Vulgarii

Did you ask him? Maybe he just wasn't into you. A longtime client made passes at me last week and then asked me if I played with clients and I just told him no, which was a lie, and then he asked if I found him attractive. I told him he was attractive but I wasn't sexually attracted to him and wasn't excited. I then told him to hire the really young and new masseurs for extras because they're easily dazzled and you can literally get away with murder with them. I should make a list of new, young masseurs and refer the guys I don't want to service to them. Everyone wins.

I only don't respond if I see that the prospective client is of a certain age and/or of a certain ethnicity that from experience is going to be very difficult and cringey and aggressive, and if I find their facebooks/Instagram and don't like what they post. So perhaps the others do the same since we have to investigate our clients for our own safety, and comfort level.

Is monkeypox even still a thing anymore? I never hear about it but I also do read liberal slanted normie news, and new clients don't ask about it either. A few weeks ago one visiting client said he was so scared and stressed about monkeypox and that he got his first dose and wanted to know if I've been vaxxed for it, so instead of telling him no, I just told him his first dose is useless and he has to wait weeks after his 2nd dose before any close physical contact with another human. He said okay and that hell contact me next month lol

Nope I'm serious and just because Im paranoid and don't want to be jabbed for a bioweapon, doesn't mean I lie about my hib negative status. I'm not a prostitute sorry not sorry. Make sure you get your 5th booster!

Like those can't be faked.

I don't have monkeypox though, so lying about being vaccinated is that same thing, especially when the vaccine does not prevent transmission. We can still catch it and transmit. This whole mutant strain of it isn't even natural but that's a whole story for another thread and another forum. So if the client is vaccinated and waited 2 weeks or whatever after their 2nd dose, then in theory according to the flip flopping mainstream news, he should be fine. It shouldn't matter whether I'm vaxxed or not. After the midterms/holidays no one will be talking about this. This will quietly go away pretty soon.

On rentmasseur, what the hell is the difference between sensual and erotic? Clients use those two words interchangeably.

It is a gay issue and will never really jump into the larger population. Semen is the main factor for transmission moreso than more skin to skin contact. It's no mystery why it exploded after the pride month. Even if we have relations with a few closeted bisexual/do it still wouldn't be enough to become a full blown pandemic. Everyone is laughing at us.

I was mortified when a client came up to me and grabbed me at the Abbey and my friends laughed at me. If he didn't look like George Washington, and had I actually liked him, and was drunk enough I would not have minded so much.

Yes, people have received that full monkeypox vaccine and still caught it and still developed those lesions/bumps/whatever they are, and can still infect others.

I'm not going to get vaxxed for covid nor for monkeypox. If I need the cash then I'll just lie. My clientele aren't the promiscuous, bathhouse, Sniffies.com type so I'll just take my chances like I did with covid. I wonder if I can catch monkeypox from all these newly vaccinated men and their viral loads, no pun intended. I'll let ya guys know!

I'm not a HE masseur and I'm considering also advertising on RM but am worried I'll get a wave of new clients that'll assume I'll be nude and do extra things. I suppose I'll just ask where they saw my ad.

I remember there was that meningitis outbreak in 2012 among the gays on the east coast and then the west coast, and that swiftly went away.

I never got vaxxed for covid and don't plan on getting vaxxed for this. I wonder though if I can catch it from recently vaccinated clients with their viral loads, no pun intended because I don't provide like that.

When this happens, clients that want an escort will hit up the massage guys and see how far they will go, since you can find a decent masseur that will perform extras for $200-300 less than an escort. Perhaps escorts can advertise the massage for a much cheaper price and it might be better since they won't have to guarantee cumming or anything.

The thing is is that I doubt the recession has really hurt people that make 6 figures and have a comfy lifestyle and plenty of more disposable income. If you're nosey like me, and look up clients' social media, a lot are still traveling around the world and living it up. Most young gay guys on grindr seem to be living life to the fullest lately. I just take it personally if a familiar client randomly shows up and hasn't even checked up on me and I haven't seen him in a year or two, when we've had 10 years of rapport and I've slept in his bed and even house sat for him. I'm like F you, go get to know someone else. I give this offering to the next masseur!

There was a client that roofied my coffee. He lives in Westwood and is an old mostly unknown actor. I wonder if anyone has had the same experience. This happened in 2015 a year before the Bill Cosby allegations came out and I remembered a year later hearing models like Beverly Johnson say they were given a cappuccino and then 40 mins later, they started hallucinating and were f-cked up. I was like wow that sounds soooooo familiar, luckily I had the strength and consciousness to run away too and I slept in the floor of the back of my car. I was terrified and I was f-cked up the next day too. There's also a sneaky way to roofie someone that a female escort publically stated and read about her nightmare client on Mr Number...he would drink an herbal tea and then go down on his escorts. They would pass out and he would brutally rape and beat them. I suppose the same thing could be done to men when rimmed. Anyway, it is essential for providers to have some sort of network to inform others of dangerous encounters.

Have you caught other escorts setting up fake appointments with you on a busy time like 8pm?

Yeah there's more than enough men that will seriously date us but at the same time, I've never encountered in person nor online, a monogamous gay couple, and the majority of my clients are partnered in some way to another man. I joke that I can't wait to become committed to someone who's just going to cheat on me with someone else that looks just like me. The partners and exes of my clients tend to look just like me, and even the boys they adopted, which is weird and perhaps not worth mentioning. We still have to deal with the stigma of being dirtier and riskier than guys you'd meet and date from grindr even though we have much smaller notch counts and tend to be cleaner and more careful.

Hey I thought Saturdays were my off nights too. It wasn't like that a few years ago. I know my clients pretty well too and I doubt most are social and spending time with friends lol You just roll with it and keep your time open if anything comes up. What I hate is that I usually get an inquiry after 10 or 11 o'clock, and by those times I mentally check out and dgaf.

You have to hire the really young new guys because they are impressed with money and attention, and aren't jaded yet. I'd love for certain clients to request the foreplay but only if I would do that with them for free.

Like we expect young gay men to not have sex with strangers. When did that ever work out?

I use usphonebook.com and whitepages.com to look up prospective clients' names, ages, and any criminal records, and if I can verify a name then I look through linkedin and Facebook...I kind of shouldn't verify with social media anymore because if I see something they posted that I don't like, I will refuse to meet the client...it also sucks to get excited about meeting a certain client but he's not the person I see on Facebook even though he has the same name and is in the same city, or he's sharing a family plan. LOL One client told me that masseurs wouldn't respond to him and I guessed that was because he had the same name as his father but his father's age showed up on the websites I mentioned above, so he was rejected by those of us that don't want to service men in that age range.

50, maybe 55.

Finland and Sweden got to be on that list because every client I've had from Scandinavia were massive. Mandingo status.