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There’s not. These threads always unravel exactly how the OP intended them to.

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I have to wonder if this and the discovery of a new strain of HIV for the first time in 19 years are related or if it’s a coincidence. I realize the virus is ever-evolving but I can’t help but think the scientists created it.

But oral is penetrative intercourse. Is someone not penetrating your mouth when oral is taking place?

“Officially.” Lol.

Not sure how we went from coming out think-piece to basic textbook history. If your goal was to undermine Stonewall with...idk, several historic milestones that don’t really have any significance to the OP, you can have it. My Marsha P Johnson comment was not made in the context to challenge anything else that happen around that time (you not knowing who she is kind of devalues the mention also). I don’t see the relevance of your statement other than you just wanting to say you served in the war?

I wasn’t even born yet. A gay liberation activist, drag queen, prostitute and one of the prominent figures in the Stonewall uprising.

Marsha P Johnson did not throw a brick at Stonewall for a self loathing writer to be whining like this. I understand his frustrations but that perspective reeks of internal conflict. I’ve never considered coming out to be “exhausting,” nor am I “sometimes out” as the author indicated he was. While he had some key points about the commercialization of “coming out,” he ultimately sounds like someone whom isn’t living in his truth. While I understand everyone’s coming out experience is individual, your coming out journey is whatever you want it to be. Straight people do not get to decide that for you. You can’t demand rights and visibility without the accompanying response from a very misinformed and curious world. To say that it wasn’t going to be his responsibility to educate, or, as he put it rather aggressively, be a “servant” to “straight wokeness,” then who is?

Who knows on this forum lol.

Where are you from that you consider an Uber/Lyft “fancy” and public transportation “fun.” Idaho? ...Nebraska? ..Nepal?

My bad, it was eight hundred.

Clients I’ve never spoken to messaging me “baby” is a hard-pass also.

If your travel time is going to be longer than the actual session, you should be communicating this as a reason for an additional surcharge.

Manhattan isn’t “within” Manhattan when a client request you in the dead of winter after hours and an escort is in, say, Inwood and you’re in Battery Park. Sure, NYC has a rather large transit system, but it is also the most unreliable. The NYC transit system = advanced decay. You’re super late because of MTA and a client is texting you “?????” Let’s be reasonable. If you’re pressed about a couple extra bucks for an Uber in a city notoriously expensive like New York, you probably shouldn’t be hiring.

Your initial post hardly warranted a productive response, but I digress. We tried. Then shuffle to the back. There are literally hundreds upon hundreds of escorts in NYC to choose from, it has the largest catalogue of any city (fact). If you need tips, I’d say ask, but well..

Email??? It’s not 1999 lol.

Per Rentmen of the Day, you pay for it, of course I’d recommend not jumping the gun per travel locations, too far in advance and your “new meat in town” allure will come and go before you even arrive. A day or so is fine. The further out your arrival, the less likely it is to come to fruition.

...I audibly laughed.

Because?

Orange is great!

Not necessary. Everyone uses WhatsApp aboard. If you do not wish to add an intl. package to your current plan, exchanging messages via WhatsApp while connected to WiFi are free. Most phone carriers do not charge extra for texting while abroad, usually just calls. And even then, iPhone allows WiFi calls (FaceTime audio) for free if that is a concern. Airports also offer very cheap sim-cards for short term stays. LycaMobile is sprinkled all over Paris and offers sims for as cheap as 15-20 euro/month. But that SIM will only work in Paris. The designated and primary platforms for working abroad are Hunqz/RentMen dependent on where you are. I also know London has a few platforms of its own. SleepyBoys, I believe? If someone on the forum can verify, please.

100%. It requires you wear so many hats. Resting on pretty isn’t the ticket to a successful run in the business.

Quote me, I missed that part. When you have nothing to show for it, (which is most escorts), then all they’ve done, put simply, is gambled.

Lol if that’s your primary concern as a beginner, i’d slow down. But I did see you as Rentmen of the Day. How’d that work out for you?

RentMen has a “near me” feature. Circle back with some links or usernames of your faves and the forum can better assist.