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I'm now thinking back to my first talk about blowjobs. It was with an escort. He said he didn't just bob his head up and down. He put his hand at the base so he didn't have to go all the way down, and could switch quickly to stroking the penis. That gave him a rest from using his mouth, like TBT is saying. Is this part of what is happening,@Unicorn ?

All this prep when I have to press my crinolines, too??

Did you have a nice time, Tommy?

A good point. The fact that the group has social activities is important, since it gives people more of a chance to mingle, get to know more people in the group.

I volunteer a lot. I picked one that has me do things I enjoy. I guess that's where I would suggest you start. What do you enjoy? (teaching swimming to kids? gardening? giving out political information to the public?, etc.) Volunteering also has the advantage of giving you a way to have "prolonged verbal contact," which when I took a gay dating course, was said to be essential to getting a date with someone.

True, but personally when I flirt with anyone, the techniques are similar, men or women. But then I might have very different aims from yours, when I'm flirting.

Did you ever need one before? Because I can't imagine the basic techniques could have changed that much, for doing it in person anyway.

I, personally, wish it were otherwise, how much bars figure into gay social life (at least the media makes it look that way).

Seriously, I don't know an answer to help you. Not Seriously: Could you maybe get surgery so you can unhinge your jaw like a python? Maybe that would prevent some of the sore jaw muscles.

Unless one of the hosts okayed it, the guest should not have invited others. So I think you are right.

Depends on how far I can reach with the hair clippers, probably.

Proof that Gay People can be just as desperate to be "movie stars" as Everybody Else! :/

I left college a while ago, so I don't shop there anymore.

Please consider yourself acquainted with me, then.

Everyone is different. Some people slap a rude hand away, angry and defending themselves; others stand mute and tremble inside, not knowing what to do, then go home to cry.

Wow, that's a harsh "sentence" he got.

There's never any money in such things! They'd probably try to pay me in used towels!

A very involved scenario. I had trouble keeping up with who did what to whom and who made sure not to look, or not to touch.... Did you guys have to use cue cards?

Every time I watch one of those videos, I'm disappointed. Not because the guys flunk the swimsuit competition, but because the scripts are dull.

"Boiled or fried?" said the late, great W.C. Fields.

I went to a sex club once. The rooms were like walking around on the set of a high school production of a strange play. (No privacy, either.) I also got the feeling that very little sex happens on-site.

If you like the idea of having sex with someone who is not interested in exchanging one single word with you, then a bathhouse in the USA is for you. (I'm told that men in bathhouses in other countries actually talk to each other.)

Brain working now, and finding he.... is a "self-educated designer" who used to be a stripper. Hmm. And he's got a great ass, so I guess that's all that matters on the internet!

I first saw this thread and wondered "who the heck is this guy?" Then I saw his ass and I didn't care because my brain stopped working.

Well put.