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That must be exhausting to travel so much around the globe and staying for 2-4 days in each city. The length one has to go to skim quick buck from locals. 

That Girthmasterr guy, wow, amazing.

This is about accurate for myself as well. However, can we agree that girth is a huge factor as well?
Oh and, the thicker, the better. 😊

Most MEDIOCRE escorts. The best keep improving with age.
If a provider's greatest attribute is muscle tone, they've retired long before 38.
If a provider is older than 38, they are generally more skilled at keeping a client "happy" for a longer percentage of the date, ready to do the heavy lifting to make the encounter fun, less likely to run out after only 38 minutes have passed, have better stories to tell, are less likely to be late or last minute cancellation, and are really your safest bet it you want to avoid a scam.,

Saw his profile and it really was standing out to me. I gave it a try in January he responded and came to my place dressed nice. Unfortunately that's where the good experience ended. He asked for the money first. It took him time to get hard and it felt rushed. It was a waste of time and money. 
Would Not repeat. 

I texted him today.  The incall rate was 500.  I’ll pass.

Yeah tell him there are actual porn stars in NYC that charge less so he's not getting $500.

My new theory is, if there’s any pics of Dubai in your ad, you’re boring and lazy as shit.

It's a sauna so yes, correct, as a client you are also expected (required actually) to wear only a towel. (whether you wear underwear under it or not is up to you. Most don't). 
You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation.
Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest to not do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider).
If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before). 
A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline. 
Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting). 
You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry. 
After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there. 
The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate).
If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them.
I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉
Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna. 
Hope this helped! 

Well, extremely disappointing. He is a stand and pose type, no effort type guy and way overpriced. Would NOT do that again.

Back in NYC.

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Don't know when he's coming back to USA but wanted to make a post...saw him a while ago and can confirm the pictures in his RM ad are accurate and not photoshop! All you size queens might want to track his RM ad so you can pounce once he returns home 😁....

No thanks

As a bottom client, I can feel the difference with a condom and without.  I won't hire an escort if he's going to use a condom (I verify in advance if bareback is okay).  With a hookup, I don't mind if he uses a condom for whatever reason.  I just don't want to pay for that experience.

Thanks, all. The consensus does seems to be that the combo of "no communication and no show" is the dealbreaker and that 15-30 minutes is a fair "grace period" in such situations. 
I did find that communicating the boundary of my patience ("if I don't hear back by ___") proved a sanity-saver for me yesterday, so I'll likely carry that forward.
And for those who might be interested:
The gent did ultimately contact me, about two hours after we were set to meet. His story -- if true -- would suggest that he simply had a very bad day, complicated by some truly bad luck. So I'm willing to accept that he may actually be legit, given the enthusiasm of other posters. As for me, I go back and forth on whether I believe the gent's story as I also take come comfort from the not-insubstantial pile of dollars that remain in my pocket.

Going silent is not OK. At the very least the provider should communicate if they are running late and an expected ETA. This communication should be sent before the scheduled meeting time. This is common courtesy and good business etiquette.
If there is no communication and no show, then I would wait no more than 15 minutes. Reach out to another provider or Grindr - as a bottom this type of behaviour is extremely frustrating given that I probably would not have eaten the entire day + spent a lot of time prepping for our meeting.

I hired BoyXXXL with a 2nd Latino top,Alfonso XL
He is very very hung,thick,stayed hard,very nice guy,did everything i asked him to do,very hot very hard xxl top guys,just like his pics hoping to hire him again 

I had an excellent experience with boy_XXXL. He's a lot of fun and I would hire him again. 
He's on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Cas3yCruz
And OnlyFans: https://https://onlyfans.com/cas3ycruz 
 

Danielnarssi 

I’ve hired him several times and every time it was great. He not only gave me a helluva ride each time, he was sweet and charming and fun to talk to afterwards. For me, five stars. 

Maybe one for his balls and other for his dick as they can’t seem to all fit in the same pic?

yes - that’s him.  he usually goes between nyc & Miami.  
the old profile seems to be gone.  he’s a good guy & still my favorite 

A few months ago on this forum I posted that it is, indeed, the same provider. I reached out to this guy because I had seen him a few times before (🍆ouch!😂) and he confirmed that both profiles are him. Why he has 2 profiles showing him in different continents, I don’t know. 

Using the word "hotlink" marks you as an authentic Old Timer. 
Wear that label with pride!  🥰

I was getting a massage recently. The masseur knows Jose_ok personally, and I mentioned that I would try to hire him soon. This masseur knows that I like massage for relaxation; extra deep (which is what Jose_ok is known for) is not my thing. He paused and said, “Ohhhhhhhh… you want the BABY ARM experience.” 😂