Dolman

It's best practice to put your city (or the city of the escort) in the subject of the thread to increase the number and helpfulness of the responses.  You may want to ask a moderator to modify the title of this thread to include "NYC" if it's too late to edit it yourself.

I’ve so appreciated this forum and the many times I was spared difficulties. This comment isn’t meant to be terribly harsh - but I had a bad experience with our super stud. 
We had spent several days mapping out time, activities, rates and after a final confirmation, he sent his address. 
I traveled a long way to see him (plane ride long) and only had one opportunity.
I showed up at the appointed time and waited. Reached out ten min past. Waited until 30 min past to ping again and then one more try at 45 min past our appointment. I left so bummed and unrequited. He finally responded and here is the problem. Shit happens. I had even said twice ‘I hope you are Ok.’ But he tried to tell me we hadn’t confirmed. When I texted screen shots of just how VERY confirmed we were, I was ghosted. 
I very much wish it wasn’t so. 

On the contrary. I found your post charming, honest and refreshing. Sorry that did not come across.

Well, I suppose the objective of this site is to enable clients to provide commentary of providers.
This site is for clients primarily.
I would imagine (although I have zero evidence to support the theory) that we clients have a collection of providers that we hold dear. I know that I certainly do. I like to broadcast positive vibes about the providers that I like. I like to drum up new, fresh, reoccurring business for the guys I think favourable towards.
However, if there happens to be an encounter with a provider that I have felt particularly cautious or uncomfortable about, then I feel obligated to broadcast that to this community too. I try to do it in a factual perspective rather than an emotional one but I would most certainly broadcast every single detail of an interaction that was not a professional transaction between someone who is selling themselves as a business model and myself who is purchasing time with that person.
I understand that some providers are not actually in a great place mentally, emotionally or physically to be in this industry of client satisfaction, however, we *should* be alerting one another about providers like that.
Treat the providers with respect. Treat other clients on this site with respect. State factual reviews at will.
 

Too many comments on this board from clients who have so little regard for providers and their problems. life is complicated. have had my share of issues with providers. including providers too drugged out to perform. even passed out. BUT have heard it a thousand times from guys i hire about how much they appreciate my stability given the litany of alcoholic,  drugged, closeted guys, stinking, rancid in their body hygiene clients who walk through the door. Providers have a really tough job. Just shocking what i have heard about how clients present themselves. But then expect easy going absolute perfection from the provider at any cost.
So, please give providers who have a problem a break. Especially a substance problem. Be kind. Rise above your sexual needs at the moment and reach out and be compassionate. Kind. Call 911 is the situation warrants it. No excuse for not being a decent human being. Period. Please.

Hey Guys,
I set up an appt w this guy and his buddy over week before I came to NY. Had great communication, got in touch the day before our appointment to confirm. All good. 30 min before the time I let him know I was on my way. While I was in the taxi, he texted to ask me if I could push a half hour because they were coming back from an appointment that ran late. I said sure, but I didn’t want anyone to feel rushed and could reschedule if that would be better. I never heard a word back. I was shocked after such clear and nice, sexy back and forth. Totally wasted my time. 

Him and his boyfriend flaked on me as well. fortunately no deposit was involved. i suspect they have issues.

i've now met HoleBoss. Sweet guy. Very attractive and easy going. Thick. Real thick. A considerate top! The best kind.

There is no harm in sending a text message. As @DynamicUno said just to be safe don't send too detailed of a message in case the number was reassigned. I'd send something like "Hi there. I'm going to be coming to Phoenix and wanted to schedule another appointment if you're available when I am in town." If he's not taking any bookings at all from anyone I'm sure he'll reply back to let you know or if no reply at all after a day or two then unfortunately start looking at other options.

I don't think it's a problem to contact an escort/masseur who takes his ads down.
Worse case scenario, he just tells you that he's no longer providing services.
Best case, he has an active client base, which includes you, and of course he'd love to set up a new appointment.

As long as you have your head on your shoulders, there's not a ton of risk in my opinion. Nothing revolving this is 100% guaranteed, but tons of people here have been hiring for decades. Overall, just stick to well reviewed guys and you should be okay. Avoid new guys without reviews, because those are going to be the kind of guys who you'd be likely to get more trouble from. That's not to say that new guys should be avoided at all costs, but if you're risk averse then that makes the most sense.
Sometimes men will think with their penis instead of their brains, and that's where you sometimes land yourself into trouble.

I love size as much as the next guy, but… Ohio? I was schooled there, and there’s not a body part known to the world that would make me go back. (A lot of big assholes come from there)

PASS! He is short, chubby, roided out guy (with gynomastia) and about 8”. His pix are overly flattering and his stats greatly exaggerated. 

Yes I have. It is huge but he’s very gentle at the beginning, so even I who rarely gets fucked could take it.

I met with him on a rare visit to SF (he’s almost always in NYC). The man is a hulk, bigger, broader and thicker than I imagined. His “280 lbs” feels totally legit to me. The “macho” aspect feels very natural and not forced. He’s very powerful, he’s not talkative, and he’s very assertive. He’s working with some massive equipment too. Highly recommend for those who like having a big man in charge. 

