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    First time threesome advice?

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    10 hours ago, Bargara Leatherboy said:

    I have had a few, one with two providers in Melbourne who advertise as working well together - and that they did .  Both Tops - I had a delightful couple of hours with them.  Its best not to overthink it but to discuss what you want before and during 

    Thank you! Yes I’m really going to go and try and go with the flow. I’ve watched some videos and got some idea that I’ve shared with them without being too prescriptive. Ultimately I’m paying for the experience so hope I won’t feel left out!

    First time threesome advice?

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    10 hours ago, Luv2play said:

    I've had a number over the years. Used to get it for free in my youth, now I pay to set it up. I always choose the two to ensure compatibility with me. But in one case I did hire a couple from LA who turned out to be great at satisfying me altho not to be repeated as one of them was Jay Dymel who unfortunately died several months later. His partner in life as well was Ryan Stone another porn actor. Ryan was a top and Jay top vers. And they both topped me and Jay bottomed for Ryan. Great memory but tinged with sadness. 

     

    Oh that is sad but I’m glad you had fun at the time. 

    First time threesome advice?

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    9 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

    A good option is to try group sex at a sex party. If I’m at a party the groups tend to break off into 3’s for some reason. I mean there will be lots of guys in a room but if you watch it tends to be mostly multiple groups of 3 playing together. People move between the groups. When you’ve had enough in one group you move to another. 

    I think this is because 4’s tend to split into a two, any number more than 4 tends to focus on one recipient (say a guy getting gang banged). So 3 seems to work best for everyone to feel fully involved. At a party you can try lots of different guys in groups of 3 to see what you like best! That’s why I prefer parties for group sex rather than setting a 3some up. 
     

     

    Thanks Jamie! Never been to a sex party and feels quite out of my comfort zone. Maybe I’ll try after this weekend 😉 

    First time threesome advice?

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    7 hours ago, Just Chuck said:

    It's important to ensure that everyone gets a turn being the center of attention for the other two people.  It's easy for the two people with the most chemistry to gravitate towards each other and leave someone feeling left out and undesired.  You can make a game of that with a playtime rule, like: every time the song changes on the music playing, we switch up who's the centerpiece.

    Deciding to sleep together as a threesome is a whole different set of logistic challenges.  Whoever sleeps in the middle better like to be very warm when they sleep.

    Luckily no sleeping over (this time!). I like my space so sleeping over unlikely as a 3! 

    First time threesome advice?

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    11 hours ago, Pensant said:

    I’ve only done three. The first was with an at that time regular. Super cute Latino UCLA student and his hung, but submissive, bf. We tied the bf up and topped him. The whole night was fabulous, really. They decided to stay the night since they lived in WEHO and I was by Laguna Beach. Great brunch the next day.

    The second was with two blonds at the Ritz Carlton Marina del Rey. Dylan, from NYC, and Dakota, an OC boy. Another shockingly hot time. Dakota left his chrome cock ring on overnight and woke up with a throbbing 8” boner. I obviously had to satisfy him so he could get it off. All three of us were in the king bed when the nice man delivered our breakfasts while we were drinking Veuve.

    The third time was at my place with a provider that I’d gotten quite close to and one who’d recently come by for a session. The newer boy pounded my blond and I did feel a bit left out until he gave me the best blow job in my life and drank every last drop.

    So, yeah, my experiences have been nonpareil, although it’s been a long time.

    Wow! Great experiences all around!

    First time threesome advice?

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    3 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

    Lots of people giving advice here, risks you having all sorts of expectations. I’d say don’t overthink it or have unrealistic expectations about how it ‘should’ feel. There’s no right or wrong group sex experience. Sometimes it’s great, sometimes it isn’t. If I think about why that is, it’s usually because of my expectations about the event beforehand. 

    Thank you Jamie !

    411 on Ryan in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    48 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

    no experience, of course, but his write-up seems sharp and sincere.....great body......I hope he works out for you.....let us know!

    Will do! Seems like a pretty genuine post. Will let you know 😉 

    Maxx London

    in The Deli

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    @Harryinny @MscleLovr @craigville beach Thanks a lot for your advice, really appreciate it. I decided to see Maxx last night.


    Without going into review territory he was excellent and I would recommend him. Happy to PM more details.

    On the two reservations, (1) absolutely no issues about him being straight, we covered everything I wanted and (2) didn’t detect any taste etc of smoke. I clarified and he said it is very seldom/social smoking which might explain it.

    Maxx London

    in The Deli

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    1 hour ago, Harryinny said:

    Gay-for-pay is a turn off for me...why to get fucked by a straight guy? what's the point? and a smoker cannot get rid of the smell even if he does not smoke before hand, like eating garlic.

    Got it! Thank you sorry never been with a smoker before! 

     

    25 minutes ago, craigville beach said:

    I can taste that a guy is a smoker when i suck his cock.   not what i'm looking for. 

     

    Thanks a lot. Again as above, never been with a smoker or so-called “straight guy” before

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