Here's my tip for masseurs who want repeat business, at least from me: Yes, the time is absolutely important (I usually book for 90 minutes and I hate it when I realize it was just barely over an hour). As for the massage itself, I love it when a masseur will make and hold eye contact during the massage, especially during the more sensual or erotic portions. It makes for a very connected experience and makes the whole thing feel less sordid if that makes sense. If we can look each other in the eyes, then there is nothing shameful about what either of us is doing, it feels healing and spiritual almost as opposed to just feeling good as a touch, etc. So that's big for me. Also...just be friendly. I'm always friendly and chat a bit while we're getting undressed and that goes a long way when the masseur responds in kind. I mean, we're about to be engaged in what feels like a very intimate experience where I am naked and letting you touch me all over and often in my own apartment, so...let's be kind to each other and engage with every part of ourselves during this time. The masseurs who have behaved this way are unforgettable.