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What a bizarre thing for a grieving husband to post. Nonetheless, I do understand that we all handle death in our own way. I strongly believe that any thing a person does in the 6 months following the loss of a spouse is ok. Anything. Laugh, cry, scream, avoid old friends, sell the house and move 1,000 miles away, visit psychics, make bizarre videos, whatever it’s all a part of the process and it’s all ok.

But there is no doubt he’s an actual "dreamer"!

You are doing a transatlantic crossing in January??? You’re much braver than I am. Have fun!

When it comes to massage, I’m never explicit before the first meeting. I admit I do love the tension of "will he, won’t he", but you have to be prepared for serious frustration if it turns out "he won’t". Needless to say the “won’t“ guys don’t get rehired. One benefit of this approach is it gets you around the potential."spooking" of the therapist before you even meet.

I’ve met Niko. I can’t vouch for his topping skills, but I had a blast with him. He showed up, looked like his picks, and was fun in bed.

You’ll be fine. The hardest part is walking into David’s pool party on the first day. It’s awkward opening the front door and walking into someone’s house you’ve never met before. Nonetheless, my discomfort only lasted about 2 minutes until people started walking over and introducing themselves. It’s a very friendly bunch. I was suprised at how many men I met who’ve never posted here. There’s a large number of lurkers on this forum. And of course, finally getting to match faces to the profiles and characters here was a real hoot as well. My only regret is that my love of luxury lead me to book at the Hacienda at Warm Sands. The place is beautiful and very relaxing, but it seemed like all the cool kids were having more fun across the street at Inndulge. I say just go and check it out. You may love it. You may hate it. But you’re never gonna know until you try.

Tell him to call me. I’ll straighten his ass out. grin

Beauty should be seen and not heard. grin Well that, and he cooks with paprika. We can’t be friends. I do admit the video is bizarrely relaxing however.

Who are you kidding? He’s probably participating in this thread at this very moment…

Well, that’s certainly one way of putting it.

Bye, Kelicia. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uIYmwl-DQMI

When I was a young punk in New York, I always thought the Met Christmas was nothing more than pure schmaltz. Now as a mature adult male, I enjoy stopping by to pay my respects every Christmas season. It is truly grand. Thank you for reminding me.

We’re getting way off topic, but I certainly don’t think of myself as "the voice of bareback denial". Although I freely admit, I’m not really sure what the fuck that even is. The fact is, I have often advocated on these very pages for the use of condoms despite the rise and popularity of other for methods of avoiding STDs. And yes, I’ve gone on seemingly futile rants about the idiocy of "U=U". I’m not sure if that makes me "the voice of bareback denial", because like I said, I don’t know what that is. Care to explain? I will admit that I’m a stickler when it comes to the truth of science. To the point that I try to follow it, no matter where it leads. Even if I’m personally uncomfortable with the results.

There's no such a thing a "incurable syphilis". Increasing (to the point of almost universal) macrolide resistance? Sure. But that's a long way from "incurable". "Macrolide resistance in syphilis is now endemic in much of the world but there is no documented penicillin resistance" https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31840758 "Phenotypic or clinical penicillin resistance has never been observed in syphilis in more than 60 years of clinical use." https://www.nature.com/articles/s41467-019-11216-7 Good old penicillin works, and for some reason, it (thankfully) doesn't seem to be able to develop resistance to penicillin.

I’m a New Yorker and I approve this message. I’m still trying to find an excuse to be downtown and spend the night at Casa Cipriani. A passionate night with BN on a balcony overlooking the east river, might just be the incentive I need.

The fact that he clearly had a premeditated plan and ran afterwards shows he knew what he was doing was wrong. That pretty much blows a hole right in the middle of any "insanity" defense. If he’s smart (and I believe he is incredibly smart), he will turn on the charm in court. Despite what I said above, he only needs one vote to set him free. The odds of this kid walking free are slim, but we all know (given our shitty legal system) it’s not zero.

And if you know anything about exclusive clubs in New York, some are so exclusive that they cease to exist.

A single photo….with a high button collar? He looks practically Victorian. And that s not the kind of massage I’m looking for.

I’m not complaining, but also not hiring. Like many before him, I fear he is confusing RentMen with Grindr. Too many fish.

Yep, the same people who would let their 13 year old son "sleep over" at Michael Jackson’s house. In both cases, I think the parents should be charged with "Accessory to Child Molestation”.

My favorite variation: I like my coffee like I like my women….nowhere near my penis.

It’s very easy to get bullshit removed from Mr. Number. The platform doesn’t want trouble and they’re well aware people are abusing it. As a side note, crappy escorts are really only hurting their fellow escorts when they post bogus reviews on Mr. Number. But as I said before, trying to police a professional group that can’t even agree on what 6 inches is, would be a fool’s errand. Monitor the things people write about you on Mr. Number and get the bogus items removed. Think of it the same way you do your credit score. If you’re an upstanding citizen, you generally don’t have much to worry about.

And said provider should be prepared for disappoint as well. Some clients are very good at faking it too….grin