SK in SD

I couldn't scroll past this and not give my link to my profile. No racial requirements here haha.
 
https://rent.men/HungMxeddude/
 
Goodluck regardless!

Undraped feels more natural for massage.

Thank you jdjd and Silver Dollar, he is a smoker and not from Finland.
I tried some Russian on him and he clearly understood me, and spoke back clearly unhappy. (Estonians have no love for their former occupiers)

Why not make a semi-funny remark when you turn around? That's the point at which it's obvious to both of you that both of you know what's going on. He knows that you know that he knows it, so say something like "pardon my excitement" and/or "does this happen often with other guys" etc. Then see how he responds...

Or maybe—-you’re good!

Here's another approach to consider that might provide the opportunity to move things forward but also a relationship saving "out" should he not be interested or ready to provide any additional services.
 
The next time you're on the table, assuming the same thorough leg and butt massage and your same reaction, think about saying something along the lines of "I'm sorry, you're going to need to slow down. This feels so good, it's gotten me kind of excited. I'm kind of embarrassed. I apologize."
 
In this approach you are being very respectful of him, apologizing for something that's an uncontrollable response to the massage he's providing. He has the choice to continue what he's doing knowing that you're excited, or stop if that was not his intention. It doesn't put you or him in the situation where you're asking for help and he has to agree or decline. It might be hard for him (excuse me) to verbally acknowledge his interest or consent, but he may be OK continuing what you're doing without verbally acknowledging it.
 
If he continues, I wouldn't push it. I'd let what happens, happen even if it's just you letting fly solo. If he does continue, you might consider one more warning - "man if you keep going I think I'm going to cum".
 
I'd be profuse in my gratitude and ensure the tip reflects that gratitude. You can see what happens the next time. Maybe things will go even further.
 
Just my two cents.
 
I had a similar circumstance with a thai masseur I went to for quite a while. Nothing major came from it, but I really enjoyed the sexual tension and his playfulness at each of our sessions (and I think he did too).
 
Please keep us posted! This is fun.

I don’t think I would. I would be subtle and moan a little. Not scream. He’ll get the hint and stop if he thinks it’s inappropriate or continue so that he can watch you spooge. Who doesn’t like the money shot. And then I would tip him nicely

He’s definitely into it. I would probably make some groans when he’s going at it to see how he reacts. A little subtle. I think this is turning him on. I’d be careful about being too Direct. It may scare him.

Dude... he absolutely is into it. If he wasn't he would cover you. And if he wasn't into it... he'd back off on the butt massgae when he saw how much it was turning you on when he saw your hard dripping cock. I bet he had a boner too. Sexuality is fluid for vast majority of people. Most legit straight guys have a small percentage of interest in cock. They would NEVER admit that out loud. I think you should go for it. Text him before the next session and say something like "I'm feeling that I'd like a bit more of a sensual massage... is that something you can offer for an additional fee?"

If the Masseur is a one load a day guy, I have found that the last appointment gets his load:):) After all the sexual tension from earlier sessions, it is usually a big, powerful one:)

Where might one find this exquisite creature?

My first would be the first of many if it wasn't so far away. It was in Phoenix a few years ago. He was older, smooth except for a nice head of hair on his head and above his giant cock. He would knock it into my head while I was face down on the massage table. When I turned over, he maneuvered his genitals to my face and massaged my calves, feet and upper legs while we 69ed. He then removed the face rest, got on his back, and massaged my ass while I fucked his face! It was so amazing I almost couldn't believe the experience I was having. Sadly for all of us, he retired to spend more time with his children. Perhaps we can be lucky down the road if they have his genetics!

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

I had a very similar experience, also at an upscale hotel spa in New Delhi. After the massage, the masseur asked/told me to take a steam in the steamroom and that he would meet me in there to do more massage. A few minutes later, he came in wearing a towel and massaged my shoulders. We ended up jacking each other off and then both cumming. I wanted him to come up to my room but I wasn’t so gutsy at the time. Thanks for reminding me about this hot incident!!

It was my second that left me a little surprised. It was with Asian Max in SF. I was laying on my front as he started rub me with his oiled body which I enjoyed. Then he started to use his hard cock to go up and down the crack of my butt. I didn't expect this and at first thought I thought it was his fingers then I thought in my mind is that his dick? I realized it was his dick i thought whoa. He then inserted his dick ( only for a couple of seconds). He is small so it didn't hurt.

