hypothetically

Someone identified my apartment in a video I sold to a client as “custom content.” It is an incredibly small world and I was incredibly pissed. There is no such thing as “behind a wall” or “protected” content once you have given others access to it. It is unethical unless you have permission. Please don’t.

Gay men don’t care, they want to be desirable. And gay docs are giving away prescriptions like free ice cream. It’s so not hard to get. Cosmetic dermatology isn’t covered by insurance. Self-pay.

You’re doing a lot. who is outraged? I harmlessly mentioned a parasite with its lovely mugshot as a huge number of gay men are unaware of the risk or have never even heard of the parasite, yet it is becoming increasingly common in NYC. There’s no harm in a mention. Why anyone would get butthurt (no pun intended) about a casual promotion of gays men’s health is beyond me lol. I didn’t tell anyone not to eat ass or that they were going to die. Wash your ass and ensure your provider is doing so also and you have nothing to worry about. Simple.

Oh? Us 30-40 somethings are at the doctor like clockwork, albeit for aesthetic reasons, but with the rising popularity of cosmetic dermatology, teeth whitening, or older gay men who are seeking human growth hormone or testosterone therapy, I feel like gay men are ALWAYS at the doctor lol. That’s not even factoring in being tested every 3 months (or more) for those who escort.

Loooool.

Most gay men (especially in their 30s) don’t even know what giardia is until they contract it, as it’s not something doctors or the CDC typically warn you about nor or you taught in sex ed. So while that’s excellent you are aware of the risks, an introduction for those who do not. Disregard.

Have none of you heard of giardia? Cute lil bugger, isn’t it? http://animal.memozee.com/ArchOLD-1/1095922093.jpg

No, per my initial reply.

Doesn’t matter now, he’s been inactive for over a year.

Clairvoyant?

Kamagra chewables (active ingredient Sildenafil) Kamagra oral gel (yogurt consistency and disgusting, no matter the flavor, but I get hard as a rock) Sildenafil breath strips Trimex (if you don’t spook easily) All great, for me, but I realize dick pills and erections are also a mental game. And that’s usually the issue for most men, not the pills themselves.

I want my dermatologist in NYC so bad, and he knows it. He flirts back, as straight men who are secure in their masculinity do, not because it’s mutual (eyeroll). My dermatologist in Paris could get it too, lol. I just stare at his mouth when he’s talking. His french accent sounds like a purr. Lol.

Instagram “models” and “fitness professionals” are going to be more inclined to get you to subscribe to their OnlyFans or have you fork up cash for “customized content” rather than meet you for a session. Instagram really isn’t the platform for that, nor is it welcomed, usually. These influencers with huge followings rack up a cute coin doing the bare minimum, alone, at home. One can’t be bothered with a one-on-one unless they really need it.

I can’t speak to anyone else’s experience but my own, but clients offering me the money upfront is a common occurrence. I politely say “it can wait,” but I would imagine if this is happening with other providers, who have rotten business practices, it is then anticipated, and eventually evolves into a demand.

Coming from a certified PT and someone who has lived in several very superficial cities, I wouldn’t consider any of the aforementioned actors in those specified roles to be “bodybuilders” or “shredded,” but rather “fit.” In a city like New York or Los Angeles, that aesthetic is the bare minimum for a gay or straight man that would like to have a sex or social life. No one in New York would flinch at the sight of Zac Efron’s body if it wasn’t on Zac Efron. It’s hard to read the author’s tone and the takeaway. Sounds resentful. But I will say, it does feed one’s body dysmorphia and is maybe an aggressive visual for someone who isn’t submerged in gym culture.

I applaud anyone hiring porn actors selling their “services” as I imagine recreating bad porn is an immense task. Couldn’t be me. Enjoy, luv.

I think this is important for clients to remember when it comes to higher profile escorts, it’s not personal. Niche escorts, niche clients.

Hooker intuition, it’ll come with time. I have tried, in the past, to identify behaviors that I thought were not conducive to a legitimate booking but it’s pointless. I have had “the new profile” provide me with some of my highest transactions to date and I have had “the loyal reviewer” flake and inconvenience me innumerable times. This business has little trajectory and lacks consistency, but you learn to identity what works best for your individual business. You learn to take every transaction that did not come into fruition with stride. I listen to how my escort colleagues run their business and I find their practices to be so, well, impractical, but it works for them.

Shitty marketing, but shitty marketing always grabs your attention, doesn’t it? Ive noticed young men using it more frequently as a way to verbalize their appreciation. Context/tone are important. I would pray that’s not the best he can do, per marketing tool, and he just wanted to tell you how much he appreciates you. I wouldn’t start shopping tuxedos just yet.

Fascinating.

“Free sex” is healthy.

Depends on how it was communicated to you. There are few rules/intricacies when someone is looking for a real anon scene, and those that gravitate towards that scene aren’t asking a ton of questions, obviously, hence the allure of said scene. Unless someone has specified it’s going to just be you and to “close the door behind you,” you should anticipate an “anything goes” scenario.

If you were invited to an authentic anon scene, then you know going into it that another body (or bodies) in the room is a high probability. I’d stay.

“Casual enjoyment.” “Mutual pleasure.” ....lol.