nycman

I don’t know about you..... But my finger isn’t up people’s asses in a “day-to-day”setting. To answer the question, fingering someone without a glove is relatively low risk. Just guessing, but the greatest risk in that senario would be getting herpes on your finger (herpetic whitlow). In theory you could transmit other diseases by fingering multiple holes but that risk would remain the same with or without gloves. Baring an open cut on the finger, I’d say the risk of HIV transmission is near zero. There’s a reason those finger mad lesbians....have the lowest STD rate.

Funny, hand holding in public is a million times more “intimate” to me than all the private fucking and sucking in the world. I think part of it is growing up in a time and place where the very small act of holding another man’s hand in public was a very real and large act of defiance. When you openly held a man’s hand in public you were basically saying to the world ....I’m willing to physically fight and die for this love if I have to. And although times have certainly changed, to this day when I hold your hand in public...in my head..... it’s us against the world. So no, I wouldn’t hold an escort’s hand in public, unless I had grown very close to them ....it’s far too “intimate”....for me.

For those that might not get the reference..... La Gioconda....is the Italian name of the Mona Lisa. And her enigmatic smile. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mona_Lisa

Lucky for you..... I got ALL these Daddy issues!

Long live a well rounded education! The individual elements are not nearly as important as the astounding combination of the integrated whole. Put another way....Shakespeare is meanless.....in isolation. Yet in the context of a well balanced education...he is as important to me as the air I breathe.

Welcome to the forums Arsetiy.....yawn.

Your taste seems to skew towards the younger end of the 20 year olds. There’s nothing wrong with that....just be aware that younger men can have a harder time being “present” for longer periods of time. Granted that’s a sweeping generalization but I’d be sure to do some 2 hour “trial runs” before I committed to an overnight. True of any overnight hire, but even more so they younger they are.

It’s all over the place. Geography is a big factor as well. I pretty much never do overnights in the United States. The fees charged aren’t worth it in my opion. Thankfully Europe is another matter. Also, Europeans seem to better understand the conspect of escorting that extends beyond just bedroom gymnastics. I have shared some truly wonderful evenings with some astoundingly beautiful European men. In America?...not so much.

As I said before....the mass spectrophotometer doesn’t lie. I’m still sad...a man died.

We all kind of assume you see him everyday...... Your apartment does have a mirror....doesn’t it?.....Alex.

“and god help you if you are an ugly girl course too pretty is also your doom cause everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room” - Ani Difranco “32 Flavors”

I once randomly sent flowers to a boyfriend’s very public and very gay place of business. I happened to be on the phone with him when they arrived. His shocked, tearful, and heartfelt reaction was priceless. Of course, later he was “mad” at me for causing him to show those emotions in front of his very butch and hunky co-workers....but it was worth it. Send flowers!

Your title doesn’t match the video.....and it’s too good to miss.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7pzs0aGu1fU Fuck me in the ass....’cause I love Jesus!

“Are you having a really bad period?” “An hour later, the cops arrived By then the entire Glee Club had died—no big loss” Sorry to hijack the thread....but the woman is a genius!

“I like’m big...and stupid” - Julie Brown For the record....@Russ is huge....but unfortunately very intelligent. He is however a great actor... I’m pretty sure he can fulfill your NYC “big and stupid” fantasy...no problem.

“I like’m big...and stupid” - Julie Brown For the record....@Russ is huge....but unfortunately very intelligent. He is however a great actor... I’m pretty sure he can fulfill your NYC “big and stupid” fantasy...no problem.

Wasteland. You asked! Grin

I’d be willing to bet that they are contact lens. They just don’t look real. I once went on a date and the guy who showed up wearing strange lenses. Physically he was hot, but I lost all interest. It was like talking to someone who doesn't take off their sunglasses indoors. Just odd and annoying.

Yeah...that’s a little insane. Once or twice a night after 50 is ballpark “normal”. That many times....isn’t. I bet it’s akin to sleep apnea and hazzardous to your daytime health as well.

The definition of honeymoon..... That very short period of time between “I do”...and “I wish I hadn’t” No gender crap needed....it’s a universal misery we all share.

I don’t completely agree. Questioning is a part of life. Just because you are unsure, doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path. I agree it’s a warning sign though....and it’s a part of the equation that needs to be considered.

I agree with both camps here. What tilts me one way or the other depends on how you feel about the relationship. If you find yourself constantly longing for it to go to a deeper level and you are incessantly looking for minuet clues that he “might” feel the same way about you, then it might be time to move on. Like mental illness and any addiction, it’s when it keeps you from enjoying a balanced and happy life....that you have a problem. Of course, identifying that you’re on that road and headed for disaster is the part of the art of a well lived life. It sounds like you enjoy his company and the time you spend together. There are many men on my “payroll” in various “positions”, some very sexual, some not at all. I enjoy their company and I feel these men make my life richer and they help keep me balanced. You just have to do the math. On the whole....is your life better with him in it? And does he help keep you balanced....or is he knocking you off balance? In the end, I don’t think you have to end it......unless it’s unhealthy for you.

Be careful is my only advice. I was on a flight to Europe and having trouble connecting to the plane’s WiFi...while fidgeting with my phone and trying to get the WiFi to work I must have turned off my “airplane mode” for about 5 seconds. My phone downloaded over $500 worth of “satellite roaming data” in those 5 seconds before AT&T shut down my service. 3 phone calls later....AT&T has agreed to remove the charge twice...but failed to do so...now they are refusing to remove the charge at all. My advice? Turn all your devices onto airplane mode as soon as you board the plane and don’t touch them again until you reach the gait.

It’s one of my few real fetishes. In fact, I had a wing man who used to approach men in the bar who were cruising me with their baseball hats on facing frontwards. He’d whisper in their ear, “flip your hat backwards and he’s all yours”. The ones who listened....were handsomely rewarded. He didn’t tell me until years later....”seriously dude.....you were like a one of Pavlov’s dogs”....lol! And if it was a Yankees hat?....home run!....no clue why...but true.

Pepperoni and mushrooms... Page 6 here we come!