GeminiCA

I rarely get anyone to cum, which is sad bc I love seeing guys shoot (all over me is best hehe). Only one time I sucked a guy off which was surprising bc I didn’t think he was really into me! (him big muscle dude very into bodybuilding, me small asian dude..opposites attract??) ?

If a masseur is taking more appointments that day he might not want to go all the way. One provider I had would only allow himself to orgasm with his last appointment of the day. He told me if he came he would lose all desire to do massage. Needless to say a lot of those late appointments were prebooked by yours truly....

I’d say my sessions end happy for both me and the provider about 60% of the time.

Slightly off topic. I've always found the phrase "porn star" hilarious. I don't even think the phrase "porn actor" works well. I have seen lots of porn but in most of it there is VERY little creditable acting. Frankly I find the term "porn performer" more suitable.
 
Now to get back on topic I believe Lance Navarro has done porn and I know Tristan Baldwin has.

Back in the day, Zak Spears was my perfect man. These days, Chris Harder is it.
http://www.jimbo.info/weblog/archives/zakspears1.jpg

Has anyone met this guy?
 
https://rent.men/StudTimbo

I don't think it's a faux pas at all. If his cock is close enough for you to stroke it or even touch it, it's fair game. He knows what's what, and if he doesn't like what you do, he'll just move away and stay out of range -- or just tell you politely not to touch. I have never had the latter happen, though I've had many masseurs stay out of range of my hands -- even when I didn't "make a move."
Anyway, I always make it clear at the beginning that "I will respect any boundaries you have, but I don't have any. I like lots of body contact, including my sensitive areas, so feel free to let your hands massage every part of my body,."
As I said, this isn't their first rodeo.

Anthony is ok. Not sure I’d repeat.

I'd say that sensual should mean a massage with attention to erogenous zones. Erotic should be fully nude and include mutual touch, body to body contact, more focus on erogenous zones and a manual release. Anything more than this should depend on the chemistry and shouldn't be expected at all. I don't think it's fair to expect or request a sexual encounter from someone who offers a massage, erotic or not. There are plenty of guys who offer more on escort sites.

Mine probably wasn't that unusual, just hot from a standpoint of being new. Went to the masseur and he had me undress and get on the table. I asked if I needed to drape in a towel and he said no. As I did that he took off his shirt but left his shorts on. The massage progressed with a few touches here and there, though nothing out-right sexual (rubbing the inner thighs, etc.)...though he did massaged the spot between my balls and asshole which was interesting...and got me hard. The massage was pretty great (from a technical standpoint). He had me roll over and he removed the head rest. He took a few seconds to start, though I thought nothing of it...and then proceeded to work on all the front muscle groups very thoroughly. He had left my hands on the edge of the table after working on them and my arms so that after that (while working my chest, thighs and abs) he started rubbing against them while he worked...which is when I realized he had taken his shorts off after I had flipped over. He also had a towel over his shoulder that was draped so it was very long in front and as he bent over me to work, it just conveniently brushed my dick...and of course I got hard again. But the massage progressed normally but he started getting closer and closer to my dick with his hands until out of the blue he just real quickly ran his hand up and down it real fast. I almost jumped out of my skin. He looked at me and asked if I was ok...I said 'yea', so he proceeded to slowly work on it til I finally came. He got hard while I stoked him as he did it, but he didn't come...maybe saving it for a later appointment. Haven't been back to him, but I should soon.

My first Erotic Massage was on a business trip. I hired a masseur for an outcall. When I answered the door, I felt like I had ordered a pizza. The guy had a classic pizza delivery guy vibe. About 22 years old......but could easily pass for 18 y/o. About 6 ft....with a swimmers build. He had no table, so he spread a sheet on the bed. He stripped first, and as he took off his pants out dropped an enormous cock, thick and with a huge head. I quickly stripped and got on the bed. He started on my upper back, and did an amazing job. Big, strong hands. He did a foot massage, and then he made his move. When he did the foot massage, in a smooth move, he took my one leg and put it at my side, and without asking dove into my ass with his tongue. He was very verbal, and kept murmuring how hot I was ( sure, I 'll take that LOL). I was a bit unsure whether to let him continue, but went with the flow. He must have rimmed me for over 15 minutes, and kept reaching and pinching my nipples at the same time as he was rimming me. I was rock hard and stroking myself, and reached over to him and he was rock hard. He kept being verbal, telling me to relax and enjoy his tongue. At my request, I then asked him if we could stand up for a minute. We both stood up, and he then dove into my chest, licking and sucking my nipples, again being verbal. I was ready to burst, so asked if we could get back on the bed. We then got into a 69 position, and went at each other's cocks. He was then ready to cum, and as I took my mouth off his cock, he shot and hit the headboard and it dripped down. (he later claimed he shoots even further) He then had me lay on my back, and finished me off with a blow job. After he finished me off, he said he could cum again, and asked if he could stand on the bed, while I laid back since he wanted to shoot all over me. So he then came again, all over my chest and abs. That's 22 years old for you! Great first erotic massage experience with an expert masseur....and an expert tongue!

