Vulgarii

What do being fat/obese and being promiscuous and having STDs, have in common? Poor discernment and impulse control. It's not really the lack of access and sex ed. We all had sex ed in some form in school, and low income families have free clinics and plenty of free health services, and often even more if they are low income non-whites. I'm tired of seeing racism and the lack of access as being the go-to excuses for the higher rates of STDs among my fellow gay men of color. Wth COVID it's interesting and a little more complicated to look at, but how is it possible that a large portion of the black population is unemployed and they were told to stay home, had nothing else to do since they didn't work, and they still caught COVID or suffered more than other groups? They just didn't do what they were told. We also had that whole 2020 summer of rioting and youths congregating in large groups, and what a surprise, they brought it home to mom and grandma.

Is it still a thing? I haven't heard of monkeypox in almost 2 months.

I don't think they monitor our websites, I think they looked through his phone and he eventually told the truth. I've serviced way too many high profile attorneys, judges, policemen, and one confirmed fed last month, and if I could verify their identities and find their info using simple websites, then they aren't worrying about those websites being monitored and their associates finding out their "hobbies." But I still wouldn't put it past Big Brother. The thing is a lot of us have been used for espionage for decades and that's not a secret. If the gov is cracking down on anything, it must be that they have an operation going on, and only want "their people" in the game, for right now.

But what did he do in person? Did he actually assault in person? Talking shit on a forum shouldn't get anyone terminated elsewhere.

Who hands out these cute awards that are on your website, and where was the competition?

There's something about masseurs from Chicago and Hong Kong...whenever I get asked if I bottom after a massage, the client/potential client says his regular masseur is not available anymore because he moved back to Chicago or Hong Kong. Just wondering...

Hmmm perhaps during his massage he horribly slanders you LOL

I live in Los Angeles and think men and women are much uglier than they appeared a decade or two ago. I don't see people getting any better looking in the future here at all, and for the main reason why I theorize that, should be written in the political forum.

I offer you to the escort/erotic masseur gods. May someone else accept my sacrifice so that everyone wins.

Clients that do that are really fucked up. Someone wrote here that a few years ago, the website Masseurfinder only made the hispanic masseurs send a copy of their IDs and record a video with it. Hello! There's plenty of Asian, White, and Arab peopl, and everyone else, that are in the USA illegally. Threats of deportation never happened to me especially because I have a thick Cali surfer/valley girl accent LOL, but disgruntled clients that I cancelled on have threatened to complain to the website but luckily, for me, customer service suuuuuuuuucks and MF doesn't care.

The mystery is what really turns me on if I'm attracted to a client and the vibe is right. Even if a client is really good looking, whether he sends me pictures or if I look his name up on social media, I will be completely turned off if he asks beforehand because I feel obligated to perform a certain way and I don't if we'll have chemistry. My dick is supposed to get hard and stay hard if I'm not attracted to the client and am not into it? I'm just not that type of guy. I joke that I'm not an equal opportunity whore.

What is the difference between sensual and erotic? There's some clients that think sensual is massaging very soft, almost like tickling, and others think/inquire that sensual means 2nd, 3rd, and even a home run. I suppose I should stick to asking prospective clients what they really mean and want.

Agreed. Some clients want to get off and think they can beat the stigma of hiring for sex by seeing a massage therapist, and some think they can save money and request escort services from a massage therapist. Some people think masseurs are budget prostitutes, and some masseurs market themselves that way, but it hurts masseurs, it hurts escorts, and it hurts the egos of men when their offers are declined, and their expectations aren't met if they didn't have the balls to ask for things upfront.

If that masseur is that prudish and cautious after soooooo many years and sessions with you, he's not into you, and if you go very far with him, you won't enjoy it. It won't be anything special. You will not be satisfied and you might push things more and more next time, and that's why too why some of us never let the cat out of the bag in the first place. It's pretty lame to not go as far as massaging the glutes due to covid, and useless to start draping afterdrawing pandemic, like that will help prevent anything. Wearing masks doesn't do much of anything either, especially while getting massaged in a stranger's home that's been breathing and coughing everywhere.

In my experience every single Indian and Persian was rapey to the point where I could have filed a legit police report. I guess in their cultures, a masseur is a whore and isn't allowed to say no. With Asians it's hit or miss, usually the ones born in the USA aren't as aggressive as the older guys who were born elsewhere. As for ages, men under 25 are flakey and men over 60 are problematic because they're often really aggressive too, manipulative, and/or really depressing to be around because they're really sad and lonely.

Did you ask him? Maybe he just wasn't into you. A longtime client made passes at me last week and then asked me if I played with clients and I just told him no, which was a lie, and then he asked if I found him attractive. I told him he was attractive but I wasn't sexually attracted to him and wasn't excited. I then told him to hire the really young and new masseurs for extras because they're easily dazzled and you can literally get away with murder with them. I should make a list of new, young masseurs and refer the guys I don't want to service to them. Everyone wins.

I only don't respond if I see that the prospective client is of a certain age and/or of a certain ethnicity that from experience is going to be very difficult and cringey and aggressive, and if I find their facebooks/Instagram and don't like what they post. So perhaps the others do the same since we have to investigate our clients for our own safety, and comfort level.

Is monkeypox even still a thing anymore? I never hear about it but I also do read liberal slanted normie news, and new clients don't ask about it either. A few weeks ago one visiting client said he was so scared and stressed about monkeypox and that he got his first dose and wanted to know if I've been vaxxed for it, so instead of telling him no, I just told him his first dose is useless and he has to wait weeks after his 2nd dose before any close physical contact with another human. He said okay and that hell contact me next month lol

Nope I'm serious and just because Im paranoid and don't want to be jabbed for a bioweapon, doesn't mean I lie about my hib negative status. I'm not a prostitute sorry not sorry. Make sure you get your 5th booster!

Like those can't be faked.

I don't have monkeypox though, so lying about being vaccinated is that same thing, especially when the vaccine does not prevent transmission. We can still catch it and transmit. This whole mutant strain of it isn't even natural but that's a whole story for another thread and another forum. So if the client is vaccinated and waited 2 weeks or whatever after their 2nd dose, then in theory according to the flip flopping mainstream news, he should be fine. It shouldn't matter whether I'm vaxxed or not. After the midterms/holidays no one will be talking about this. This will quietly go away pretty soon.

On rentmasseur, what the hell is the difference between sensual and erotic? Clients use those two words interchangeably.

It is a gay issue and will never really jump into the larger population. Semen is the main factor for transmission moreso than more skin to skin contact. It's no mystery why it exploded after the pride month. Even if we have relations with a few closeted bisexual/do it still wouldn't be enough to become a full blown pandemic. Everyone is laughing at us.

I was mortified when a client came up to me and grabbed me at the Abbey and my friends laughed at me. If he didn't look like George Washington, and had I actually liked him, and was drunk enough I would not have minded so much.

Yes, people have received that full monkeypox vaccine and still caught it and still developed those lesions/bumps/whatever they are, and can still infect others.