Michael PhD

I would disagree on calling it a double standard. If one advertises a business and leaves a number for contacting and scheduling that does not constitute an agreement that the client is open to solicitation. 

I’d consider cosmo. Been there a few times and made a connection that continued in the rooms upstairs 2 out of 3 times there. 

I’d say pretty close. He’s very cut and muscular. 

Met him this past week. Great massage. Really deep pressure. If he was local, I’d be a regular. Strictly therapeutic. 

Hello. I saw this guy is visiting. Any experience? I’m very interested in meeting him. I may give it a go if no one has any experience to share. 
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30145/
 

Appreciate the feedback. 
 
I am not planning to see either. 
 
My bi buddy isn’t out and I don’t plan on outing him by telling his son that I know his dad in that way. He’s upset and hasn’t talked to me after this all came out and I promised I wouldn’t see his son again. 
 
My buddy’s son and I have met for almost 3 years. We are more than fuck buddies. Friends at minimum. No long term potential but we have mutual respect and what I find challenging is how abrupt this will be for him to hear without sharing context. I’ve been vague with him this past month when he texts but he can tell something is off. Doesn’t feel right to ghost him. Doesn’t feel right to lie. Doesn’t feel right to not share something to help him understand. 
 
Anyway, thanks for the feedback. I’m not sure how I’ll handle it aside from not meeting either for play… navigating how to end the “relationship” is challenging. 

I had a masseur I met when I was in my early 30s. Great technique, well trained. Met him almost every month when I would travel to New York for 2 years. On a trip to New York one summer, I got in a bad accident. He and I texted often and when he found out I was admitted to the trauma unit, he came and visited. He came probably 15 times over a 6 week hospitalization… fast forward 10 years, we still keep in touch. And I’m the godfather of he and his husbands daughter. A business transaction led to this friendship. Life is too short to pass up making a friend when the right connection is made. 

Well I don’t usually resort to anecdotes to make conclusions but as someone who is also bi, I have met married couples where the man is bi and they have gay children. Most I imagine aren’t out to their children as this lifestyle is not one I find to be easily accepted but I may be wrong. My experience would challenge your statement. Don’t have the data to make a conclusion but would just point out that our experiences do not align so your statement may be true for you and mine true for me. 

I didn’t plan for this or set this up. I’ve made connections with them both. But after the input and much thought, it’s clear that I’ll have to move on from both. 

Well I don’t usually resort to anecdotes to make conclusions but as someone who is also bi, I have met married couples where the man is bi and they have gay children. Most I imagine aren’t out to their children as this lifestyle is not one I find to be easily accepted but I may be wrong. My experience would challenge your statement. Don’t have the data to make a conclusion but would just point out that our experiences do not align so your statement may be true for you and mine true for me. 

I didn’t plan for this or set this up. I’ve made connections with them both. But after the input and much thought, it’s clear that I’ll have to move on from both. 

Hey guys. I’ve gotten into a predicament. 
 
Over the last year I’ve casually been seeing a divorced bi man. We have had a lot of great sexual adventures, one on one and with a third (male and female). 
 
Recently, I asked if he wanted to meet with a submissive bottom who likes “daddy” types. He jumped at the idea. 
 
I sent over pics and a video of the two of us. What I failed to consider is that the guy I was suggesting we tag team is someone he knows… his son. 
 
My long term buddy is pretty upset and wants me to promise to not see his son again. I like the young man and have a lot of fun. 
 
Is it wrong to continue seeing them both without letting the other know? My head says I should stop but I’m hoping some can convince me it’s not as bad as I’ve made it out to be…

Who is this!

I had a masseur I met when I was in my early 30s. Great technique, well trained. Met him almost every month when I would travel to New York for 2 years. On a trip to New York one summer, I got in a bad accident. He and I texted often and when he found out I was admitted to the trauma unit, he came and visited. He came probably 15 times over a 6 week hospitalization… fast forward 10 years, we still keep in touch. And I’m the godfather of he and his husbands daughter. A business transaction led to this friendship. Life is too short to pass up making a friend when the right connection is made. 

I met him. Really great technique and massage. He was naked throughout and minimal mutual touch ensued. 
 
The massage was great. The ending left me wanting more and for the price, don’t think I’ll repeat. Although I’ve lamented the lack of technically skilled masseurs in San Diego so that may be a reason why I end up going back eventually although don’t plan on it currently. 

I met him. Really great technique and massage. He was naked throughout and minimal mutual touch ensued. 
 
The massage was great. The ending left me wanting more and for the price, don’t think I’ll repeat. Although I’ve lamented the lack of technically skilled masseurs in San Diego so that may be a reason why I end up going back eventually although don’t plan on it currently. 

Absolutely not. That would be cruel man. 

😍😍

https://content.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2023_11/small.20231116_163446.jpg.c39a748e90ab48a17066bf8927eeaa75.jpg
 
https://content.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2023_11/small.20231116_163525.jpg.5e672a9c84e805e0fffbc6fe50983d07.jpg