Yes a few months ago- he is amazing - really nice guy - photos are accurate 

Hubris, on occasion, can be amusing in the very young and beautiful. However, Father Time and his henchman, Gravity, is a constant companion to us all as we wander down the road of life. Take a lesson from Helmut Berger. . .

Ah! CoolWave35! Just the man to rescue PrinceCharmingLA!

I have had many many many amazing experiences with him. I met him on seeking years ago. I’m not surprised he’s escorting. He’s very good at what he does and you won’t be disappointed. 

Being a  common attribute,, physical beauty is the cheapest commodity in the long term "sugar daddy" market; attentiveness, however, commands a premium with a discriminating "dad".

LOL - there is one person routinely referenced as “most ignored” here & the other site.  Entire threads about muting that individual - I’ll bet it’s the same one

This is what the Mods told me: " Use the link below. Add user you want to block here. They will see your posts though."
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So if you're tired of seeing posts, reactions, and DMs from any of the members (for example, you're tired of me, yours truly). You can add that person on that ignore list! You'll never see any of their stuff. They'll still see the stuff you post though, which is not too bad (It'll let them still obsess getting your attention, and they can still respond to your posts, but they won't know you've ignored their existence.)
Also, Ask for more clarification in the “ask a moderator” sub forum if you need more help. Happy Browsing!

I’m the ‘Girthmasterr’ — my massive penis earns me $80K a month on OnlyFans
 
He’s getting to the meat of the matter — and it’s a fleshy feast for the eyes. 
Sex work hadn’t been a lifelong dream job for this redheaded millennial from Brisbane, Australia. 
But now, at age 30, the Down Under wonder — who’s anointed himself the “Girthmasterr,” owing to his 8-inch-long, 7-inch circumference penis — is totally in the thick of it. 
I’m an OnlyFans content creator,” bragged the well-endowed digital dynamo in a trending street interview with employment app @Getahead.  
“I’m in the top .1% of earners on the platform worldwide,” he claimed in the clip, which has beckoned more than 4.5 million views on TikTok alone. “[I earn] between $40,000 to $80,000 a month.”
But since starring in the eye-popping vid, Girthmasterr’s star has, well, grown bigger and bigger.
“I’m going viral on Twitter right now,” he said Tuesday in a post shared to his social media account, with which he’s popularized the hashtag #GirthTok. “It has millions of views and bookmarks … it’s blown up pretty quick.”
And that it has. 
Drawing the attention of more than 99 million X users — including a seemingly stunned Cardi B, who tweeted then deleted her shocked reaction to Girth’s goodies — his  “random” interview with the Getahead rep has sent cyber freaks searching for sights of his sizeable snake. 
“It’s been a crazy 24 hours,” the Girthmasterr told Rolling Stone before revealing that his NSWF nickname was inspired by the KitchenAid Mix Master — you know, the appliance granny uses to bake homemade cookies and cakes. 
“Funnily enough, that name actually does mean a lot of favors in marketing, because it really stands out,” he said. “People see it and they kind of want to investigate to see if I can actually live up to the claim or not.”
And, boy, does he. 
Since becoming a full-time porn performer in 2023, working himself to the bone 80 hours a week, the cash flow has turned into a full-on flood. In fact, he’s earned upwards of $40,000 in just the last 30 days, per screenshots obtained by RollingStone. 
But he explained that the most difficult aspect of his saucy success was coming clean to his mom and sisters. 
“We grew up pretty poor, and one of my sisters said, ‘I’ll be many things, but I’ll never be poor,’” recalled Girthmasterr. “So I took her out for dinner. I said, ‘Remember that time you told me you’ll be many things, but you’ll never be poor? Well, now I’m making porn on the internet. And I’m not going to be poor.’” 
Luckily, his family and friends have been “very cool” about his dirty work. 
“Men get so excited when they find out what I do,” he revealed. “They shake my hand. I’m kind of the envy of my friends.”
In fact, Girthmasterr claimed that most of his fans are other men. However, he believes the vast majority of the crowd doesn’t identify as gay — a side of erotica he’s hesitating to explore. 
“I only want to create things that I enjoy and that I kind of have a vision for,” said the virile VIP. “I kind of feel like [if I shot gay content], I’d be ripping [gay fans] off. It would kind of be a cash grab in a sense. 
“I just wouldn’t feel ethical.”
And he, too, hopes that the world will one day see past his jumbo Johnson.  
“I try not to fall into the trap of making my penis my entire personality,” he said, adding that he’s exploring new hobbies like sailing and piloting in his free time. 
“There’s only so much penis talk that the regular people in my life can handle before they get sick of me,” said Girthmasterr. “I try to keep myself interesting enough in other aspects [so] that if people do like me, they could like me for more than my penis.”
If I had a nickel for each time I'd said that, I'd be flat broke.

This message forum is great.

Love his photos but I disagree. 500 is definitely higher than most guys on rentmen these days as most guys charge 350 400 would be average and 450 would be considered as high. Most guys used to charge 300 and it did went up higher since but not to 500$. In the past 2 years I paid 350 and 400 most times. And I have excellent regular guys who charge that so I do think spending 500 would be too much.