SK in SD

Igor's expired Rentmen ad gives an explicit tour of him:
https://rent.men/Igor

These are mine:
Bliss - https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43079/ super cute guy, very warm and gracious, YMMV, but actually trained with sensual elements/release 
James - https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41365/ sexy man, great body, average massage, but looks great and allows some engagement
Armond - https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/21896/ good menu of options, solid massage with good options for extras plus solid price point
El- https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6049/ naked, mutual touch, amazing skills, great price point, very flexible with booking, top 3 massages for me (ever)
Pat - https://rentmasseur.com/Pat_CertifiedMT above average massage, solid extras included in price
Shamanic - https://rentmasseur.com/ShamanicExtasy overall sweet guy, good experience, nice journey
Guys I have on my radar - 
Adonis - https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41859/ been very slow to respond, but something leads me to believe it'll be a good experience
Brian - https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/42331/ YMMV up here, but willing to take the leap, if nothing more than to get a great massage
David - https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/42373/ hard to book with, but willing to keep working at it
Mark - https://rentmasseur.com/marktunnel nice blog, solid reviews too

And easy to find because all roads lead to him.

He’s heading to San Diego soon. I’m glad I found this thread. 

Sean Stavos
https://boyfriendtv.com/model/sean-stavos-2284/

Many of us have lamented the current sorry state of options so I figured it’s time for an update on who’s good for therapeutic-plus. As always, YMMV. 
 
my subjective list:
David: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39497/
Caleb: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41456/
Rainer: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/12857/
Nick (he’s recovering from surgery now): https://rentmasseur.com/Nordic_Hands
Drew (though leans more play than therapeutic): https://rentmasseur.com/ARH
Dylan (when he’s in town - reliably books in advance - my Number One): https://rentmasseur.com/NERDwBigHands
 
And the ones I’m hopeful about but haven’t been seen by guys here yet:
Cowboyy: https://rentmasseur.com/CowBoyyy
Don: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43350/
Jayson: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43112/
Kevin: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43456/
Jaime (he has good word here): https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43792/
look forward to your contributions 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Hired him. Very strong therapeutic massage. I should have told him to dial back some when focusing on the feet. It was too much for my preference. Draping is at your discretion. I’d recommend. 

I've been doing this a little longer than you, and I definitely feel like seeing random new guys can be frustrating. So I've been tending to stick with a couple of regulars, whom I always enjoy. I know what I'm getting as do they. And, importantly, I genuinely like them as people. For me, that means if one of us is having an "off day", it's so much more forgivable because we enjoy each other's company. 
And as providers - particularly the young, beautiful and nearly always inexperienced - want to charge $350 for a massage, my regulars have kept their rates the same. So I always tip them in appreciation. 
I do sometimes enjoy the thrill of a new person, but I tend to save that for when I'm traveling or if none of my "go-to" guys are available. 

Not sure if this is best in “The Lounge” or here, since its mainly the masseurs.
 I’ve only discovered the world of RentMasseur in the past few years and the thrill of not knowing how far a massage or even how good of a massage it will be … the thrill of the “hunt” for me is waning. 
You get your rub and tugs, oiling you like it’s a bodybuilding competition and limits on you (but public and dm’ed reviews from other forum members say otherwise). I’m not complaining (that much), just venting (?).  I’m average…not that young nor that old, not ugly nor movie star material, some meat on my bones that probably could use some gym time but with good to great hygiene. It’s a service, paid with hard-earned cash, but the takeaways are so random.   I won’t be a hypocrite and say i’ve only gotten bad massages and basic extras - i think more than half of my RMasseur hires were the wonderful and legit massages with all the after-massage activities expected …… and much more (as compared to what a few forum members and I have shared regarding a masseur or two that we’ve seen).
I might just need to take a short break from this hobby.  Or maybe a feeling of entitlement (?) that “cash = massage” equals should be applied to all.  
I’m just curious on what others’ take on this. Just keep truckin’ and it’s the thrill of the unknown? 
 (There is also a sense of delusional infatuation with one or two masseurs for me but i’ve read well-established helpful forum posts about this topic. Thank you, search function)
 
