hypothetically

Sit ..at cock level, don’t kneel?

Living in New York, who has that much time to casually dwindle through the extensive catalogue where there are easily over 500+ active escorts? Unless you are retired?

Lol absolutely not. It seems what most of you have described above is an era that has passed, when porn stars were actually “stars” and the adult film/escort industry weren’t so oversatured. Years ago this line of work was still very much taboo. Being a “porn actor” or escort has been normalized/glamorized and I find is very casual dinner banter in New York. It is “chic” to have hired in certain circles. To answer your question, yes the quality of escorts in New York has gotten worse. Probably in every major city. Because people who have absolutely no business escorting are now doing it because they think it’s “quick & easy” money. Which is untrue. It is quick money, but it is not easy money. So you have new escorts doing a half-ass job which leads to apprehensive clients which leads to frustrated escorts (who are good at what they do). It is a domino effect. Unfortunate, but it will get worse.

Indeed they are. French, honorable mention.

“We live in the dark ages of post-shit cleanup. In a wide world that has long embraced the effectiveness of anus-washing after doing number two, America hangs back, clutching our rolls of Charmin, despite plenty of evidence that it would serve us better to wash instead of wipe. We may be obsessed with sanitation, yet we insist, against reason, on the least-sanitary, least-healthy option for managing our poop. Several bidet companies have tried to market their products in North America on a variety of different measures, from their technological impressiveness to the evidence of the health benefits they offer. But they have yet to overcome the significant hurdle that exists because North American consumers simply aren't used to considering the purchase of a toilet for any reason but an immediate need for one.” https://tonic.vice.com/en_us/article/xyyqk7/lets-be-real-americans-are-walking-around-with-dirty-anuses

This is the tone of someone who never hires and exactly the reason why escorts get snappy when clients with good intentions ask for additional photos, content, etc. Because exhibit A likes to go on the site to get his rocks off and boom, disappears. Pornhub is an incredible resource with eye candy, photos and videos, try that.

Truthfully, I think Buck has some substantial dirt on someone and that’s why he’s not being prosecuted. Also, I think it’s rather peculiar that they keep painting Buck as this “wealthy politician” who has given “generous donations” to the likes of etc etc etc. I don’t mean to sound like I’m stigmatizing but Buck fits the description of any strung out older man looking for sex. I’d know, I’m forced to work with them more often than I’d like to. And that apartment they are protesting in front of certainly doesn’t scream “wealthy politician”...it screams public housing. And allegedly, per casual banter amongst LA friends, those donations weren’t stupendous. So I’m unsure as to why they keep painting this alleged killer as a beacon of virtue.

There are a lot of details here. I think the message I was trying to get across was clear. I wish you the best of luck if you continue to stay in this line of work.

Yes, I am in France but had lived in the states up until December. New York, Miami, DMV area. My experiences and commentary on the subjects are valid. I say travel and work anywhere where your fellow providers do not look like you, you stand out, you draw attention on the grid. I never communicated I had a bad experience on A4A, I simply do not think it is a productive/monetary portal for connecting with clients (I’m speaking for myself). I pride myself on working with a very specific client and that has warranted success (for me). That client is not on A4A, period.

“Hi. I’m a top looking for....” will do just fine.

The same way a client can be fickle about what he eats but dives face first into an escort’s asshole. Additionally, most of the time (not always) clients do a better job of washing their dick than they do brushing their teeth. So.

I am ok with it and others here may be ok with it, but this has no weight when it comes to hiring a potential provider. This will vary on a situation by situation basis. I’d recommend you speak transparently about your sexual interest when contacting a provider. It’s the only way you will know if it’s okay.

Has anyone been following this story? https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6719975/Man-dead-Ed-Bucks-home-described-Democrat-donor-f-ing-devil.html https://newsone.com/3846611/ed-buck-another-black-man/

Situation by situation basis. Depends on how experienced the bottom I guess.

That’s dependent on your health, your penis and your provider.

Because?

I cannot comment per his sexual performance or his scheduling but I know “Tiger” personally and he’s a nice guy.

I mean this with all due respect. But historically..all your post have the same tone. (Lions and tigers and flakes oh my). Maybe you should retire. This is not my experience, at all.

To each it’s own.

I don’t find in particularly odd, although I will say the manicuring has gotten increasingly excessive in the last 10 years thanks to Instagram “models,” etc. It is essentially a testosterone pageant. I lived in south Florida for many years and I do recall seeing a higher number of gays both competing and spectating. Very curious about New York however.

The physique competitiors just seem so...gay. Any insight into the bodybuilding scene on the east coast?

I’ve considered training to compete just to find out, truthfully. Whatever goes on in this scene isn’t something you’ll have access to by renting. I feel like it requires you to be in the gym and backstage with these boys.

Hmmm I’m not sure A4A is more “dominant” in America. I’m not sure if you meant per active users and the website trending or if you meant it’s usage in contrast to RM. Any respectable (lol) escort who makes a substantial amount of money will tell you A4A is not their first choice. Additionally, I’ve been using A4A for over 10 years and the website has been in rapid decline ever since the arrival of hookup applications. I never found it useful for hiring. The interface/navigation is very dated (even with an aesthetic overhaul) and the quality of people, eh..whimsical and unproductive. There are timewasters on any and every application where gay men are looking for sex, so. It’s how you navigate these portals, I guess. I prefer the high turnover of RM vs 5+ low income clients. You also have a reputation to hold. Referrals from high paying clients to high paying clients are my best friend. You shouldn’t compromise the quality of client you take just like a client wouldnt compromise the quality of escort he hires. Just my opinion.

With all due respect, you using A4A as a source for clientele is entirely the tissue of this is your primary source for work. You are working with a completely different demographic and wallet size. While I understand Rentmen can be expensive, it’s expensive for a reason. It gives you access to a different “tier” of clientele and who are more than willing to pay $80. That’s not reasonable. I don’t care what city you live in. Even in Europe where the cost of living is significantly lower, the average is more than $80. Maybe retire A4A and invest in RM. It has flaws, yes, but it’s more monetary than A4A, yuck. Change your business model aka, update your photos, text, take a break, “remodel the place,” and re-open the business. Clients get tired of looking at the same thing. Reinvent yourself somehow or remove yourself from the grid if you’ve been in the same city for a long time.

Bless his heart.