nycman

You have seen elderly people try to operate a cell phone….right? Now imagine that person with a broken hip trying to operate a cell phone. The problem with life alert systems is many elderly don’t like them. They won’t wear them because it makes them feel "old". Usually, a cold night helpless on the bathroom floor fixes that problem.

To answer the question…..no, it’s not a good "investment". Jewelry almost never is. And yes, a watch is jewelry. Now so, more than ever. You would. If you can’t afford the real thing find something real that you can afford. Cheap is cheap and fake is fake.

Quoted me $500. I wish I had seen your post, it would have saved me the trouble. He looks cute and his personality in his porn looks like a winner. But he’s way outside my price range.

What he looks like….is a hand. Just a hand.

Ok, first I peed a little…… then I opened Grindr to see if I could block Jersey…lol

NSAIDs, ice, and a brace are all a good start. I said it before, but I believe ice is a "miracle drug". The problem is icing the area "enough". It’s a pain to be constantly getting up to refill the ice bag. I love my Polar Ice machine. I don’t own stock in the company, but the people who run it are super nice and very good at helping find the right device for your needs. If that fails, steroid injections can help. They usually work but you can’t keep injecting them over and over. In reality, you’ve got to stop completely whatever activity is aggravating it. In college, I got it from playing a video arcade game too much (no joke), and I would keep playing despite the tremendous pain it caused. The addiction was real.

And this place is pretty fucking stupid sometimes…… grin

I’m not sure we’re all talking about the same thing. A patient in acute renal failure would not have an emergent AV fistula placed. They would have a temporary device (like a Quinton Catheter) placed into their neck, chest, or groin. It’s easy to spot. It looks like a big Y shaped tube sticking out of their skin. An Arteriovenous (AV) fistula is usually created in the forearm or upper arm and is completely under the skin. It needs 2-3 months to mature before it can be used. That’s why it not placed in an emergent situation. It takes too long to be usable. They are usually placed electively at a later date once the crisis has passed. I’m just having a hard time envisioning a situation where a patient in new, acute renal failure has an AV fistula created and used immediately. At the end of the day it’s not all that important to the discussion of the serious and obviously heartfelt questions posed by @Rod Hagen. I apologize for the digression.

I haven’t been but a friend reports they’ve recently renovated. Sounds like a bad idea….I mean you’ll never be able to recreate that level of filth.

Because this thread needed to be more GAY!

So does that count as not getting fucked….twice? grin

Honestly, that didn’t solve all the problems either. In the bar, they’d promise the world. As soon as you were in the room, they wanted $$ upfront. As soon as you paid, you’d be out the door in under 5 min with blue-balls. They didn’t call them Hustler bars for nothing. Again, not all but some. You had to ask around the bar. Like here, most other clients were eager to help you avoid the scammers.

Yeah, I have some trouble shooting. On Viagra, I can pound a muscle bottom all night, but at some point I feel like I’m just a jackhammer ramming into a hole over, and over, and over again. Yet another reason I tend to avoid it.

Without any personal knowledge of whom you speak, I just don’t see any 83 y/o person being able to manage peritoneal dialysis (PD) at home. It’s complex, requires manual dexterity, and strict adherence to sterile technique. I know first hand it was hard for an intelligent, well trained 30 y/o nurse to get right. I don’t see anyone over 70 standing a snowball’s chance in hell. I’m having a little trouble understanding why you’d bother putting in an AV fistula, and why one week after it’s mature enough to use, you’re transitioning to PD. That doesn’t really make sense. That coupled with the question about hospice makes me think these are all just temporary measures meant to make someone (or their family) "fell better" and not really intended as a long term solution or treatment. I’m sorry if that sounds cold, but it’s the only logical answer I can come up with. At 83 years of age, I wouldn’t go along with all this, but it’s not my life. I’d chose comfort over complex medical procedures and daily interventions that aren’t going do much more than provide false hope and keep me tied to a machine. Again, I know that sounds harsh. I apologize, and my thoughts and prayers are honestly with you and your friend. No form of dialysis is an easy road.

It’s simple. If they ask for a deposit…..they’re a scammer.

Hated it.

I really dislike the new version. I find the old one much easier to search and scroll through. I find it hard to believe that anyone prefers the new one but maybe I’m missing something.

But….would you recommend him? I’m glad you had a good experience and like the guy but sometimes being too much of a cheerleader can hurt the escort more than help.

Thanks for the warning. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. Learn from your mistakes. No shame. We’ve all made them. Be thankful this one came without any physical harm or danger. Move on.

Fair enough, but I wouldn’t exactly call that a "power bottom" performance. Half the time it looked like the top barely even had his head inside Damien’s tight little ass. Nonetheless, technically a bottom.

I had the same thought. Almost all old ladies have "dirty" urine. It’s rarely a UTI, but it’s often called that. It’s more likely just a billable excuse to admit them, not a "real" diagnosis. Of course, if she gets 100% better after a day or two of IV antibiotics, well then UTI it is! Just don’t get your hopes up too high yet. And of course, don’t forget that your listening to two online wackos who have neither seen your mother’s chart nor examined her. @augustus regardless, I’m glad you were able to get her into the hospital and I hope they are able to help. I’m sure this has been an unbelievable burden.

The only red flag I see is that he lists as "versatile/ bottom" and in all his porn that I’ve seen he’s a top. I do like his porn, he seems like he’s fun in bed (at least in his porn), and he does offer FaceTime confirmation….so it looks like you have little to lose by reaching out.

This is a non sequitur. It hurts their business….so they do it more? If that’s true, I only hope some of these young men are saving their money to take some business classes. They need them.