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  1. Hi Dante, London, Paris, Madrid, Barcelona, Berlin and Zurich immediately come to mind when I began dipping my toes in the euro-pool. Each have a very different client-base so I’d recommend you not overwhelm yourself and go on a “work tour.” If you’re also going for pleasure, maybe work a day or two and feel it out. A lot of my colleagues have had a great deal of success in the aforementioned cities, while others have not. What appeals to one demographic, does not appeal to another. London is extremely competitive and rivals New York both in number of escorts and superficiality. I always feel like it’s the escort Olympics every time I’m in the U.K. You can earn quite a lot but you will also spend a lot as London is not inexpensive; many walk away breaking even and I imagine that is not the goal. Paris, where I am based, is not as aggressive as London, per the catalogue, but the French are a fickle bunch lol. I must say, I do enjoy my French clients the most, however, if I had to choose, as we share mutual interest and it’s less of a “pow wow,” and more of a relaxed meeting, every time. You will be on the grid with a lot of Brazilians and not much else. That may or may not work in your favor. It works in mine. Madrid and Barcelona can be hit or miss depending on the season. The Spanish in Barcelona are broke, and I personally don’t have the patience (nor am I) going to negotiate all evening for what will ultimately be a quick session. You also wouldn’t catch me dead in BCN if it wasn’t for Antoni Gaudi. Both are inexpensive; I love Madrid but I often get distracted by the local catalogue who want to “hang out.” Berlin is my one true love and has always been a gold mine for me. But to put it quite frankly, I don’t look like everyone else in Berlin and that has worked in my favor tremendously. Berlin, however, can be very fetish-specific. If getting in gear or pissing on someone isn’t your jam, well.. Switzerland: There. Is. Money. There. Requires a short term work visa which is easily obtainable. Your inquiry should be broken up into two questions. The other about which cities to visit, completely unrelated to work, should go in the travel section. I think that’s great you have a website but the Europeans can’t be bothered with it. Invest in a Hunqz and/or RentMen account or you will make not a cent. Shoot me any other questions you may have. Andre
  2. If an escort walks away from the business having invested that money in something lucrative, sure. Otherwise, I think even calling an escort an “entrepreneur” is ambitious. While one should treat escorting like a business, it’s hardly a business, and more of a strategic hustle.
  3. This is one of my favorite movies. It’s timeless and very few people know about it. Hearing him talk about how everyone in New York has a “gimmick” is hysterical. My favorite quote: I think as a house boy I really suffered. But this hasn’t all been a waste. They think you’re just a dumb, stupid little colored boy. You’re trying to get a few dollars and they’re gonna use you as a joke. It gets to be a joke sometimes as to who’s using who.
  4. Take away any of our “huge attributes,” would the allure still be so grand? My guess says...no. I mean, unless you genuinely wanted a massage and absolutely nothing else. But look where we are, friend lol.
  5. 100% and I do not know why that is. I have clients whose only method of interacting with me is via that “role play tone” and they will not snap out of it. Not only is it awkward, but then you really begin to feel as if someone is only able to perceive you in one way. And in the instances I’ve brought this to a client’s attention, it usually is the demise of the relationship. So as awkward as it is, and as much as I’m not in the mood for it, it is often something that must be overlooked.
  6. Sure babe. x
  7. I worked in New York for several years: I’ve called reception to let them know I had a guest coming over for a short time and to let him up, I’ve physically brought clients up, I’ve met the client outside and given them the second key. I’ve honestly, never had any issues with front desk reception or security.
  8. Based on the general tone of clients who hire on this forum, no one here is hiring an escort everyday, let’s be realistic LOL.
  9. Doesn’t seem fascinating or you don’t like my comment
  10. In what world would someone making a sandwich be considered cautious? LOL Thrifty.
  11. Both are awful, truthfully. From an escort’s perspective, I find it fascinating how 75% of clients have completely filled out profiles abroad, with face photos, on platforms like Hunqz. Whereas in America, you seldom, if ever, see what a client looks like prior to a booking. Not that it at all matters, but an interesting observation per how obsessed America is with discretion and hiding behind a keyboard. I’m a bit spoiled now, it’s nice to have a face to put with a name.
  12. Fact. Imagine the animosity between black escorts dealing with internalized racism, it’s a blood bath. Counterintuitive validation from someone who is very likely not viewing him as an equal, but ironically, as a prize also.
  13. “I need tuition money” is a template, at best. My rule of thumb is, and one I always recommend to clients, in regard to “short term loans”...instead of hastily offering to hand an escort cash or advancing him for the next session via Venmo/PayPal etc., offer to pay the institution directly (as a parent would), or ask for the payment portal (which most colleges have) to pay tuition online, ask for a screenshot of the balance, or to cover the costs of the books he needs etc. There are many ways to verify the authenticity of a request before handing your money over to the unknown. His response will speak volumes.
  14. I drink water; I mind my business. I feel great.
  15. “Bless your heart” is all I have left for you, lol.
  16. Book the room for two, duh. Also, if your client is “passing thru reception” and the hotel does not require a room key, you need to instruct him where to go prior to his arrival, so he is not frazzled, hovering about reception and raising suspicion. If he knows where to go the hotel will not know if he is a guest or a visitor. Same applies to escorts visiting a client at a hotel. If the elevator requires a room key, leave him one at reception, granted, again, you have booked the room for two and not one.
  17. I wasn’t referring to aesthetic when I said low quality. I’m referring to the overall execution of an ad and the accompanying escort (i.e the content, the photos, the ways in which an escort communicates oneself, etc etc). While I am not going to deny that a less experienced escort may deliver an exemplary performance....I feel the overall qualified of all other things considered is...poor. For example, if someone said to me “I am looking for young, dirty trade.” I’d say...”’MintBoys.”
  18. One, no judgement occurred. I presented a question, not a judgment. Two, kinks (i.e Piss play, spanking and nipple play) are hardly the same as racial fetishization. Racial undertones are not “fantasy,” “role play,” or “pretend.” Three, you are not a person of color, so to communicate to me, a person of color, that my experience is potentially invalid because it is foreign to your own and it is something that you will never come to understand or experience in the compacity that I have...well, that just doesn’t make any sense. Four, this is not the political sub forum, I am not James Baldwin and while you are entitled to your opinion, I am entitled to not fully entertain it, because historically, once we start going down that path, it leads to a locked thread, and for good reason.
  19. I think that’s where my issue lies. There was something alluring about both BackPage and Craigslist because they were seedy and authentic. MintBoys feels very inauthentic and cheap, a duplicate that doesn’t quite hit the mark. To each it’s own. If it’s a lucrative outlet for it’s providers, good for them.
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