hypothetically

You devil ?

Well at least one of us is hopeful per the aspirations of this young man.

He wouldn’t make a pound in such a competitive market based on the info provided so far.

Being called the “n word” and a “faggot” are nowhere near equivalent, but let’s stay on topic. As stated by someone above, it is simply a word, one which you have given power. I think maybe because of its heavy usage during a previous time you maybe have some traumas associated with the word. I personaly wouldn’t flinch nor be offended if someone called me a faggot. I’d likely rely “...correct.” It’s not your problem, it’s the person’s who hurled the word at you.

Please douche. It’s an inexpensive and simple process. Not douching (purposely) when you know the process exist is rude and nasty. Also, please don’t run soapy fingers up your ass if you cherish your beloved anal lining. It’ll possibly make your experience bottoming a painful one.

Did you read any of the replies above, kid?

Ehhhhhh.....

@KeepItReal & @corndog, here in Europe, rates are visible on sites where providers advertise and there is little consistency in rates or escorts do not disclose altogether.

Ask a good mate you trust and smack a good one on them, they’ll tell you. If someone has never told you you’re a phenomenal kisser, you probably are not. Truthfully, I loveee a transparent and honest client. Clients are so afraid to say I’m not good at x, y, z to an escort. You’re not getting paid to be good at anything you do, we are. I would much rather a client say, “how’s my kissing?” Or “how was that?” Or “I’m not sure I’m the best kisser” and I aid you in your “technique” rather than aggressively having my face eaten and being turned off. Really. Speak up.

I hate to be the Grinch who Stole Vday but I’ve never really celebrated Valentine’s Day or understand the concept of celebrating something that’s readily available every day?

...my two cents. Escorting is very much “trending” right now in larger markets like New York. Everyone wants to sell what they’re serving and there’s very little filet mignon and a whole lot of forest ham. I’ve noticed over time that clients are not willing to pay higher rates as in I previous years because the quality of service has rapidly declined. But on another token you also have an influx of escorts whose service is incredible and charge less. It could be either or, depending on where you are. If I was a client and was being charged $300/hr and was consistently underwhelmed with the level of service. I’d lower my maximum also. I don’t think it has anything to do with the economy, because clients are still very much paying if you are reputable, have a good track record, reviews, etc. You are running a business at the end of the day. Change your business model.

It varies greatly from escort to escort. I personally enjoy kissing and always communicate “kissing is a must.” But truthfully, most of my clients cannot kiss and then I just feel like I’m being eaten. And that’s no fun.

..there is no correct answer for the question you’ve presented. Your income is dependent on you and only you.. in addition to a plethora of factors (i.e., what you’re advertising, where you’re advertising, how well you’re advertising, and how well you live up to what you’re advertising). If you’re looking for an overnight success story and think you’re going to bank from the jump with little to no experience, well...you’re in for a rude awakening. I think you should shift gears and maybe ask your fellow forum members (or utilize the search feature) for tips on starting out before you make hard numbers the focus. We don’t know. Additionally, what a “23 y.o skinny bottom” with little experience may earn in contrast to a 34 year old dom top with years under his belt may earn will greatly vary. There are so many “niches,” it’s hard to say. Consistency is the only word of advice I can give to you. Do some research.

Cute, but it’s just something you learn to deal with. Respect and communication on both sides (and consistently) in this business is getting increasingly worse, leading to people getting frustrated very easily. My advice to you is to take these childlike tantrums with a grain of salt; in that moment the client (or escort) revealed himself and you dodged a bullet

You created an entire account on a message forum to ask how to take one person’s cock (and someone the forum historically fan-girls over) and have not participated anywhere else on the forum thus far? Suspicious. ...But let me mind my business.

Lol no one actually answered your question and someone went on a tangent about their oral skills but...shocking. I was once working in Toronto and had arranged to meet a client, who to my surprise was very friendly via text and elaborated on his wants very thoroughly (better than most). He communicated he did not hire often but “the apps” were time consuming and frustrating. Closer to our agreed meeting time he asked if he could bring a bottle of wine. So naturally I was a little taken back and felt indifferent about the meeting because truthfully guys, sometimes after working a full day, you just don’t have a bf-experience left in you and it’s easier to fulfill a simple 1-hr request. But I was a tad stressed and it was freezing so I said “fuck it, why not?” When he arrived, this statuesque 6’2 Persian man opened the door. Beautiful dark features, perfectly groomed, big full lips and incredible eyes so I immediately went from thinking “oh god here we go” to “ohhhh.” We sat and had wine and he said he was very nervous (as was I at this point) and he wanted to take things slow. I could tell that his track record with men was not a good one because he continued communicating insecurities about himself, which I found appalling sitting in front of such a beautiful man. We tried to play a little but he wasn’t the most experienced bottom which was a shame because I really wanted in. And to be quite honest, I seldom bottom for clients but he could have definitely slid in me. His kissing was also impeccable. We were together several hours and he asked if we could spend more time together and that we could go get more cash together. I told him not to worry about it and he ending up spending the night with me. I think we slept in each other’s arms until he had to leave for work in the AM. Never saw him again. Contacted him when I was in Toronto a few months later but our schedules didn’t align. I always get a little hot when scruffy daddy types that are bigger than me book me, as well as men from the Middle East. I encounter hot clients often, especially now being based in Europe, where I find the client base is much younger.

NYC?! You mean everywhere??? It’s crazy.

Put the money on the table. Boom. Ice broken. (I’m kidding, kinda). I mean, you weren’t the one hired so technically it’s not your job to “break the ice,” but I understand some working boys lack social skills. But if you feel it’s absolutely your responsibility and makes you comfortable..I wouldn’t recommend getting all eHarmony and playing Sade or putting on a movie. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when clients compliment or bring up content/text they saw on my ad or RM interview, it leads to great convo and I feel additional research was done and time was taken to get to know me and I wasn’t just booked per physical appearance, but because there were mutual interests. I love contemporary art and have mentioned so extensively in my interview and am booked regularly by people who also love the arts. BUT, I also understand most profiles/interviews say “hung, xxl, like to work out, luxurious experience,” blah blah blah. Make do with what you have. Escorts love to talk about themselves, ask non-invasive, open-ended questions. Advice for the escort: fill out your goddamn interview and try not to sound like a tool. Yes you workout 5x a week, awesome. Most hookers do. But what else???

Punctuation. Jesus.

Nailed it.

Both actually, but I was referring to “jock.”

This was whimsical and inconsistent, but I did see a capital T in there, so. Moving right along.

My sentiments exactly. There was an awful lot of generalizing which even I found offensive. But....look at the current state of the country. Are you surprised?

That term is used far too loosely.

Maybe avoid getting stoned before. A blowjob will never work in your favor if your mouth is dry.