GeminiCA

Improbable masseur, fun accents...action...
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I've always been amazed that it's so difficult to find list of every possible gay strip club in the country in one place. This forum seems like the perfect place to create a master list, since visitors who post here seem very knowledgable about this subject.
 
I'll create a master list of the ones that I'm aware of, and if you are familiar with another possibility, or if you're certain that a place has closed down, feel free to comment and I'll update the list.
 
In order to qualify for this list, a club must

Be an establishment that intentionally caters to gay males.
Be an actual strip club: a place where you can go to be a customer and watch a variety of male entertainers stripping or dancing on more than one night of the week.
Feature full nudity, legally.
Be in the United States.

So here's what shouldn't get added to this list: "Ladies Only" nights. Bars that have gogo boys in underwear where you might see a dick slip occasionally. Sex clubs or spas where you can see other patrons naked, but not male entertainers. (Even though there's nothing wrong with any of those!)

Thank you for sharing! Just contact whoever you think is attractive to you and make sure he knows your real stats and expectations for your encounter.
 
It’s a buyers market I’m sure an escort will be glad to have you

Anyone have experience with or 411 on this guy? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36289/

Why did you keep trying to correspond after his message on the 30th? I’d have cut my losses at that point.

Good massage. No MT, no HE. No nudity. Looks just like his pics. Rudely brushed off my hand when I tried to initiate MT. Would not repeat. OVERPRICED imo.

Not sure how spending an entire massage on your stomach qualifies as “very good legit massage”. That’s only happened once to me and I was ticked off.

I was raised to be a germaphobe, too. However, sometimes you've got to think through how rational it all is. Consider this scenario:
 
Let's say I've invited a guy over for... well, what we're usually talking about on this forum... and then he urinates without washing his hands. My first instinct is "OMG! He just peed, touched his penis, and didn't wash his hands!" And then, it occurs to me that I'm probably about to put that penis in my mouth, and I realize that whether he has washed his hands is last thing I should concerned about.

Once or twice a month for me, depending on the talent where I’m traveling. I used to hire more often but realized that, in my case, it had become more about the thrill of the hire than the actual session. I also realized there are much cheaper ways to get my thrills, so I made myself cut back.

Have you never been horny?
 
It doesn’t always work that way....
 
Grin

To be fair, someone has to be first, it goes with the territory, I've done it. I appreciate the sharing.

I'm glad you didn't post the masseur's name. Based on what you've written, you should have ended the communication when you found out that you that he was conducting business where you wouldn't be comfortable.

A masseur goes off on you and you don't think his name is relevant? Then why even post to begin with??

wow, what a great ad!.....friendly text......just joined today!

The masseur is Rab in London. Go see him when you are there. Seriously.

I contacted for appt. After saying he was available at the time I requested, I received a reply listing all the things to not expect, i.e. MT and HE. I never asked about any of that. The chastising tone changed my mind about setting up appt.

NEVER

I disagree with your premise about LA. I find we have a great variety to chose from. I travel a bit and have seen the offering in other cities and I think we have it good. This site alone I’d say a good 30-40% of the discussions are about LA providers.
 
With so many choices there are bound to be average masseurs but I think that’s part of what makes it fun, there is always something new. And while it might be a hit or a miss part of the excitement is that sense of the unknown, not knowing where a session might go and being surprised and awed. While I have my 2-3 go to guys I still like to have new experiences and am glad I live where there are plenty of options.
 
Yes perhaps I’ve been doing this too long. I’ve seen the price points double in the 20 years since I started to partake of m4m massage services. I’ve seen guys come and go and think that I’ll never have experience like that again and then new guys show up to the scene and the cycle starts all over.

I took the plunge today and must say that the reviews on RM are totally accurate.
Ben gives a great massage, he is as sweet and connected as anyone could be. Great skills and better looking than his pics.
I would not hesitate to call him and will be doing so again.
Lovely massage space, easy parking and an exceptional all around experience.

His characterization is that’s its in the SE quadrant of the cotynon the “other side” of the river....
 
The ole SE stereotypes still prevails....
ironically, statistically, the Naylor gardens neighborhood actually has less crime than Columbia Heights in NW... but I won’t go any further on my rant on this one... lol

I delt with him a few years back.. a few times.. great kid. Attentive to what he is doing.

Love the masseur.
 
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Re:
https://rentmen.eu/Dreweledp
Any takers in this new guy in DC ?

Hi does anyone have any recs on massures who massage legs and maybe inner thighs good?
 
Thanks.

Here's how I define sensual and erotic:
 
Sensual. I'm naked, they are most likely still wearing shorts, undies, jock. Maybe those will fall off during the course of the session. Generally ends happy and most likely without mutual touch.
 
Erotic. I'm naked and the masseur is naked. Masseur is not shy about brushing up against an arm or leg and uses his entire body during the session (especially fun in more of the Thai-styled massages). Mutual touching is more likely to happen, usually towards the end of the massage and just before it ends happy (sometimes for both me and the masseur).
 
I've only had a couple massages go beyond what I've described in erotic. One with a masseur who would move to oral, but this was after a couple of initial sessions (and, sadly, he's no longer with us). The other would gently caress and kiss my body all over...and I mean all over. Never had a session lead to sex and not sure how I'd handle that.
 
One last thing: it really frustrates me to no end when a masseur advertises erotic and doesn't even take off a shirt, let alone the shorts. To the point of YMMV, I know two masseurs on RentMasseur who advertise erotic and in my case it was anything but. I recently posted about one of the masseurs who has always worn a jock during the sessions. A forum member replied to me to let me know that his experience was different: they were both naked and both aroused (going so far to say that the masseur was "leaking" during the session). I later asked the masseur if I was only receiving the sensual version of his massage, but he confirmed that I was getting the erotic treatment - if he were naked than he wouldn't be able to concentrate on the massage. I've been very tempted to reach back out and let him know I know otherwise, but have decided to take my business elsewhere.
 
Hrmph!