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I’ve had very good experiences with Otto in Barcelona. https://rentmasseur.com/Healinghandsbcn

Repeat after me..... "Wow, that was hot. Thanks man." Get out of bed. Get his money and hand it to him. "This is for you. Thanks again." If he hasn't already gotten out of bed and started getting dressed to go...then you start getting dressed. Keep small talk to a minimum. Walk him to the door and open it. "Thanks again". Close the door. Seriously, it take two to tango. Just stop dancing.

I can’t say about the US, but I have had friends denied entry into the EU even though they were technically within the legal limits for the duration and number of days allowed. No doubt they were pushing the limit and entering and exiting with great frequency, but they were clearly within the letter of the law. At the end of the day, it’s pretty fucking arbitrary and it’s up to the individual immigration officer. Don’t like it? “Feel free to appeal our decision when you get home. In the mean time, don’t attempt to re-enter the EU for the next 3 months or the ban will be made permanent.” Harsh but true. When I young and used to jet-set to Europe on a regular basis (to the point that the immigration officers and I knew each other), I raised a few eyebrows. I always told the truth “I’m here to get laid and then I’m going home”. It always got a laugh and my passport stamped without any more problems.

My most awkward moment...... In a Muslim country. Massage by a young female in full burka drag.... As if that wasn’t strange enough.....then with me face down she goes to the head of the table, lifts my hands up over my head, and pushes my hands together prayer like. Then she proceeds to ram my hands into her burka covered vagina repeatedly and quiet forcefully..... ......awkward!

The sign on the building on the left is for an Italian insurance company. No clue about the tower on the left, but the only Italian tower near water I can think of is St Marks. And the lion on the building is the symbol of Venice.... So I’m gonna guess Venice?

My self imposed ban on hiring Eastern Europeans....saves me again!

No info, but damn he’s handsome. “Top”...sigh.

$700 for companionship only? I really don’t get all the wet panty action that his guy is causing. I mean he’s cute and all....but $700 for companionship? No thanks, I’d rather hang out with my friends....or my dog. To each his own. For the record, I hope he’s worth every penny!

You got all that from “I’m looking for tops at the moment”? Seriously dude....your paranoid insecurities are showing. Take it at face value and don’t overthink it. It’s not a match...move on. Too many fish.....

Horrible camera work and editing....even by crappy YouTube standards....but he is cute!

In my experience all the guys dance on a rotation. It’s funny to me that it’s the dancing part he has a problem with. They all seem to do it (albeit some are better than others). In fact, sometimes I’m more attracted to the “tragically arrhythmic” ones than the ones who are more naturally gifted at moving their bodies. I don’t think it’s the “no dancing” that’s going to be a problem for him, but he should contact @Buffdaddy directly to discuss his limits and what he thinks he has to offer. I’m sure there are rules for the guys, although some rules may be flexible. In my experience, @Buffdaddy is a nice guy and a straight shooter. What will be a problem is if he thinks he’s going to make bank just walking around naked. I may hand out a few polite $1 bills, but nothing more than that for just looking and occasional light touching. That’s just going to lead to a long frustrating night for him and maybe $20 in his G-string when it’s all over. Unless he’s doing it to satisfy his own fetish, that’s not really worth it IMHO.

I wouldn’t say “many” but “some”...yes. Mostly you’ll be stuck either with the few passing through to the Hamptons/Fire Island, importing from NYC, or heading into NYC to hire. Personally, I suggest the last option as it will give you the greatest variety of choices. There are no “native” Suffolk County escorts of which I am aware.

Sorry about the multiple posts. That’s what I get for tying to post at 38,000 feet over the Atlantic.....lol

He could have made his rent payment... If he’d wrangled a few “snakes”. Just saying.....

I’m sorry about your loss. I’ve just gone through this and my only motivation to writing an obituary at the time was to leave breadcrumbs for future generations to find and piece together. For genealogical purposes they are indeed priceless. As an unexpected benefit, I too “enjoyed” writing it and I heard from many people I never knew existed. Indeed, the deceased had a much fuller life than I had ever dreamed and a wide range of friendships over decades that I knew nothing about. In the end, it unexpectedly helped comfort me. Also, a few financial and legal places required that I submit a copy of an obituary in addition to the legal documents. I thought it was odd, but it’s true. So, I say do it. If for no other reason than for future generations. It’s not crazy expensive. The cost will be based on the column inches and the newspaper’s circulation. So yes, 12 inches in NYC will cost you more than 6 inches in Albany. That’s math we all understand here....grin

Ginger And/or Carrots Or kale/cucumber/celery Or pear I know I broke the “no veggie” rule...sue me.

On an Emirates marathon as we speak. 8 hour flight to Dubai then 14 hours to JFK. On the first leg right now and they ran out of Dom (seriously?) so I’ll raise a glass of Paradis in your honor. The shower says “max 2 people”. Any escorts up for joining the ultra-rare gay mile high shower club with me? Btw...they block this site and RM (with a somewhat frightening “site banned in the UAE” splash screen) but VPN works fine.

God she’s brilliant.

Bingo! Stop spending money on rent boys (for now) and start spending it on a personal trainer. I’ve always said my trainer is worth a thousand therapists and ten thousand rentboys...and I mean it. He pumps me up. He makes me feel good about myself. And as a byproduct I get a rocking body out of it. Now when I hire rentboys it’s not so much out of desperation as it is a matter of convenience. It’s a long and at times painful road....but you can do it with help. Go to your local gym and “workout” so you can scout out the local trainers. Look for someone that’s physically attractive to you and seems to pay a lot of attention to his clients. Believe me....he’s fishing for a desperate fatty just like you to reel in and change their life. He knows it’s a goldmine if you become a regular. Stick with it. Respect his boundaries. Work your ass off. And in about 2 years you be wondering why you ever took antidepressants in the first place and your therapist will be looking for a new client.

Theraguns are amazing. They allow someone without much training to do a decent massage. With training, they’re very impressive. They are, however, ridiculously expensive and loud. It sounds like you’re building a deck. There are cheaper and quieter options available that are just as good and in many ways better. The Hypervolt in particular is very nice. https://hyperice.com/hypervolt

Good doctors know they’re good and they know they can command a premium to off set caring for less patients and delivering a better product. It’s supply and demand plain and simple. You get what you pay for. It’s also diagnostic of the problem with “socialized” medicine. Everyone wants free care, as long as they can go onto the free market and purchase better care if they want it. Unfortunately, true Socialism doesn’t work that way.

I’d bet the legions of drag queens who work their asses off at being camp would disagree. Nonetheless, I agree that it’s incredibly difficult to be or create camp. I thought it was a dumb and frankly near impossible concept to pull off the minute they announced this years Met Gala theme. When 99% of the guests at a “costume ball” miss the mark....it’s an unmitigated failure. This may well go down in history as the year Ms. Wintour’s fabulous party....jumped the shark.

I know gay men are obsessed with staying in ketosis on low carb diet.... but that is taking it a step to far don’t ya think? Grin

But is it camp?

I too would give Madrid the slight edge. It’s more cosmopolitan. Barcelona can feel a bit touristy. Although the architecture is amazing. That said, I would love to visit either or both anytime.