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    acks0104 reacted to JayCeeKy in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?   
    If by "falling in love" you mean can you develop feelings towards an escort in which neurotransmitters in the brain like dopamine, serotonin, & oxytocin are released that reinforce feelings of pleasure, reward, and bonding -  yes, you can fall in love with just about anything or anyone, including people, drugs, etc.  But obsessing over another human being who only sees you as a walking ATM is an exercise in frustration, as you've correctly observed. But, to answer your question: yes, I have fallen in love with an escort - and it was painful, frustrating, EXPENSIVE - AND enjoyable all at the same time. Enjoy your guy, but occasionally remind yourself that "infatuation is hopeless" and that some day this relationship will end, and not kindly. 
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    acks0104 reacted to Asterisk in !!!SEND TRIBUTE TO THE GODS!!!   
    Why the new thread, when you started one less than a month ago on same provider?  

    It'd be easier to merge these duplicative threads if threads included provider's name (PrinceCharmingLA).
     
     
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    acks0104 got a reaction from Bruciej in New ad easygoingboi in LA   
    I reached out to him to ask about his rates and he said 750 for 2-3 hours so that things don't feel rushed. I'm not sure if that's how he opened up conversations for everyone else but that's a no for me. The client should be the one to determine how long of a session they want.
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    acks0104 reacted to crazyboy123 in Hotfrenchbi -- scammer   
    Only positive review is someone who made their account 6 days prior. Immediate Red flag. 
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    acks0104 reacted to NYXboy in RM guy stole my deposit -- any recourse?   
    this would be something you should contact PayPal about. 
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    acks0104 reacted to Flaneur in 411 Jay_LA   
    I met him earlier this year.  Really handsome and great body.  Kissing was “ mouth closed.”  Not sure if I would repeat.
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    acks0104 reacted to + SirBillybob in Race play - the basics   
    New book from Oxford University Press. Expensive and not all chapters relevant but at least try to read the free sample which is fairly generous in length. 

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    acks0104 reacted to Obsidian in Race play - the basics   
    I handle it by saying "I don't think im the one for this one", but thanks. As a non-white provider i deal with enough race issues in real life. I try to keep an open mind with client desires, but when ive tried to discuss a potential meeting it gets increasingly more uncomfortable. Also, both guys that initiated the conversation either were a no-show or stopped responding. My guess with that is theyd gotten what they needed free. For me, I want clients who are attracted to my attributes, not a pretend hatred or humilation. 
    With that said, i think its important to discuss interest and boundaries in depth, at the opening of the conversation. If someones ok with it, i dont think an additional fee is warranted
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    acks0104 reacted to soloyo215 in Race play - the basics   
    Which?



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    acks0104 got a reaction from + Lucky in Outrageous donations for the company of providers   
    It doesn't bother me at all when an escort charges more than I'm willing to pay. There are guys out there more than happy to pay $1k an hour to spend time with a guy because that money means nothing to them. I'm not one of them, but I just move on and find someone else.
    If I'm car shopping and see one that cost 6 figures, I find one in my price range that I'm happy with rather than get in a huff.
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    acks0104 got a reaction from Capitano in 411 on IvyLeagueMrBig   
    So his clients are discreet, but then share how wealthy they are with him and he discusses that information with you? I can smell the bullshit of this post all the way through my computer
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    acks0104 got a reaction from MaybeMaybeNot in Adonis Lounge LA   
    The next nude party is set for May 24th and it's FINALLY moving back to the Hollywood Hills location! Much, much better than the one in Burbank and I hope it stays there.
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    acks0104 got a reaction from Shawn Monroe in Poor Communication   
    Believe people when they show you who they are. He's showing you he only wants to see you when he feels like it and when it's convenient for him. If that's the level of respect and professionalism you're interested in, then hey, go for it. Some men do not mind hot messes but each to their own
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    acks0104 got a reaction from BrooklynIrish in Poor Communication   
    Believe people when they show you who they are. He's showing you he only wants to see you when he feels like it and when it's convenient for him. If that's the level of respect and professionalism you're interested in, then hey, go for it. Some men do not mind hot messes but each to their own
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    acks0104 reacted to maninsoma in Non-Tipper   
    Actually, I was going to say that the restaurant analogy does not make sense for this reason:  At the fancy restaurant, any excess revenue goes to the business owner.  Unless that owner is generous with his staff, the employees might not be getting paid that well when tips are omitted, so getting those tips is a significant part of the waiter's salary.
    A masseur sets his own prices (unless he's an employee at a salon).  If he has already set a top-of-the-market rate for himself, he's the one benefiting financially from that.  If you don't tip him, he's still getting paid well.
    I'm not posting this to argue that clients shouldn't tip masseurs or escorts, and I generally do myself unless I end up feeling disappointed with the service, but if you cannot afford to pay more than this masseur's already high rate I wouldn't sweat it.  If he's become so popular that he no longer needs your business because you don't tip him, you can either chose to start paying him more if you like him that much or look for someone else within your price range.
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    acks0104 got a reaction from Medin in DennisXL   
    FYI, he's just using RM to advertise his OF page. He's "always fully booked" no matter his location 
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    acks0104 got a reaction from peter831 in DennisXL   
    FYI, he's just using RM to advertise his OF page. He's "always fully booked" no matter his location 
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    acks0104 got a reaction from TorontoDrew in DennisXL   
    FYI, he's just using RM to advertise his OF page. He's "always fully booked" no matter his location 
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    acks0104 got a reaction from + poolboy48220 in Reverse Image Search Help   
    Reverse image searches aren't what they used to be. I don't know why, but Google basically got rid of it and replaced it with a dumb AI alternative that just gives you similar looking images 
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    acks0104 got a reaction from 56harrisond in Reverse Image Search Help   
    Reverse image searches aren't what they used to be. I don't know why, but Google basically got rid of it and replaced it with a dumb AI alternative that just gives you similar looking images 
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    acks0104 got a reaction from FaustOust in Response Time   
    There's no hard and fast rule when it comes to texting. I've had guys who respond within 10-15 minutes and guys who take over a day to respond, and some who just don't respond at all. Of course we all prefer someone who gets back to us ASAP but I don't hold it against someone that takes a day. Sometimes they're busy. Some providers have full time jobs or are busy with other clients.
    If you're the kind of person who needs a provider to respond to you within an hour then just move on from the one who doesn't. It makes no sense to chase a provider who chooses not to text you back after a day and then get mad at them for that.
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    acks0104 got a reaction from TorontoDrew in 411 on LiamVersTop   
    Just came across his profile today but it looks like he's been around for at least a little while because he has 8 reviews. Hot, handsome, and muscular. Anyone with any intel?
     
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    acks0104 reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Why does it have to be so complicated?   
    You always have the power to say no...  And you did.
    Ultimately, it's up to the escort to run his business whatever way he sees fit.  
    It is what it is.
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    acks0104 reacted to + JamesB in How long is the perfect length of time?   
    For a first meeting, I only book 60 minutes. That’s enough time to have some fun and decide if I’d like to see him again. Once I’ve taken the provider for a “test drive,” so to speak, I’ll consider longer sessions depending on the activities. For massages, I usually stick to 90 minutes, while for full play, it could range from 2 to 3 hours. I make the decision on a case by case basis.
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