hypothetically

I would imagine it’s the equivalent to the younger escorts in Europe now using a diamond emoji to signify they are “available for hire.” But I know in the United States that emoji doesn’t mean the same thing. So, careful.

That’s not so awful as long as they intend to collect that info for that use only. But, invasive..yes.

It’s a rather dated way to be discreet. Not sure why it’s a “turn off.” Care to elaborate?

It’s fine, just communicate you will be accompanied by a friend. It’s never fun walking into a surprise, a surprise whom didn’t pay his “entry fee.” Some escorts may charge you for two, some escorts may not. It will vary. Inquire directly.

No sweetie. But I joined over a year ago, and at the time I had no interest in garnering business via the forum, a decision I was rightfully entitled to make. Even now, that is not my primary focus here, but rather to have casual exchange among forum members. You’ve beaten a dead horse with a stick, I’ve provided my link and you’re still sour. But thank you for the gentle reminder ?

[uSER=3916]@xafnndapp[/uSER] & @BaronArtz thank you gentlemen! I may dip in and out of New York during the month of April. Once confirmed, i’ll be sure to make a public announcement via the forum. ?

This place exist. Berghain in Berlin on New Year’s Day. Berghain, known for being judgement and interference free is already a mecca of debauchary and sex in its truest form. The sex club in the basement (Lab.Oratory) which usually only hosts men is co-ed on NYD. It makes for an interesting dynamic and an array of possibilities. I’ll let your imagination do the rest.

Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I was not aware. I will add my link to my signature

You’ve completely diverted and gone on some tangent/story none of us are aware of. You also didn’t quite catch the correlation between the sensitive topic of HIV and addiction. Seems you started a subliminal topic about Pnp instead of actually sharing the story you just spit out while feeling some type of way that i called you out on being insensitive. A person struggling with addiction SHOULD reach out to friends and family but often times DOESN’T out of fear, because of stigmatizing (which you’ve just done). Also, my ad can be found in the signature on my profile and I’ve had no trouble being hired via the forum. You’re triggered because of a conversation that transpired between you and I. (Also, completely unrelated to you stigmatizing). You can find me here since you decided not to look at my profile. You’re welcome. http://Http://www.Rentmen.eu/AndreNYC

I always encourage clients/escorts to be well equipped with resources that can be used by the person who is struggling with addiction (if they want help). Otherwise, leave it alone. Stigmatizing is a much bigger red flag than PNP. Would you say “HIV! Major red flag!” I doubt it. Be careful. You don’t know who your audience is and what they are dealing with.

..if you want tetanus or staph. It’s also a death trap. That place is vile. There are generous loft-style sex parties in rotation where you can get your cruise on in a much sexier setting. Hell, go to The Cock. Paddles, that’s cancelled.

Commercial rent is high. No immediate demand for one. Maybe someone will do a “pop up” bath for World Pride ??‍♂️

I’ve never enjoyed baths in the U.S. The baths in Europe (Spain, Germany, Belgium specifically) are a completely different experience. Love. But Europeans also have a different view on sex than Americans do.

Neither are worth an honorable mention. How they are still operating, I do not know.

I do it by accident all the time. It’s not like it matters.

Awkward for who?

...ok.

It is almost like a working holiday...but it’s not. There is no “norm” per se. However, if he is a regular/fave of yours, simply communicate to him that you would be handling accommodations, etc. and it would be awesome if the two of you could come to a mutual agreement per - negotiated rate for his time for x amount of days. At MINIMUM, you should expect to pay his weekend rate. Whether he agrees to this is solely up to him but if you intend to throw out a number, it should not be less than his weekend rate. Period.

Again, I think you just like to rant...and that’s fine.

I think you just like to rant....and that’s fine.

This is completely up to you. There is no format. You can A) Be transparent and thorough per what you are seeking during the overnight session. Or B) Have no set agenda and let things just unravel naturally as the evening progresses. I suggest you communicate clear expectations. I do overnights regularly with first time clients, I make sure to at the very least call them or FaceTime with them prior to meeting. They vary. Sometimes it’s dinner, chatting, light play and bed. Other times, it’s simply playing many times over the course of the night. Luckily, you get to decide

The porn train has long passed my friend. If you really feel “acknowledgement is undereceived” escorting, whew..just wait until you do porn. It’s not good money. And no one else can say it because they have to be politically correct but.. black doesn’t sell unless you have dick down to your knees like Cutler, you are built like a brick shithouse and have a unique look that distinguishes you from the rest, or you assume a homo thug role. Sad reality but black men are not well represented in porn. I don’t think being an extra in a Treasure Island gangbang film for cab fare is worth it. But that’s just me. Same for onlyfans. What separates you from the rest and are you marketable? If you are very marketable, my guess would be that you wouldn’t be “bored” with escorting and you’d be very busy. Weigh your options I suppose. My whole stance on porn/OnlyFans has always been a stern no. There is and always will be an “exclusive” element to escorting. Not everyone has direct access to you, and there’s something alluring about that alone. Jacking off on OnlyFans where you have to garner a following, a following that pays for you for the cost of Netflix is very “meh” to me compared to the opportunities afforded to you escorting. If it’s not working out for you escorting (per your numerous posts verbalizing your frustrations with this line of work), I don’t foresee porn being any better for you.

I only partially agree. Most clients wouldn’t care if my username was Ronald McDonald or ToddXXL. And while I understand your perspective, you also have the eager client (the majority) who scans for keywords like “XXL” or “Hung” in usernames to save time. Most clients are not looking for a respectable pseudonym when looking to hire, they’re looking for sex. I don’t think a more realistic name equates to level of seriousness. You have two niche markets here. While I choose not to market myself that way because I think it’s tastless, there is also something “clever” in marketing yourself that way. Sex sells. It’s click bait. FuckStickXXL would probably get way more clicks than me. More bookings, we’ll never know...but I don’t really think usernames generally matter (to clients), as so man other factors must go into choosing a potential hire. From the escort’s perspective, I know what type of client the more raunchy screenames attract, and I’m not receptive to sexually explicit greetings. Some escorts are and it works great for them. But that’s not my jam. Changing a username frequently, now that’s a different story.

Define “GOOD.”

I also prefer tequila over water buuuut... Maybe take it easy, that’d be unfortunate you couldn’t stand up one day, all for the sake of a blowjob you could’ve STILL enjoyed in a safer position.