Vulgarii

Yup conspiracy theory is the typical rebuttal. No one cared about moneypox because it is a gay disease and semen was the main transmitter, not mere skin to skin contact. The so called vaccine didn't halt spread, slutty men not being so slutty for a month or two, did.

Wow I always thought their colors were reversed and one just doesn't have the eagle thing. I still can't remember the differences between the Puerto Rican and Cuban flags, oh well.

The money pox epidemic came to a halt when the powers that be realized that the majority of the population didn't care about it because it was a gay thing, and the mainstream media dropped it altogether when kids and dogs who lived with gay couples started getting it. It was a gay thing, and it never jumped into the larger straight population people assumed and hoped for. The specific money pox strain that spread was not natural and it wasn't even mathematically possible for it to even spread as fast as it did. Was it spread on purpose somehow like at the pride festivals of 2022? Who knows. Such atrocities have happened before. I wouldn't put it past big pharma and my government to experiment on us deemed undesirables.

A fountain bidet. I never want to live without it. I haven't used toilet paper in years! Using it is so barbaric.

I had a client that looked just like my paternal grandfather. Just like him, even the eye color. I tripped out and my grandfather had a rare ethnic ancestry and I never saw his penis, thank God, but the clients dick was hung like mine and our beautiful mushroom heads looked identical. We had a kick out of it. It was interesting and nice blowing a penis was just like my own. Off topic but I hated that grandfather who is now dead, thank God, and I let the client violently slap me until I got afraid that he was getting too carried away and would kill me or something. I'm sure a psychotherapist would love to analyze that. Anyway...thanks for reading

Sorry off topic, but I love the commercial and seeing this guy. He's soooooooo hot. I want him before he lost the weight too.

What confuses me is that these virtual influencers have been around for years and even had video ads. They would be up on Instagram for years and people are flipping out about it now? Also, people seem to be rattled about deep fake voice messages and telephone calls but that tech has been around since the 90s or even before. Of course the Scream movies back then made the best use of it. Look at that movie Sim0ne, with Al Pacino, it's free on Tubi TV. I loved it but it perfectly shows what's out right now and what could be in the near future.

The trans will continue to get all the excuses, sympathy, and support while everyone else has to really struggle and suffer the consequences of the law and shitty dangerous clients.

What I dislike are the silly kooky ads you see everywhere that shows some ridiculous scenario. You can get off just by looking at the ads without any sound, but the way they are produced is like they are mocking the viewer. Brazzers and the same gay studios make them with the same tired ass pornstars. It's sensory overload with a condescending demeanor almost like the visual is the equivalent to eating a shitty McDonald's burger or taco bell cheesy beef burrito that you'll regret in an hour.

It's so stupid, they or their digital pimps, believe that the middle finger makes them look straight, tough, and masculine. I was offered to model for that mastertim foot fetish websites but all the guys are made to hold up the middle finger and that's not my thing.

I will always think of the mom in the movie The Craft that had "a jukebox that played nothing but Connie Francis records," when I see or hear that name. Anyways, as a provider there's only a few other providers I've met in person so I don't really care about who is being discussed and the same questions and discussions are brought up so the forum fizzled out for me. I think all the boys are at that "forum" where they just leak onlyfans content, talk shit about pornstars, escorts, and wannabes, and seem to get into real legal drama every now and then. This forum is quite vanilla compare to what "the boys" are doing now.

I only dabbled in porn and fetish modeling and that was 15 years ago, and no one would really recognize me nor know my porn name, but every now and then a prospective client will bring it up and they assume that I am a certain way and will sleep with them. So it's just an issue if the provider doesn't blatantly state that he's an escort or will do x, y, and z. If the provider is advertising as an escort then he wants your business and doesn't care about your muscles and penis size, because most men are not models and aren't hung like porn stars who are already scoured and hand picked for their handsome faces, chiseled bodies, and donkey dicks.

Yeah the money is a trap that I also warned a friend about, and I've seen on that YouTube soft white underbelly channel where a pimp and a stripper advised women and men that after doing any type of sex work for around a year, you'll never want to work another job again because you'll compare what you'll make in 8 hours compared to one hour doing sex work. Also you'll end up hating men and sex but that really depends on the person and it's more of a problem for women. Women seem to hate being exploited but men seem to enjoy it and not take it as hard. I warned a friend who was just advertising on Grindr and making a good living that the rules and laws change and the money won't be consistent. When more men get into sex work then his business will decline as well as when he ages. For most people, sex work is just for quick cash to get out of a jam or to bridge the gap between a better endeavor. At least there's more avenues for even mediocre or below average looking women when they're in a jam. It's not so easy for guys to walk the sidewalk or strip somewhere when times get rough.

