Vulgarii

When I was a liberal I was always angry and stressed over issues I didn't understand and didn't really care about, nor could do anything about, which is the culture, and I had a weird mission in my heart to work with planned parenthood and raise funds for abortions for poor women who couldn't afford them, and a weird goal to become a sexologist and sexualize everyone, I had taught a class on sex magick rituals and occultism, and I wanted to teach sex ed to teenagers which would have been a more wild and inclusive sex ed than what I received in my catholic prep schools. This woke mob culture today thrives on meme pathogens and mind viruses and you can just get infected and not really know what the F you are thinking and what you stand for. These educators and activists are just lost and are completley selfish and delusional. I believe though that everyone can wake up and change and turn their loves around.

Drag queen story hour is totally inappropriate for kids and I can't stand liberal women who have some fascination and fetish with gay men like we are some proud no shame slutty fantasy and angelic victims that they get to dream and cry about....so with that being said, I get a sick pleasure knowing that they are just damaging their kids and their kids most likely won't give them grandchildren. So it's some natural selection type of thing.

I got covid in January and I deduced that I got it from a client who told me he had it the week prior. So I got covid again last week, and it pretty much lasted 2 days but I coincidentally heard from this random client again, and I took his appointment and saw him, and probably returned the favor.

Was it real though or a part of the latino badboy fetish? A lot of men and women turn to sex work because they can't do anything else for some reason or another.

I just assume clients that take a long time showering, are doing the incognito thing and they are really taking a dump beforehand. So they let the shower run, and then flush when they get out. LOL. It's much better than pooping but turning on the sink faucet and hoping that no one knows what you're doing, but we all know. I have a fancy bidet but I prefer clients to also shower if they use it, because it's just nasty and disrespectful to me. I've had clients that just have a natural smelly butt and it's so gross spending that whole time smelling it, and then their smell will remain on my skin and fingernails. It's so damn gross and rude. If a client has to shower then I prefer them to shower at my place because their asses can sweat on the car ride over. Thanks for listening to my TED talk.

Oh well boohoo, I'm glad foreign guys can't come here and work on my turf, and if they want to they just have to be smart about it.

All cultures colonize, just some didn't have the weapons and ships yet, and I want my borders safe and protected especially from those that want to execute me for being gay, and jail, physically punish, and/or execute gays in their countries.

What do being fat/obese and being promiscuous and having STDs, have in common? Poor discernment and impulse control. It's not really the lack of access and sex ed. We all had sex ed in some form in school, and low income families have free clinics and plenty of free health services, and often even more if they are low income non-whites. I'm tired of seeing racism and the lack of access as being the go-to excuses for the higher rates of STDs among my fellow gay men of color. Wth COVID it's interesting and a little more complicated to look at, but how is it possible that a large portion of the black population is unemployed and they were told to stay home, had nothing else to do since they didn't work, and they still caught COVID or suffered more than other groups? They just didn't do what they were told. We also had that whole 2020 summer of rioting and youths congregating in large groups, and what a surprise, they brought it home to mom and grandma.

Is it still a thing? I haven't heard of monkeypox in almost 2 months.

I don't think they monitor our websites, I think they looked through his phone and he eventually told the truth. I've serviced way too many high profile attorneys, judges, policemen, and one confirmed fed last month, and if I could verify their identities and find their info using simple websites, then they aren't worrying about those websites being monitored and their associates finding out their "hobbies." But I still wouldn't put it past Big Brother. The thing is a lot of us have been used for espionage for decades and that's not a secret. If the gov is cracking down on anything, it must be that they have an operation going on, and only want "their people" in the game, for right now.

But what did he do in person? Did he actually assault in person? Talking shit on a forum shouldn't get anyone terminated elsewhere.

Who hands out these cute awards that are on your website, and where was the competition?

There's something about masseurs from Chicago and Hong Kong...whenever I get asked if I bottom after a massage, the client/potential client says his regular masseur is not available anymore because he moved back to Chicago or Hong Kong. Just wondering...

