Seriously, I don't know an answer to help you.
Not Seriously: Could you maybe get surgery so you can unhinge your jaw like a python? Maybe that would prevent some of the sore jaw muscles.
Everyone is different. Some people slap a rude hand away, angry and defending themselves; others stand mute and tremble inside, not knowing what to do, then go home to cry.
A very involved scenario. I had trouble keeping up with who did what to whom and who made sure not to look, or not to touch....
Did you guys have to use cue cards?
I went to a sex club once. The rooms were like walking around on the set of a high school production of a strange play. (No privacy, either.)
I also got the feeling that very little sex happens on-site.
If you like the idea of having sex with someone who is not interested in exchanging one single word with you, then a bathhouse in the USA is for you.
(I'm told that men in bathhouses in other countries actually talk to each other.)
Brain working now, and finding he.... is a "self-educated designer" who used to be a stripper. Hmm.
And he's got a great ass, so I guess that's all that matters on the internet!
Oh, people, I saw "Sex/Life in L.A.", the documentary about the porn industry.
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Pro's like Mike don't use real cum. They use tapioca pudding (that's been squeezed out of the dick of a hot muscle dude....)