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Hmm. That hasn’t been my experience at all. Not only do they love getting rimmed, many love reciprocating, although I’d rather give than receive!

Beautiful smooth abs indeed. Wonder what the rest looks like.

It’s funny, but I enjoy a nice circle of straight friends of all ages. Even though out, I rarely hang out with gay people exclusively. This year I’m committed to cultivating my friendships and expanding the circle. It’s what makes life worth living in late middle age and is critical to good mental health.

Psychopaths!

He’s definitely runway material.

Do they practice that annoying accent and those fey mannerisms or are they innate? The one on the right at least is cute and less annoying than the other one.

They’ve been doing a great job for over 24 years.

You can remove the battery from the alarm—just remember to reinstall it!

I imagine several screenplays are underway at the moment.

A most rewarding hobby, indeed. Always end up with a small group of regulars, some travel weekenders, others local multi-hours. All lean, smooth and hot; bright, gregarious and adventurous. Not many duds and no fakes over the past few years, thank heavens, although sad but happy when they move on and get a bf.

just something very hot about those tight leather briefs encasing that big bulge!

I always enjoyed my time in Philly, and the peculiar accent is very distinctive. Dem Iggles, Amurrica, the long “o”’s, as in COke, and the endearing diner waitress salutation—“hun”!

Even I might feel like a twink in a place like that!

I can imagine. Planning a long trip to Australia and New Zealand later this year.

nycman nailed it.

Yes, no one would accuse Bel Ami of being very clued in to this.

There are parts of the Western Cape that remind me of coastal California, with extensive upper class suburbs, shopping malls and the exquisite Paarl wine country. That area is more racially diverse as well and the opposition party is in power there, not the ANC. 1The financial center of Sandton, outside of Johannesburg, reminds me of Irvine. There’s a lot of money in South Africa, but the disparity between rich and poor is pretty shocking. While there’s a thriving black upper middle class, some of whom I got to know, the legacy of apartheid is still pretty strong. In fact, there’s been a bit of a reverse migration of white South Africans back to SA. Really a very interesting place to visit.

I just texted him to see if he’d like to get together while I’m in Europe. Great find! I hope you get to see him and report back.

He’s making the change in his ad. Btw, he’s very efficient at follow-up.

For The Benefit Of

I agree with much of what you wrote, JJ, but in my experience I’ve developed pretty strong sexual and personal rapport with the circle of guys I’ve seen and have become friends with them. I enjoy my personal time, so I’m able to respect the lines and don’t fret about them, but this hobby has positive mental health and emotional plusses. That’s why I gravitate to weekends after an initial positive session. I can say that overnights without an initial shorter meet have been sub-optimal.

When you check providers’ descriptions they include BDSM in their descriptions. If I’m interested in something kinky, I’ll often include that in my text. A surprising number have seemed willing to try it, although my version is fairly vanilla.

I’ve done threesome three times, one with two gorgeous blonds. The laconic look on the room service guy when he brought breakfast in and set it up while we were sipping Veuve in bed was impressive. The other time was a regular and his bf, which was amazing, and the third was equally fun. Not as interested nowadays, though I’ve discussed bringing two regulars together.

It’s always depressing to see the alcohol calorie count.

Only candles. Even in hotels. Love the way the Golden lights plays off golden flesh while hiding all imperfections. Patchouli a plus.