contextually.

As an authorized First Nations & Inuit Health federally funded service provider I employed the term “Indian” adjectivally in my formal reports on multiple occasions as contextually institutionally endorsed by the community itself. It may spill over at times to common usage without disparaging intent. That said, one would not label a person in Canada Indian unless the nationality Indian.

As suggested by another post, language terms are subject to learning curvature that itself possesses a naturally evolving history, and questionable usage does not preclude course correction. However, a vexatious nag is hardly the ideal influencer. 

On 1/29/2024 at 3:49 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

It would be great to learn about Canada's Indians when I visit Montreal and Toronto this summer.  Are there any good history museums in those cities you can recommend, or have their Native artificts been removed, too?

Some degree of indigenous peoples representation at Montreal Archeology and History Complex in Old Port, aka Pointe-à-Callière Museum. 

[Oops, I see you are already familiar]

Montreal Museum of Fine Arts for permanent art collections.
 

Wherever you decide, imbibe no nightcap you didn’t prepare yourself.

12 hours ago, bio2007 said:

Hi,

I am going for the first time in Rio and I am undecided between an hotel or an airbnb. I red here that the should be no problem to bring garotos or masseur in the airbnb but I saw many apt with strict rules about guests registration to be done earlier.
I booked an hotel also because I would feel more safe but I would prefer a nice airbnb.
 

any advice? ThankS

Pick either/or or both/and yet remain inadvertently undecided. You can only be somewhat decisive about it post hoc, moot in a sense, depending on how the date data played out.

You will probably see posts added here about the rookie 1st time mistake of hosting trade without ironclad safeguards. If I may, José is somewhat of an outlier in terms of experience and socio-sexual connections. I myself use carefully constructed judgment and several vetting criteria when deciding among my Airbnb, my hotel (often supplemental to Airbnb), or ‘love motel’ supplemental to hotel and/or Airbnb.

Be aware that it is often better to rent an Airbnb for a stretch compared to a ‘one off’ or short visit because many in the inventory will charge a substantial cleaning fee the same amount irrespective of length of stay. The cleaning fee can sometimes be equivalent to more than a single night base rate. If I owned and let an Airbnb I would state strict guest policies for the sake of underscoring damage liability within the mandatory insurance coverage. Otherwise, you’d likely not be impeded from having a “friend” over for a brief visit. Brazilians often travel and have non-lodging friends in for drinks, dinner, etc

43 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

This is just a run-of-the-mill So Black Croc Birkin.  Whoever is selling it for $200k is insane.

I asked my butler to bring me my So Black Croc Birkin for a glam benefit … What a bitch.