Coulda woulda shoulda. If it was really best for me to get a 9 to 5 then it would have happened long ago. To this day I truly hate the coworkers and customers I had 16 years ago when I last had a W2 job, so perhaps it's best for society and not just me that I'm not exposed to the general public for very long. I'm servicing the community in more ways than I thought! I don't regret because I don't see the point in regretting and reminiscing but of course I would have wanted a much more stable and lucrative career but I am working on that now and it really is the best time. I just take not of the emotional/mental toll that I experienced in this industry. I view men and people, and sex and intimacy, in much different ways and with my experience there's just people I will not deal with. Idk if that's necessarily a bad thing. I just share with very young men getting into the industry or who just carry themselves blatantly as sluts that STDs aren't the only things they have to worry about. They will encounter that threshold, after they pass it, where they are at the point of no return and can't be monogamous, can't be happy for long in a ltr, will be super selective with their partners and clients, and can't get hard for the gross ugly ones. 😂

Be mindful of where you are staying and the hours of the day or night and parking for the masseur. Parking is a beeeeeyyyyyatch in downtown LA especially if you want the masseur to bring a table or not. I never go to downtown anymore for that reason unless it's really late at night and I trust where I can leave my car.

I love cute feet with a nice smell, and I developed a thing for nice clean holes that somehow that don't smell like ass. A reoccurring client is a blonde twink and he asked me beforehand to hook up after the massage, so while he was sniffing poppers I put his legs up and dug my nose into him an old went to town.

Yup that's what I do to have a more attractive client base as well as offer discounts to law enforcement as a code for being a fellow right winger. Blue Lives Matter lol

Is waxing also a code for providing extras? I can't stand that everyone has different intentions and expectations. It is what it is I guess. I help clients shave and wax, but I took that service off because some men seemed to excited and creepy about it. One client wanted me to probe him with his razor, and I suppose the cheap Gillette razor had some sentimental value because he went berserk the next day texting me that he couldn't find it and thought I stole it.

Do providers have an option to not be listed?

"Do you mind if I touch you?" is a great way to break the ice but how far the touching goes depends on the masseur.

What sucks about this line of work if you don't advertise yourself as erotic and if the client doesn't ask any questions beforehand, is that you don't know what the client wants. You don't know his real intentions and some just want a therapeutic massage and that's all. No genital stimulation whatsoever. I think a HE can be included in a therapeutic massage. Whether I want to do it or not is another story. I love the tension. I love that moment when I see that an attractive client starts to relax his hands and let his fingers wander. He's in my realm, and that's nicer than saying he's in my trap and I'm going to have fun and get paid for it.

The Velvet Mafia is the real gay Mafia. They're in all the metropolitan cities and aren't just in the entertainment and fashion industries. I got "acquainted" through a doctor I met who lived with a retired journalist turned exec producer that worked in the White House during the Jackie O days and bit after, she moved out. The most legendary members are dead, well they naturally died of old age, and I won't name names but celebrities that are out, and aren't out, have adjacent properties next to each other, allegedly near the Coachella festival grounds and that's where the parties are. The vast majority of the "entertainment" don't exactly know who the hell these men are and how big of a scene it is. They probably assume they're at some rich old guys house like in Palm Springs.

It's fun encountering protective clients looking for budget prostitution, and it's more fun making fun of them when they try to haggle.

My clients go to Coachella but for fun and are not looking to hire. Although they are high rollers, they are with friends and it would be awkward for them to disappear for a bit so they hire when they come back from that weekend. I'll just say that the "velvet Mafia" aka as the Gay Mafia have several properties very close to Coachella festival grounds, and at the parties they have, and they are well known for them and for gathering porn stars, escorts, and young men there, that's where the money is made, if you play your cards right. You can mingle and hook up, some men will pay. There's always some that will, but you can get more money and connections if you develop a friendship and meet the same man again afterwards to really cash in, and you want that to happen because again, the gay Mafia. Screw up though and you can get blacklisted and that's not a joke, but that crowd is very exclusive and small, so it won't really hurt you. There's catty gays on every level. Generally Coachella is not the place to escort or even massage because most guys that can hire, do not have that on their mind, they will hire you when they get back, and they are more likely to casually hook up with a festival-goer.

I've asked clients to describe what they want as an erotic and sensual massage because everyone has a different expectation, and I always get a different answer. What I find odd, is that nowadays I'm hearing directly from new clients that sensual means just a slow, soft Swedish massage. To me, a happy ending is sexual. Anything stimulating the genitals whether or not an orgasm happens, is sexual. It is sensual and it is erotic. I love it when potential clients want to argue that a happy ending isn't sexual or erotic. Whatever.