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    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Yes you can be explicit with what you want, in the UK, and you should, given your situation.

    (In the US we often can’t be explicit as there are many escorts that fear a police sting, but there are no legal issues in the UK).

    Thank you :)

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Yes you should be clear upfront when you set up the session. But be sure to select someone who clearly offers both a massage and escort service - such as the guy I suggested who clearly offers both services. There are many others who will do the same - reading the descriptions plus the reviews will give you all the necessary indicators. But be upfront when you set up the session so there is no misunderstanding or disappointment for either of you. Hope that helps

    Thank you Dirks. Very clear.

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    All - thank you for your kind support! I’m still trying to figure this all out and understand that perhaps renting isn’t in everybody’s eyes the “perfect” way to experience something with a man for the first time.... if I’m asking silly questions, apologies in advance. I feel grateful for the support on this thread thus far and need the encouragement and wisdom of you all! Thank you

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    my first time was also with a massuer/escort and was with https://rentmen.eu/Harris_Asianstud. I agree with Dirks above where the pressure of sex is not there. The erotic massage just naturally leads to massage/play and then kissing, oral and anal. It was so comfortable that way and have been hiring ever since :) I have not been with Evaldo but based on his reviews seems like you could not go wrong. However, majority of professional escorts would happily just start of with massage and would take it slow and your comfort would be their number 1 priority. Within London, I would recommend the following for versatility:

     

    https://rent.men/Deanmonroex (as above)

    https://rent.men/GabrielCross (as above)

    https://rent.men/TimUK

     

    Hope you find someone and I am sure you will really enjoy it!

    Thank you! Have you been with all 3 guys? I.e. if I sent you a PM you would be able to help with the pros/cons of each? Thank you ?

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Mine was. I've often thought that. On the other hand, if I hadn't, I might never have been able to go on to non-paid encounters as I was a total virgin. As it was it took about 10 years to go from paid encounters to non-paid. Of course non-paid have never occurred very often for me. And since I'm not able to pay anymore, "Junior" doesn't get taken out much anymore. Thank gosh the OP (original poster) here is young (unlike I was) and only has to break his gay cherry and not his virginity cherry like I did.

     

    We all do what we can. And if this is the OP's way, well it's not hurting anyone. And we should be supportive.

     

     

     

    Gman

    Thank you for the support. I know but I identify as straight and wouldn’t feel comfortable/know where to even start for another type of encounter! Sorry :(

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Another option you might want to consider is a masseur/escort. That is how I went about it for my first time and like you I wanted to have some control over my first experience. The erotic massage element also allowed me to get comfortable with the male intimacy without the pressure of worrying about the actual sex. I set the session up as massage/play with the masseur/escort so moved seamlessly from the very intimate massage to the play part with lots of oral, anal and other fun stuff. It was a great way to get started and feel at ease with a man. My guy is no longer available but I see a lot of reviews for Evaldo in London who is a masseur/escort and he seems to be an expert on this type of service. He is on RM and Sleepboy.

    Thank you. Should I be clear with a masseur of what my intentions are..... be that clear I.e. i want it to transition into something else? Sorry for the particular questions :(

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I agree with the Gabriel Cross recommendation. A really nice guy. But re the advice about whether you prefer someone who says they only play safe: if you want safe sex, have safe sex with whoever you choose. Then it does not matter if they practice safe sex otherwise....that is why it's called safe sex. You cannot rely on what guys say in their profile. Gabriel Cross is good example. His profile says "safe only." Though he may indeed only do safe sex with clients from RM, a quick search on the internet will lead to videos in which he clearly does not.

     

    Thank you. Yes I will only do Safe sex.

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Jonas is only advertising as a top. But you can always ask.

     

    I'm going to shamelessly plug Dean again. I was so nervous the first time I met him that I felt so bad that I wanted to add an extra tip. (I should also mention that aside from being nervous meeting him-there was the real possibility that meeting him would make me miss my plane flight home and make me miss work. If I hadn't been wanting to meet him for so long (I had wanted to meet him for a long time, but he only made infrequent visits to the USA, and never to where I lived. Then he retired from escorting for a while, and I thought I had missed my chance to meet him) I wouldn't have taken that risk.

     

    So he walked me out to my rent car. As I was about to leave, I wanted to add an extra tip onto the tip I had given him previously. He actually refused it.

     

    Ok shameless plug over.

     

    Gman.

    Hahaha - ol, will contact him and see what he reaponds. Thank you for the suggestion though!

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    If you don’t mind a short-ish muscle guy, there is “Gabriel Cross”:

    https://rentmen.eu/GabrielCross

     

    He is very attentive, he is a very bright, happy guy, very much a good listener and can do everything you describe, and much more if you feel like it! (I am told he is a great top, I have tried him and found him to be a great bottom).

    He provided me with an unrushed, very enjoyable time.

    He loves a man’s body: I felt as if he was into me, even though I am not good looking.

     

    If you would like to see more before deciding you can find some of his porn leaked on pornhub, etc. Just search for his stage name, “Gabriel Cross”.

     

    He is strongly recommended not just by me, but by others on this forum, like @JEC.

     

    Let us know who you choose and how it went!

     

    Thank you for your advice. I will check him out... I’ve seen some of his videos :) He’s quite stocky but seems super nice... how about Jonas Jackson? They seem to do a lot of work together....

     

    https://rentmen.eu/JonasJacksonXXX

    Virgin in London

    in The Deli

    Posted

    So.... here we go!

     

    A little bit about me.... and sorry it’s such a long post!

     

    I’m a late 20’s straight guy, who is attracted to both women and men. I’ve only ever however been with women my entire life... never plucked up the courage to “experiment” with guys at school/college/uni and now have this increasingly burning desire to see what it’s like to be with a man. I’ve been checking out rentmen and sleepyboy for months on end but never pulled the trigger. Hence why I’m here writing for your advice!

     

    I want my first time to be with an escort. I feel a lot more comfortable being in a controlled environment where my situation is clear from the get go. I’m not the sort to download Grindr and do a pot luck. Being straight - I wouldn’t even know where to start! I know some of you will say that I’m young and shouldn’t have to feel obliged to do this... but this is my preference. I have a good job and could afford a 2-3 hour encounter with an escort (is that even long enough?).

     

    What do I want?

    I want to try touching another man, try giving oral, and idealy have a versatile experience where I can give and receive anally (for the first time!). Basically I need someone who would be patient and nice enough not to completely destroy me....!

     

    Does anybody have any good suggestions on escorts that they would recommend in London based on versatile experiences they’ve had and what I’m looking for?

     

    Any other advice you could give would also be amazing!

     

    Thanks for all your help.

    A nervous curious guy,

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