By the time I turn over I have a clear idea on what we’ll happen. Regardless if I close or open my eyes.

As a guideline, I had a friend who used to call the Friendly’s restaurant chain Amiable’s.
 
“Joyful conclusion”?
“Contented conclusion?”

One big turnoff for me, which has backfired every time, is the sudden, late-night text message practically begging me to purchase a package of X number of massages. Obviously, Mr. Masseur is having a cash-flow problem and has gotten himself into a financial bind of some sort, and my bleeding-heart liberal self is fool enough to fall for this and bails him out. What I get in return for my wad of cash is a series of increasingly lackluster massage sessions that eventually feel so boring that I don't even bother to redeem my last one or two.

Really nice guy, a lot of fun. Last time I saw him (early March) he was big, just very slightly less defined than his most defined photos. Highly recommend!

-shorting time
-moving to release too soon
-thinking that release means it’s over
-too much chatting during
- texting - we know it’s happening no matter how sly you think you are
-leaving the room without explanation
-if we agree on mutual nudity beforehand, don’t make me have to remind you once I’m there
-playing music from your phone
-baby oil
-up charging during. I’m upfront with what I expect, and you agreed, anything more is your choice and should be included
-asking for fee up front

Here's my tip for masseurs who want repeat business, at least from me: Yes, the time is absolutely important (I usually book for 90 minutes and I hate it when I realize it was just barely over an hour). As for the massage itself, I love it when a masseur will make and hold eye contact during the massage, especially during the more sensual or erotic portions. It makes for a very connected experience and makes the whole thing feel less sordid if that makes sense. If we can look each other in the eyes, then there is nothing shameful about what either of us is doing, it feels healing and spiritual almost as opposed to just feeling good as a touch, etc. So that's big for me. Also...just be friendly. I'm always friendly and chat a bit while we're getting undressed and that goes a long way when the masseur responds in kind. I mean, we're about to be engaged in what feels like a very intimate experience where I am naked and letting you touch me all over and often in my own apartment, so...let's be kind to each other and engage with every part of ourselves during this time. The masseurs who have behaved this way are unforgettable.

TTBW is in my all-time top-5

Agree. That would have disappointed

You could start an OnlyFans account.

Anyone has seen him?
 
https://rent.men/ObstiNate

Doubtlessly- https://rentmen.eu/TylerTheBadWolf -> @tylerthebadwolf
 
One of the best, most professional and emotionally intelligent guys out there.
 

Please mark your calendars for the Weekend – April 13 and 14, 2019. Specifics will not be posted here, in order to preserve confidentiality. Therefore, if you are serious about attending this year’s events, please send me an e-mail (if you know it) or “private message” with your return e-mail address so that I may send you the pertinent information as it unfolds. Your confidential information will be respected, as I expect mine to be.
 
The first order of business will be Saturday dinner reservations at a contemporary local restaurant, followed by RSVP’s for the Sunday pool gathering at my temporary residence, followed by Sunday supper reservations at a local Mexican restaurant. If you will be bringing a “guest”, please tell me who. That information will also be kept confidential, unless you say otherwise. Attendance by escorts (by themselves or as someone's guest) is greatly encouraged.
 
If you will be coming from out-of-town and need accommodations, you should arrange for those ASAP, if you have not already. There have been several suggestions put forth in the previous thread concerning possible accommodations.
 
Again, the dinner will be early Saturday evening, April 13, the pool gathering will be in the afternoon of Sunday, April 14, and the supper will be Sunday evening.
 
If you have any questions, please ask in your e-mail or message. I look forward to renewing acquaintances and meeting new ones! Come and enjoy!

From our RM email chat that seems to be a yes but I’m just wondering if anyone had specific experience...

http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/billy_sf