Well, my actually first erotic massage wasn't expected.
I was in New Dehli at an upscale hotel and after a long day of travel decided on a massage.
I went downstairs, showered in the facility and then this gorgeous, tall Indian man comes in and takes me to a room with a large marble table.
I laid down on my stomach, nude and was covered in olive oil and rubbed and massaged for quite sometime.
I would always pop a boner whenever anyone gets down between my thighs or around my glutes and sure enough... then it's time to turn over and there's no hiding it.
After he massages my chest, etc. he just grabs my dick and starts to massage it, as he's doing that I'm feeling his hard cock thru his pants.
I come but am suddenly really embarrassed, I shower and end up tipping him double the cost of the massage.
 
That actually got me started on my erotic massage quest.

Mine was on January 14 2012 with the amazing RoccoRomo. Went home and then straight to him on a stormy cold night! Didn't know what to expect but I was glad I did. The man is built like Bruno the porn star. Massaged every part of my body with hands and tongue... teased me with his 8.5 uncut dick like mine but wouldn't fuck me because I only asked for erotic massage. Needless to say, I went back to him each time he was in town till last Jan 2018 to be licked, sucked, massaged, role play, and fucked!

I was probably in my late 20s and very naive. I was on a business trip and I contacted a masseur who came to my hotel room. He was around my age but apparently far less naive. I was getting the massage and suddenly he was inside me. I just let it happen. I was so inexperienced at sex that everything was a complete surprise. I enjoyed it but had no idea what hit me.

I was 26 or so, the guy did massage out of his house, in a big library-type room with a fireplace, on a mat on the floor. He was massaging my back, then worked down to my legs very close to my ass, and I said something like "you're giving me a hard-on". He responded "Let me see", and rolled me over, and it turned into more play than massage at that point.

My first Erotic Massage was on a business trip. I hired a masseur for an outcall. When I answered the door, I felt like I had ordered a pizza. The guy had a classic pizza delivery guy vibe. About 22 years old......but could easily pass for 18 y/o. About 6 ft....with a swimmers build. He had no table, so he spread a sheet on the bed. He stripped first, and as he took off his pants out dropped an enormous cock, thick and with a huge head. I quickly stripped and got on the bed. He started on my upper back, and did an amazing job. Big, strong hands. He did a foot massage, and then he made his move. When he did the foot massage, in a smooth move, he took my one leg and put it at my side, and without asking dove into my ass with his tongue. He was very verbal, and kept murmuring how hot I was ( sure, I 'll take that LOL). I was a bit unsure whether to let him continue, but went with the flow. He must have rimmed me for over 15 minutes, and kept reaching and pinching my nipples at the same time as he was rimming me. I was rock hard and stroking myself, and reached over to him and he was rock hard. He kept being verbal, telling me to relax and enjoy his tongue. At my request, I then asked him if we could stand up for a minute. We both stood up, and he then dove into my chest, licking and sucking my nipples, again being verbal. I was ready to burst, so asked if we could get back on the bed. We then got into a 69 position, and went at each other's cocks. He was then ready to cum, and as I took my mouth off his cock, he shot and hit the headboard and it dripped down. (he later claimed he shoots even further) He then had me lay on my back, and finished me off with a blow job. After he finished me off, he said he could cum again, and asked if he could stand on the bed, while I laid back since he wanted to shoot all over me. So he then came again, all over my chest and abs. That's 22 years old for you! Great first erotic massage experience with an expert masseur....and an expert tongue!

http://www.grrmassage.com.
 
 
It was Mike in Vegas and yes as a first time experience it was amazing! Very personable guy and lots of fun.

Relatively new at this so first session was fairly recent and was amazing. The Guy was a hairy bear type and not a twink and was both a massage and male bonding experience. Started with both of us getting nude and me getting a really nice back massage. After about 20 minutes we moved to the bed where he wrapped his hairy nude body around mine and we explored each other's body and did some kissing and a lot of nipple play which went on for about 20 minutes with both so hard the whole time. He then got me to get back onto the table and massage my front all over as I continued to explore his body as he massage me. Great ending and great first m4m massage!

And here I was getting ready for an intelligent discourse on the recent Diane Arbus show at SFMOMA....
 
https://www.sfmoma.org/exhibition/diane-arbus-beginning/
 
Grin

I would rather be undraped, therapeutic or sensual. It feels more intimate.

I guess I really picked a good comprehensive massage school and got a lot for my tuition. That was included and I even get monthly refresher courses with the instructor for the next 10 years at no additional cost!!:p