Hmmm perhaps during his massage he horribly slanders you LOL

I live in Los Angeles and think men and women are much uglier than they appeared a decade or two ago. I don't see people getting any better looking in the future here at all, and for the main reason why I theorize that, should be written in the political forum.

I offer you to the escort/erotic masseur gods. May someone else accept my sacrifice so that everyone wins.

Clients that do that are really fucked up. Someone wrote here that a few years ago, the website Masseurfinder only made the hispanic masseurs send a copy of their IDs and record a video with it. Hello! There's plenty of Asian, White, and Arab peopl, and everyone else, that are in the USA illegally. Threats of deportation never happened to me especially because I have a thick Cali surfer/valley girl accent LOL, but disgruntled clients that I cancelled on have threatened to complain to the website but luckily, for me, customer service suuuuuuuuucks and MF doesn't care.

The mystery is what really turns me on if I'm attracted to a client and the vibe is right. Even if a client is really good looking, whether he sends me pictures or if I look his name up on social media, I will be completely turned off if he asks beforehand because I feel obligated to perform a certain way and I don't if we'll have chemistry. My dick is supposed to get hard and stay hard if I'm not attracted to the client and am not into it? I'm just not that type of guy. I joke that I'm not an equal opportunity whore.

What is the difference between sensual and erotic? There's some clients that think sensual is massaging very soft, almost like tickling, and others think/inquire that sensual means 2nd, 3rd, and even a home run. I suppose I should stick to asking prospective clients what they really mean and want.

Agreed. Some clients want to get off and think they can beat the stigma of hiring for sex by seeing a massage therapist, and some think they can save money and request escort services from a massage therapist. Some people think masseurs are budget prostitutes, and some masseurs market themselves that way, but it hurts masseurs, it hurts escorts, and it hurts the egos of men when their offers are declined, and their expectations aren't met if they didn't have the balls to ask for things upfront.

If that masseur is that prudish and cautious after soooooo many years and sessions with you, he's not into you, and if you go very far with him, you won't enjoy it. It won't be anything special. You will not be satisfied and you might push things more and more next time, and that's why too why some of us never let the cat out of the bag in the first place. It's pretty lame to not go as far as massaging the glutes due to covid, and useless to start draping afterdrawing pandemic, like that will help prevent anything. Wearing masks doesn't do much of anything either, especially while getting massaged in a stranger's home that's been breathing and coughing everywhere.

In my experience every single Indian and Persian was rapey to the point where I could have filed a legit police report. I guess in their cultures, a masseur is a whore and isn't allowed to say no. With Asians it's hit or miss, usually the ones born in the USA aren't as aggressive as the older guys who were born elsewhere. As for ages, men under 25 are flakey and men over 60 are problematic because they're often really aggressive too, manipulative, and/or really depressing to be around because they're really sad and lonely.

Did you ask him? Maybe he just wasn't into you. A longtime client made passes at me last week and then asked me if I played with clients and I just told him no, which was a lie, and then he asked if I found him attractive. I told him he was attractive but I wasn't sexually attracted to him and wasn't excited. I then told him to hire the really young and new masseurs for extras because they're easily dazzled and you can literally get away with murder with them. I should make a list of new, young masseurs and refer the guys I don't want to service to them. Everyone wins.

I only don't respond if I see that the prospective client is of a certain age and/or of a certain ethnicity that from experience is going to be very difficult and cringey and aggressive, and if I find their facebooks/Instagram and don't like what they post. So perhaps the others do the same since we have to investigate our clients for our own safety, and comfort level.

Is monkeypox even still a thing anymore? I never hear about it but I also do read liberal slanted normie news, and new clients don't ask about it either. A few weeks ago one visiting client said he was so scared and stressed about monkeypox and that he got his first dose and wanted to know if I've been vaxxed for it, so instead of telling him no, I just told him his first dose is useless and he has to wait weeks after his 2nd dose before any close physical contact with another human. He said okay and that hell contact me next month lol