nycman

Embrace your body, heart and soul. Well, that and no one looks good in a toupee.

And it loves you back. Even when you were in the dreaded sights of FFF‘s caustic criticism, you responded with style and grace. That’s wasn’t always an easy thing for some of us to do. And I’ve never once been steered wrong by one of your recommendations on here. You're a Prince in my book.

“Let’s hit the showers champ”. Only a moron doesn’t know what that implies. And only a moron doesn’t jump at the chance to clean up with you so that he can get a Grade A blow job.

Blush. Flattery will get you everywhere. Oh, Hell yes. Its usually pretty obvious when an escort is trying to play coy and fend off your advances or slow thing down so that you never get to the main event. Once in Key West a “straight” stripper pulled the dodge and delay stunt. When I promptly got out of the bed naked, opened the door, and told him to leave, he just grinned ear to ear, pulled his pants down, rolled over and threw his ass in the air. We had a blast. Don’t be afraid to call someone on their bullshit. They're the professional and they play this game better and more often than you. Never forget that.

Because every FFF thread should be resurrected at least every 5 years, so that we all remember the greatness that has gone before us! Always a FFFan, nycman

I’m a top so it’s not a deal breaker for me. But the same thing happens on the flip side. “I can’t bottom today”, gets politely shown to the door. I make it clear prior to the hire that “I’m a top who likes to fuck.” No fucking = no money. It‘s like a plumber showing up without a wrench.

I hate walking / running too. In fact, at the height of the local pandemic panic, I asked a work out buddy if we could go for a cross country run in the woods. His response?...”Wow, it’s gotten that bad, huh?” To answer the question, I’d suggest finding a trainer that can bring some workout equipment to your house. You don’t need much, you’re just looking to keep moving, not be the next Arnold. You avoid the unwashed masses, you get to spend some time with a cute dude, you get some exercise, and you don’t have to walk. Win, win, win, win.

Can anyone confirm if the pics are recent? I don't care if he's 92...if those are his real pics.

Eastern European = Avoid until verified. Even then, think twice. Such a simple formula.

It’s the Post, so don’t waste too much time on it. However, I do believe that masks will be with us for quite some time. Just like they became de rigueur for sick people in Asia after the last SARS outbreak.

I agree. The issue isn’t wether or not we think your friend is racist. The fact is you perceive his behavior to be racist. Personally, I’d have no problem hooking up with him. I’m looking to get off, not have an intellectual discourse on racial inequality in America. Then again, I’m really good a separating sex from love from friendship. Could I be his friend or boyfriend? Oh, hell no. Could I bend him over and fuck his ass all night long and maybe even get off on making that dumb ass racist my little bitch for the night? Oh, hell yes.

I think the therapist needs to acknowledge (at least to himself) that it will be an issue. Transference, counter transference, the whole messy life of the patient and the therapist is all a part of the therapy game. It happens in all therapy, wether or not the therapist was an adult entertainer. It just one more factor that may or may not enter into the mix. If the therapist can’t handle that, they should seek another profession. If the client can’t handle it, they should seek another therapist.

I especially avoid responding to PMs form Newbies. No matter how polite you try to be, they will incessantly pepper you with idiotic questions like “so did he fuck yer hole good”? I assume they are all Vice looking for a lead, and I move on. If you don't actively participate here, I don’t feel the need to help you. Even people I ”know“ get pretty generic responses like, “he looked like his pics, he was honest, and I had a good time”.

Define “escort”. While cash may have never graced my palm, I was a world class whore. I don’t regret a minute of it, and obviously now I hire.

As a random hook up once said to me.... ”I’m REALLY into you... and we’re gonna have great sex...... and I REALLY need great sex right now..... so please don’t talk and fuck this up.“

I agree. I’ve ventured out a few times. Sitting out side....not horrible. Not great. Staff is confused and slightly terrified. Inside is even worse. Strange table placement. Staff really terrified. Customers not much better. Not relaxing or enjoyable at all. And after all, isn’t that the point of eating out? To relax and enjoy a good meal. I applaud the effort, and I‘ll keep trying as well, but I’m not hopeful. Already a few places are starting to collapse under the burden of rent due. No doubt, there will be more soon.

What they meant to say was..... ”No seriously, he’s sick.”

One of my earliest crushes was on “Little Joe“ Cartwright. In fact, I‘ve still got a strong attraction to the real life “Little Joes” of the world. Confession, in my youth I thought Lou Reed’s line “ Little Joe never once gave it away” was about Little Joe Cartwright. Then college came. I discovered the real “Little Joe“ Dellasandro, and a whole new fetish sprang forth!

Last time I checked fist fucking one dude, never stopped me from just holding hands with another. Give your guy the benefit of the doubt.

Eastern European. Automatic pass from me.

I never thought he was cute, but yeah, those are some rough years.

I have it on pretty good authority that no one in the theater world is even talking about the possibility of Broadway reopening before 2022. They are just publicly saying “maybe Jan 2021” so they don’t have to refund the 2021 tickets....yet.

I’ve only observed Vin from a distance, but I have seen him interact with a client over several days. All I can say is I’ve never seen a more loving and human interaction between a client and an escort. Clearly, the client was a “regular” and it was an extended vacation, but I can tell you I was hell-a-jealous of the client the entire time. I’ve been trying to end up in the same city at the same time with Vin ever since. And while he is truly a stunningly attractive man, I’d say his “non-physical” assets are even 1,000 times more impressive.

I’m sorry you were in pain, but broken rib or not, you’re still better off without the narcotics. Trust me.