Vulgarii

He keeps the prices lower to see more young clients his age regularly so that they can afford him. When you get that busy, you can pick and choose who you work on.

I think it's a given that if you are or are approaching the senior citizen age, and/or are really big, and/or have a facial deformity, it is very polite to tell the provider beforehand. You can't assume someone just because someone advertises, that he is open to everyone. I can't get hard for everyone nor can I fake it nor medicate myself to do it, so I'd rather offer up that opportunity to another provider. My recommendation is to ask the providers that look super young 18 to 22 yo because they're newbies and haven't been jaded yet and they're so easily impressed by compliments and fast cash, that they will hardly turn anyone down. I even made a list of a few of my youngest competitors, which I refer people to, and I see it as good karma for myself.

To give you the optimum chance of being satisfied, you have to make sure he is into doing that. You have to tell him what you want and you should describe yourself. I had regular client that asked me to kiss him so I pecked him on the lips and he told me to really kiss him, and I declined. He irritated me because of a few things before in our sessions and I wasn't attracted to him at all. I told him he was going to tell that I don't mean it and don't want to do it. He understood and thankfully left me alone. I'm sure he really wanted some foreplay but he never addressed it verbally, beforehand, and he hired me for a massage, not that.

The hardest part is not being able to know what my client looks like if I can't find his name and social media and verify his age, and other factors. I do not service everyone so that's the hardest part. The 2nd is that there aren't safe places for us to advertise when we want business. Back in the day, if business was slow, you could just post an ad on craigslist and meet someone, or just strut the sidewalk, LOL.

When I'm really attracted to a client, and we played around and had a good time, I tell them straight out to contact me again soon and the session will be my treat. After so many years, that "method" has only worked with 2 guys, while the rest just prefer to come to me and pay me. Oh well, if they want to pay me when I clearly insinuated that I would F them for free, then by all means... I understand that different men have their different reasons for paying, and some have told me it's the professional context that makes it okay for them versus something personal. They also don't feel guilty cheating on their partners if they are paying me. Whatever floats your boat!

His face, his feet, his hygiene, personality, if he's circumcised, good kisser, and I don't care what he pays or tips as long as I enjoy him and see him often.

I just like the first message to be short and to the point. I dont care to chat and flirt with people I don't know, and lately I've been getting a lot of that. One attorney client would just pop in and ask me one question a day. Another guy wanted me to basically hold his hand and walk though his first gay experience or whatever. I don't care for that, especially if I don't know what someone looks like. This isn't the 90s. I'm not some hotline. I enjoy it when a prospective client sends me a photo because it saves me time trying to find a picture of them on social media and looking up their name and age online, and over the years I get the feeling that clients send their pictures not so much to make me comfortable and give me a sense of ease, but they do it for maybe an unspoken way to get my consent to be erotic with them. "I sent you my picture, and although nothing was asked beforehand about nudity and eroticism, I expect a sensual experience because you took the appointment. You accepted me." I know I am paranoid and crazy. And the young good looking guys that send their pictures are often flakey and cancel 9 times out of 10. Do they expect me to worship and drool over them and offer them a discount or a free massage because they're 25 yo and cute??? Probably.

A man dressing like peter pan or even Ms. Doubtfire isn't the same as drag queens. You know it, and everyone else knows it. They don't have that blatant sexual tone, hand dance sexually, and often aren't speaking with some fake New England accent. Idk why drag queens always talk like that but that's besides the point. We wouldn't complain if so many weren't busted for charges for child molestation, assault, and even possession of CP. We wouldn't complain so much if they weren't provocatively dressed as a caricature of sleazy women, and if we didn't have footage of them twerking and teaching kids to twerk and having kids give them dollar bills. The mothers that have their kids participate in that are absolutely sick.

Yeah regular people that aren't twerking and don't have rap sheets for molestation. Idk why these people can't vet these drag queens and at least make sure they've never been to jail.

No I was an extreme BLM pan african indigenous power liberal. I still am pro choice but for a completely different reason lol. I never gave a shit about Catholicism and rebelling, that shit is so 90s cliche.

