hypothetically

Often. Attractive physical attributes do not equal phenomenal sex.

I would take these replies with a grain of salt unless an escort in particular has a reputation of being a habitual flaker. Shit happens and one flake doesn’t mean an escort has a bad track record or won’t be available for you. There are a plethora of reasons someone may “flake.”’

I would consider this less of a fetish as those mentioned above and more of what’s increasingly becoming the norm. To each it’s own. PrEp is real (and real accessible). If it’s not your jam, throw on a rubber. But that’s a completely different forum thread.

I’ve had this happen to me on more than one occasion. Client A understands the stress surrounding our line of work, empathize and pay if they cancel (because they can afford to and they want to). Client B simply does not give a shit and can not afford to or wants to. It is that simple. Forgive me for sidetracking. Per the OP’s question. While I don’t think you should have stalled. No big deal. If he was in town working regardless, he should have had other clients lined up. This is the attitude of someone who maybe didn’t plan accordingly or wasn’t having a good run while in town, otherwise he wouldn’t have made a stink about you canceling if there was more work readily avaible. This is not your problem.

I just moved out of NYC.

If not more!

it’s a joke, and I always pick at @builder boy about it.

Oh dear, because what harm could he do with your email?

He’s from Israel, and no..his English is not perfect.

Lol don’t start.

I agree but there are better ways to communicate such a sentiment. Be mindful that we do not know who on this forum is struggling with addiction and stigmatizing substance abuse isn’t the way to help. https://crystalmeth.org/80-for-the-public/115-24-hour-helpline.html

Christian you also must take into account you in an over saturated market. NYC has more active escorts than any other city so in addition to it being slow, your ad does get lost in a HUGE deck of cards unless you are giving yourself prime visibility regularly (and on days that count). You just can’t be an escort in NYC and expect to bank, it actually requires a lot more strategy than neighboring cities as there are A LOT of working guys. Your ticket is to travel regularly.

....lol.

Exxxactly.

Unless you’re black and then you do exceptionally well because it’s all of...2 of you. Toronto is a favorite of mine.

As an American who just moved to Paris I can answer this question. Simply put, people on PR/Hunqz dont have any fucking money lol. On Rentmen they do. The average individual on PR is trying to pay 80€-100€ for sex, hence why this provider is offering services cheaper via this portal. If you’re a smart client and shopping around and happened to see him on PR, congrats HE’S ON SALE! Ask him if he price matches via Rentment. Lol.

Absolutely, so there’s a little trust factor in the room. Whenever the topic of a 3rd comes up with my clients, we choose together so it’s enjoyable for us both. Additionally, establishing clear guidelines (is it okay for me to play with the other escort, is this a voyeur scene? Would you just like us to please you and vice versa?) I, personally, do not like walking into a 3-way situation with a client AND escort I have never met before. It’s a lot of navigating what’s okay and what’s not on everyone’s behalf and these situations don’t usually warrant a thorough convo before, it’s always “come now, need a 3rd!! “ And I’ve seen many a situation where two escorts get all wrapped up in each other and it goes south quickly, no pun intended.

We’re not lesbians my friend.

I decline when client’s inquire if I rim and simply state “for hygienic reasons on the clients’ behalf” and 95% of the time they say “understood.” Giardia isn’t worth the cost of my hourly. I’m good luv, enjoy.

The provider should have everything necessary to warrant a successful and comfortable experience with the client. Asking a client to bring lube, condoms, etc. is tacky. You own a business. How are you serving dinner with no plates and silverware? Tacky tacky tacky.

All these details and reward programs aside (which I feel have complicated a very simple question), the answer is yes. Frustrations arise on both ends when you complicate the process. If a client reaches out to me and he is not local my first question is “do you intend to visit” or “are you interested in having me travel to where you are?” If the client is interested in having me travel to where he is... I am not paying, period. While many of you have rewards (as do I) and that’s a kind gesture to utilize points, miles, etc. Why? If a client is new to sending for an escort (i.e the OP of the thread), I usually negotiate my rate, as pricing can be a tough pill to swallow for newcomers who don’t realize they must cover airfare also, but I mean 90% of my out of town clients understand that they’re paying for convenience and must cover airfare and make the arrangements quickly. Being on a budget and trying to send for someone is not realistic. Search locally if it’s not in your price range.

This is also not a Yelp or Google review we’re talking about. RM can be persuaded to remove reviews, not that I find clients take them seriously anyway as there are so many fraudulent ones. If it’s a DaddyReview, simply learn from your mistakes.. but 1 bad review, unless you did something god awful, is not going to hurt your reputation. If a client wants you, they want you. And there’s no better place than right here in this forum where you can find topics of clients completely disregarding something awful about a provider for the sake of peen. You’ll be fine.

Thanks, sis.

It’s not hard making a call whether a city is “good” or “bad” if you are a #provider. Not sure your reply has any weight. I am a provider. I have no complaints about the current state of my business. I am not here for leverage but rather to engage in topics I find interesting as this is a public forum, not Rentmen. If you have any further questions, as you’ve deterred from the topic, you can hop in my inbox. Thank you.

I love this policy and my sentiments are similar. Too generous a number of clients are just aimlessly clicking through ads with no intent to book when a decision can be made with viewing the photos readily available.