nycman

I used to go there on frequent trips to Puerto Rico. I liked it a lot. Just the right amount to "dirty”. Reminded me of NYC East Village dive bars in the early 90’s. Fun and a little sleazy. Everyone was very friendly. Like any dive bar it could be very hit or miss and trying to figure out when the "right time" to be there isn’t very easy to do. I say stop by and see if it’s the right scene for you. At most, the cover was like $5, so there’s not much to lose. I just wouldn’t plan an entire evening around it, because it could easily be a bust. Having said all that, I haven’t been to SX since the pandemic started. I was in PR a year or so ago and PR was a fucking mess. I’m pretty sure SX was still closed then. I just know I didn’t visit SX on that trip. The neighborhood is a little rough, and like I said PR in general didn’t feel very safe at the time so I didn’t venture off the property. Hell, even on property at a 5 star hotel (where I was a regular for years) was sketchy as fuck. I’m sure things are starting to "normalize" but just do your homework, and be careful.

Yep, I’d ditch that one in a heartbeat. It’s only going to get worse.

It’s still incorrect. I find that to be evil on a level that is hard to comprehend.

I have an issue with this statement. In 2020, we were still at the beginning of a declared world wide disaster. There is only one word that outranks "emergency" and that word is "disaster". Put another way, "there are no emergencies in a disaster". That’s disaster medicine 101. The paramedics did the right thing. Thankfully in this scenario they were still able to save his life. No doubt there was massive collateral damage during the COVID pandemic. Many people died that normally could have been saved. War is hell.

All the "crazy" listed above didn’t ward you off, huh?

Why don’t they ever keep their promises?

Ok, it was never one of my favorite shows…. But I will never forget watching Andrea Martin in the 2013 revival spin overhead at 66 years old and telling me "it’s time to start living". It hit me like a truck. A magical moment created by a wildly talented woman.

He looks like his pics. He’s fun in bed. He bottoms like a champ.

I felt the same way. While I was watching I had that rare moment where I thought, ”damn, who was smart enough to write something this funny".

It’s seems to be slightly less effective than "daily" Prep. 2-1-1 is not FDA approved and the CDC recommends against it. https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/prep/on-demand-prep.html Nonetheless, it’s better than nothing. https://www1.nyc.gov/assets/doh/downloads/pdf/ah/prep-on-demand-dosing-guidance.pdf

There is only one answer…… Bring back the castrati….!!!!

Forgive my naïveté…but is there a "search" function on Grindr? I know I can filter results and change my location, but that doesn’t really help me find "Cris in Hampton Bays". I mean, yeah if he was just on I might get lucky, but so far following up on these leads has been like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I’m very thankful for the leads @Coolwave35, I just wish I knew what to do with them. What am I missing?

Her performance in Doubt shook me to the core…..

In case you need help….like I did: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Kimbrough

Since I’m into subs, I’ve certainly been a part of the scene where the boi is rented out. I’ve never had the dominant partner physically present. That’s not a scene I’m willing to pay for. But I have had the dominant one in the other bedroom while I fucked his bio. That scene was particularly hot because the dominant one was also hot.

I always find that awkward when a massage therapist at a nice spa "goes the extra mile". I want to tip them accordingly and generously, but if I do that on the bill it’s undoubtedly going to raise eyebrows with the management. Now I usually carry a $100 bill in my robe "just in case". Cash is king!

Send him this link….

True, but unfortunately, they will be taking away your gas stove soon…. Yes, Chefs, The Government Is Coming For Your Gas Stoves So you might want to start learning how to use the new "woke electric gadgets" soon.

I’ve seen him. Nice guy. Looked like his pics. Delivered as promised. A little "detached", but I think that’s just his personality. Personally, I wouldn’t be a repeat. YMMV. He is very nice and very cute.

It’s damn near impossible. I’ve been on a ton of cruises. There were always 1-2 other homos stuck on the boat with their mother, sister, wife, family, etc. In general, by day 2-3 they are horny as fuck and ready to fuck anything that moves. Nonetheless, even with 2 very inspired (née desperate) homos, the logistics are hard to work out. And if they work for the cruise line (many of the crew are queers escaping the oppression of their 3rd world home) you and your room are forbidden territory. If they get caught, they will be dumped at the next port, no questions asked. And even if they’re just traveling with their family, nobody wants Mommy to think they’re a little whore, so the pussy footing around will be endless. I will say, most of the crew knows where the ship cameras’ "blind spots" are. Just be prepared for some furtive kissing, sucking, fucking, in some odd places. $20 once bought me and an "entertainer" from the ships "Broadway Review" an hour in the ship’s laundry room from the head housekeeper. I’ve also fucked on deck 14 up against the rear of the ship’s aft smokestack. Where I was warned we couldn’t move 1 foot left or 1 foot right, or we’d be caught on camera. Also the spa’s steam room can be fun. Go, have fun, but don’t expect much.

What kind weirdo homo are you? Everyone knows you must shove things into your asshole, or into the assholes of others if you want to hang with the cool kids. grin Butt seriously (see what I did there?), everyone is different. Often "anal-aversion" fades with age, sometimes not. I mean fucking @Charlie is ancient….and he’s still rarely gives it up. (For now let’s just forget that he was once known as "The Bottom of Pine Street"). There’s no need, in fact no way, to rush things. Do what you enjoy. It’s your body and your sex life. Butt, don’t be afraid to try new things once and a while. And who knows, in 10 years….you might just be the power bottom of some top’s dreams. Ya never know! With a little prep work and a bottom who’s good at attention to detail, anal play and fucking can be very fun, intense, and sparkling clean. Butt, it’s not for everyone!

On Bainbridge Island? So, I gotta take a fucking ferry to fuck you for $350?? In THIS economy???? grin

That sounds hot as fuck. I’d go for it. I mean I’d prefer the Hudson, but one takes what one can get.

It’s not only how you appear to others….it’s how the clothes make YOU feel, even if no one is looking. Go for the upgrade baby! Plus, you never know who might be reaching inside those sweatpants…it’s always better to be prepared for a show!

AND you’re a car dork?…be still my beating heart!