hypothetically

I’ve been here long enough to know. And please don’t speak Mocha and those god-awful threads back into existence lol

Imagine if escorts did that to clients per their personal information. Escorts are resourceful. "Do unto others...."

The owner has a...thing for rabbits. [MEDIA=instagram]BiCD8A6nr0F[/MEDIA]

I was living in Miami Beach around the time Hotel Gaythering opened. I always felt Gaythering was trying to be Lords South Beach’s (does anyone remember) less ambiguous cousin. It’s...okay. Cute marketing but Seth Fornea and all those escorts do not come with the space, lol. Try Soho House or The Standard if that’s the aesthetic you’re after. If you’re after a seedy sauna situation, go to Fort Lauderdale.

This post speaks volumes about your character and I love to hear questions like this. I don’t foresee this being an issue with any providers unless, of course, they aren’t quoting clients consistently. I, personally, do not mind. Nevertheless, yes, what the man did was tacky and invasive.

Clients don’t give us an extra $100 when they shit the bed...so. Make it make sense.

Depends on comfort/trust level between the escort and client, and if it’s mutual.

PLOT TWIST: Clients do the same.

These threads always turn into 5+ pages of PrEP advocate vs. the condom user; there is no right or wrong. Your body, your prerogative. And the topic is always about providers who do not wish to use condoms, which I don't think is fair because about 80% of clients who contact me, us, escorts, want to play bare, and that is not specific to any one city. It is in every city. I'm thrilled to hear everyone here still values condom-use but the most active and vocal users on this forum, while lovely, are not representative of the "common" client.

"Oh I thought your rate was..." clients are insulting. You "thought" nothing; my rate is xxx... If there was any confusion per my rate, you should've asked before you ejaculated. Clients trying to hustle hustlers is always...interesting and the stunt never well-prepared.

...indeed we do. No, it’s not the sexiest practice but I’m not sure why one would get offended considering most of you know what we deal with. Walking away from a session (especially a first) without somehow discreetly counting the money would be incredibly naive on the part of the escort.

It will vary per escort. You should communicate it prior to meeting to set clear expectations as well as confirm it falls within the confines of his services. Lead time is also individual and will vary, some escorts operate on a “right now” work schedule, others operate on a 24-hr notice. Personally, I prefer a few hours lead time.

The access codes have been eliminated completely. You now just simply hit the request access button on the prospective provider’s ad. It has caused a lot of confusion because I’m getting s generous number of messages from clients asking me to “unlock my photos,” which I cannot do unless a request is sent.

...ah no wonder, he’s muted. Nevertheless, I won’t “question” any of your future comments because I won’t see those either. Mute.

I’m* ..Go you. You “sad faced” my comment on Monday and then circled back three days later to comment. Lol oh honey let it go. It was hardly worth a revisit. I had already forgotten about it.

These replies are sweet but certainly not the sentiment of a client in a higher volume city lol. The quintessential New Yorker and Londoner are very “that was lovely but I have shit to do.” ...and so do I lol

The OP’s concern was being catfished. Nowhere did he mention or inquire of the quality of his services. I gave him what he wanted. Even then, his response indicates he prefer the unnecessary security probes which will just lessen his chances of meeting the escort altogether, because who am I? Lol.

So paranoid.

@Sagittarius I can confirm he is real. I’ve met him in passing when we were both living in New York full time. I can not speak to the quality of his services nor his character, however. Sometimes the forum does a phenomenal job of pointing out a fake. Other times I think you guys just like playing hysteria ping pong. Wouldn’t it make sense to inquire within a pool of reputable escorts to verify a colleague instead of speculating between an endless list of clients who have yet to meet the escort in question?

Me: “Sex.” I detest “what are you into” as equally as I detest “sup.” While I understand one’s reasoning for inquiring, my answer serves no relevance to the person asking and i’ll tell you why: chemistry dictates all, period. If I give you a summary of my “into’s” and you register these into’s into your expectations (which most people do), you’re going to be disappointed, because I do not enjoy everything with everyone. I find that people ask and use the information as a map for what should ultimately be an organic experience. Mapped out sex is the most awkward and least enjoyable sex. “When you get here I want you to, and then, and then.” No. And per being asked that question by a client. What would you like me to be into? You’re ultimately hiring me to appease a fantasy you’ve already pre-written.

Last fall I went to a new health facility that had just opened uptown, around 99th and Amsterdam and that was their response...at that time.

Last fall I went to a new health facility that had just opened uptown, around 99th and Amsterdam and that was their response...at that time.

NYC Dept of Health will shuffle you to a social worker who will ask additional questions more specific to your needs. (i.e. therapy, substance abuse related services, housing, etc.)

NYC Dept of Health will shuffle you to a social worker who will ask additional questions more specific to your needs. (i.e. therapy, substance abuse related services, housing, etc.)