(if i don’t make sense, my apologies)
 
 

I saw him years ago and towards the end of the massage he climbed up On the table and started riding me like he was in the rodeo … surprise and fun but maybe he is a ymmv type of guy

@7829V Are we getting follow-up pictures of them legs (full torso on down preferable) for, um, medical/scientific follow-up purposes? 👀

Los Angeles here, but this California Department of Public Health website should be able to help you get a vaccination appointment scheduled.
https://myturn.ca.gov/
The first does was VERY.  HARD.  TO.  GET. a month ago.
I got the second dose last week by scheduling an appointment via this website and I was in and out in less than 20 minutes, inclusive of the 15 minute wait after the injection.
The first dose was injected in the back of my arm / tricep area but I was also given the second dose in my forearm.
Please note that it takes time for the vaccine to take effect in your system -- see attached.

Maybe my experience is too different but maybe in the end we are all the same.
Both my wife and I are bisexual. We married as friends, not "lovers".  We decided to share a life together and raise children, but that didn't mean we don't still have strong physical urges to be with other people, especially indulging in a same sex partner.  I think all relationships whether they be hetero or homosexual, are based primarily on TRUST. That means whatever your boundaries might be in an open relationship, they need to be AGREED upon and respected honestly.
For US....a physical relationship with a professional, is one that doesn't include any romantic interludes. So, an erotic massage that's paid-for is viewed as a no-risk encounter. My wife on the other-hand has her Lesbian friends who she spends time, and occasionally that time becomes intimate. So in the end, I am the one who worries more about infidelity than my wife. It is very much that intimacy of an ongoing outside-relationship that leaves one wondering at what point the boredom of your day to day might draw your partner to the excitement of a new lover. 
My advice is to avoid the gray-area of romantic intimacy with more than one person. It always feels threatening to your partner and risks confusing your own heart.
 

A fireman fuck buddy of mine is married.  When the fireman needs a massage, he goes to a franchise/chain massage business for the cheap price and decent massage, then texts me when he's on his way home to see if he can stop by my house to finish him off before he goes home to his husband.  I'm almost always happy to oblige.  It's quite a nice arrangement for all involved. 

Sensual massage is sensual massage. “Something more serious” with someone who provides sensual massage is not just sensual massage, it’s …something more serious. 

I keep my pastime to myself, because I am clear about the limits of the exchange from my POV. Bodywork (like spa-level) with maybe a HE. Small talk, no full names, no plans for coffee…
Single or married, just know what you’re looking for in the hire. 

Just wondering how many of you guys are in LTRs and your partner knows that you enjoy sensual massages? Do you have clear boundaries on what’s allowed? Is your relationship open or only sensual massages are allowed? 
I met a guy and maybe (big maybe) it could become something more serious. So I just want to get a feeling on how other couples handle massages while in a relationship… assuming is a “monogamous” one… or you stop getting massages all together?

I know each relationship is different and everyone could set their own rules… I just want to hear other experiences. Thanks.

Well....so a year and a half after my previous comment I finally met him!!!!......and........😉😉🙂.
but now he is REALLY hairy!!!

He did do the massage naked.

it has nothing to do with age

A friend that is studying to become a dermatologist said that she thinks that is foliculitis.
I’ve no other symptoms. And it is very localized. 

Not yet. I’d like to have a medical diagnosis first. 

I had a rash a few years ago from using a different laundry detergent or fabric softener. I switched & it cleared up. Not saying that’s what happened here, but if the sheet you were on during the massage had a chemical your body doesn’t like, you never know. 

Saw AllTheFeels a few weeks ago. So much better looking and personable than those pictures would have you believe. Not quite sure why he uses them. Decent massage. Fairly standard extras. MT. HE. Nothing very passionate but YMMV. Again, a very nice guy which goes a long way in my book.
And discreetmassage.... hard pass.
 

I’m gonna try him out tomorrow night, so 🤞🏻 

Dear Lord,
May this masseur be real and may I be blessed to receive his touch.