Dolman

PNP and ghosting go together!
 
For those who are looking for an experience to remember,

I agree, the ad is very well-written.  Very professional and prompt in his communication.  Does offer incalls in Manhattan.  And a very competitive rate for a fully interactive sexual experience - I will not publish it here - but it is compelling.
I am seriously tempted.

In my honesty, he is lithe and "heavy hung" in his physical presentation; I surmise if his want was met, he could deliver a memorable experience betweenst the sheets. However, the lunch interview precluded him being a "hire" with me.

Well I saw him last night and I am happy to report back that it was a positive experience. A very masculine and nice guy. His English is good.
Since I do not know "exactly" what the rules here allow to post, for specific questions you can PM me.
He looks better and he is "bigger" than those pics.

Yes, I got the method of contact mixed up between the two escorts (Rentmen platform only vs phone, Telegram, WhatsApp) but the rest of my account is accurate and applies to French Thick/Julien: full time job, too busy, does not respond quickly (or at all) to messages, etc. He responds to you because he’s seen you before. My point was I did not have a favorable experience in reaching him and/or scheduling him and I had given up the pursuit. I’m not broken up about it or anything, I’m just moving on and thought that I would share my thoughts on it on this thread, that’s all. 

I didn’t have a problem chatting with Julien, but booking the appointment was different to say the least. A few months ago I tried to make an appointment for a certain evening a few nights away, and instead of confirming a time, he told me that he should be available that evening and to just to hit him up the day of to see if he’s around.   I probably still will try in the future, but thought that was kind of odd that he didn’t want to set a future appointment.   

He reached out to me on RM after I stumbled on his profile. Asking for 500. 

Oh- now I understand why no one has experience with him. He wants 350 for massage with HE. 500 for extras. 
pass

Quoted me $400 per hour… pass.

In 400. Out 450. 

He has taken his "B.A. in English. Focus on poetry..." much too seriously.

Of the very few times a provider has requested/demanded payment before service - it’s always been lackluster service.  In my view, it’s a sign that things aren’t going to be great.  The real pros in the business do not operate that way.  At the same time, if I’m meeting someone new, I make the payment in advance so there is no confusion about the fee, especially if there is a language barrier.  There’s a big difference between a provider demanding pay in advance & a client offering.
at the core of this business is a financial transaction- but, it can be handled with dignity, grace & kindness by all parties. If that is the case, then similarly the session should good as well.  there’s also a degree of trust required by both parties - when one is so suspicious of the other that the financial transaction becomes the main focus, then it’s just not going to be good. 
I tend to always tip & very generously when traveling abroad where rates are low and it makes a much bigger difference in providers compensation. In New York at $350-$400 per hour - no. 

the concept of tipping is wildly out-of-control in the US.  
for professional services, tipping was always a discretionary add-on for someone that did not get compensated for the full fee paid.  example - I go to a barber who doesn’t own the shop.  The shop takes a cut of the service fee paid & my tip brings the compensation in line within the total fee paid.  It was not customary to tip the owner of the shop because they get the full fee paid.  Servers in restaurants is something different altogether because they typically make hourly wages far below minimum wage and it is customary to always tip 15-20% for satisfactory service in the US - more than 20% if the service is outstanding.
for US based providers where they are running their own business and realize all of the fee in cash and charge $250-$350 per hour, I’m not sure where the expectation of tips comes in.  I frequently tip providers if the service is outstanding, or they come short-notice or they stay beyond the booked time.  I don’t normally tip if the time is one-hour and the service is basic or average.  If a provider needs more money to make the transaction worthwhile, then just charge a higher hourly rate.  Much better to be straightforward and transparent vs some unwritten vague rule/expectation that may lead to disappointment. 
Europe & Japan are much more civilized where tipping is not a thing and the prices are based upon wages that fairly compensate the workers. Tipping there is the exception rather than the rule.
 

This is the reason I DON'T tip most providers.  They set their own rate.  They work directly for themselves.  If we had an above average time, I usually schedule a 2nd appointment with him before leaving his apartment or my hotel room.  All have been happy to have me as a repeat customer with no tip.
There have been very few times a provider has asked or hinted about gratuity... And those providers were mediocre.
I will leave a big tip if the man works at a spa, since it is the spa that sets the rate.

you may want to consider using a Burner app on your phone for this hobby to keep your personal number separate......also, only pay cash and never pay a deposit......politely inform the provider that you'll pay at the end, that you don't want to discuss money during the meet, and get an 'ok' from them on these......never discuss sex and money in the same conversation.......and you may not want to use your own home for a meet (get a hotel room or go to his place if he allows)
please look over this forum for other hints and threads on safety......rentmen is almost the only game in the US and is usually fine to use.....the greater problem is fraudulent profiles there....and making sure you click with a potential provider during the in-person meet......

On a serious note, in almost five year of pursuing this hobby - using primarily Rent.men in at least four countries - we've never had a legal issue. We do what @pubic_assistance and @BuffaloKyle have suggested, which is stick guys who are well-reviewed and have been mentioned on here. Occasionally, someone will not have been discussed here, but if they have what seems like a lot of legitimate reviews on RM, we'll go ahead. We've had a couple of duds but overall our experiences have been good to great. 

This is probably one of those situations where I’ll get talked over and we probably won’t reach a common ground so I’ll see myself out. 

Please be my friend as well 

If any of you are RentMen premium members, contact the guy's previous clients since no one has responded here.  I've done this a few times and have been pleased with the men who came to me.  My last contact told me that he would waive the deposit since he found out that I had been doing research on him.  He came to me looking and smelling naturally good.  What a fun time I had and desire to taste him in 2024.
Other interested parties have contacted me via RM inquiring about one or two guys who had received outstanding reviews from me.  I was always supportive.

Note I'm the OP of this thread And after some of the replies after my original posting... I don't know why anyone would take a chance with this kid? I sure didn't!

I do wonder if time hits especially hard for performers who built their appeal on looking very young indeed.

I met him in October.  Great guy, but he doesn't kiss, so if that is a priority for you, avoid.  He doesn't have issues getting hard, and he is very big. 
My take: he's a young dude who has a big dick and loves to fuck.  He told me he meets multiple clients per day and is still ready to go again. 
I was able to take him for as long as I wanted to, probably need to do a better job in loosening up prior.  He told me he likes to get aggressive when he is a top so if you are looking for an aggressive top that wants to pound away he's going to be very good at it.  
I recommend him.

Great guy. Very laid back and friendly. He does not exaggerate his stats one bit. He's absolutely HUGE!

He now has dozens of stellar reviews on RM. RM clients look legit.

Anyone have info?
He’s coming to Chicago and I’m extremely interested with a dick like that!