Where's the lie though? He might offend people but he's not really lying. All the stats show we are pretty miserable and suffer from pathologies exponentially more than straights. There's an epidemic of middle aged gays committing suicide and none of our activist organizations and publications even care to spread awareness about it. I often recommend to these bible thumpers to just stick to the science and reference statistics. The numbers don't lie and they make a bigger impact than the sin bullshit.

Yeah a simple flu. We're both healthy and 30, we'll survive, just like the last time

Where is this "long covid" coming from? Is there long influenza/long flu? Something's obviously up.

When I was a liberal I was always angry and stressed over issues I didn't understand and didn't really care about, nor could do anything about, which is the culture, and I had a weird mission in my heart to work with planned parenthood and raise funds for abortions for poor women who couldn't afford them, and a weird goal to become a sexologist and sexualize everyone, I had taught a class on sex magick rituals and occultism, and I wanted to teach sex ed to teenagers which would have been a more wild and inclusive sex ed than what I received in my catholic prep schools. This woke mob culture today thrives on meme pathogens and mind viruses and you can just get infected and not really know what the F you are thinking and what you stand for. These educators and activists are just lost and are completley selfish and delusional. I believe though that everyone can wake up and change and turn their loves around.

Drag queen story hour is totally inappropriate for kids and I can't stand liberal women who have some fascination and fetish with gay men like we are some proud no shame slutty fantasy and angelic victims that they get to dream and cry about....so with that being said, I get a sick pleasure knowing that they are just damaging their kids and their kids most likely won't give them grandchildren. So it's some natural selection type of thing.

I got covid in January and I deduced that I got it from a client who told me he had it the week prior. So I got covid again last week, and it pretty much lasted 2 days but I coincidentally heard from this random client again, and I took his appointment and saw him, and probably returned the favor.

Was it real though or a part of the latino badboy fetish? A lot of men and women turn to sex work because they can't do anything else for some reason or another.

I just assume clients that take a long time showering, are doing the incognito thing and they are really taking a dump beforehand. So they let the shower run, and then flush when they get out. LOL. It's much better than pooping but turning on the sink faucet and hoping that no one knows what you're doing, but we all know. I have a fancy bidet but I prefer clients to also shower if they use it, because it's just nasty and disrespectful to me. I've had clients that just have a natural smelly butt and it's so gross spending that whole time smelling it, and then their smell will remain on my skin and fingernails. It's so damn gross and rude. If a client has to shower then I prefer them to shower at my place because their asses can sweat on the car ride over. Thanks for listening to my TED talk.

Oh well boohoo, I'm glad foreign guys can't come here and work on my turf, and if they want to they just have to be smart about it.

All cultures colonize, just some didn't have the weapons and ships yet, and I want my borders safe and protected especially from those that want to execute me for being gay, and jail, physically punish, and/or execute gays in their countries.

What do being fat/obese and being promiscuous and having STDs, have in common? Poor discernment and impulse control. It's not really the lack of access and sex ed. We all had sex ed in some form in school, and low income families have free clinics and plenty of free health services, and often even more if they are low income non-whites. I'm tired of seeing racism and the lack of access as being the go-to excuses for the higher rates of STDs among my fellow gay men of color. Wth COVID it's interesting and a little more complicated to look at, but how is it possible that a large portion of the black population is unemployed and they were told to stay home, had nothing else to do since they didn't work, and they still caught COVID or suffered more than other groups? They just didn't do what they were told. We also had that whole 2020 summer of rioting and youths congregating in large groups, and what a surprise, they brought it home to mom and grandma.

Is it still a thing? I haven't heard of monkeypox in almost 2 months.

I don't think they monitor our websites, I think they looked through his phone and he eventually told the truth. I've serviced way too many high profile attorneys, judges, policemen, and one confirmed fed last month, and if I could verify their identities and find their info using simple websites, then they aren't worrying about those websites being monitored and their associates finding out their "hobbies." But I still wouldn't put it past Big Brother. The thing is a lot of us have been used for espionage for decades and that's not a secret. If the gov is cracking down on anything, it must be that they have an operation going on, and only want "their people" in the game, for right now.

But what did he do in person? Did he actually assault in person? Talking shit on a forum shouldn't get anyone terminated elsewhere.

Who hands out these cute awards that are on your website, and where was the competition?