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@tanquery: Makes The Curious ask: What was the worst?

Isn't this why most of us hire: we want what we want and we dont want to waste our time being disappointed with who we might meet/pick up/hook up. Skills vary - and please, I do not think I'm God's gift to sex - but even I at 70 have been majorly disappointed with some of the men I've met and been with. As Monarchy says above, many are selfish, limited in skills, too submissive, or just out to get their rocks off. It's just much easier to go to a masseur or escort with whom you have had very satisfying experiences.
 
Me personally - give me 2 hours with certain providers and I come home a happy man with a shit-eating grin on my face ready to face the world.
 
I dont think your views are tainted in the least - you are just discovering what others in this community have already discovered, there ARE men out there who sure know what they are doing.

So fellas, I got my first massage that turned erotic about two years ago. And ever since, I’ve had some ultimate sensorial, mind blowing experiences.
 
Unfortunately, it has tainted my desire to deal with “regular” men.
In the past, I’ve found dealing with most men to be pretty mediocre, as either their skills were limited,they were either sexually selfish (or overly submissive and pleasing) or they had a skewed perception of what good sex is... many of my encounters left me disappointed And irritated. However, with these sexy masseurs, who know how to do everything right (in my opinion), I just rather get a sensual/erotic massage than bother with taking the chance of wasting my time with a dude who either has bad skills, hygiene or approaches to seduction.
 
Has anyone else ever felt this way?

Great Discussion Topic!!!
 
My pre-massage shower routine is as follows:
If I have an appointment after work:
1.) gym workout
2.) pre-sauna shower
3.) steam/sauna
4.) thorough shower, which consists of
A. First round with soap (like an Irish spring, safeguard, etc.)
B. Second round is the body scrub in the shower dispensers and my shower gel
The whole routine leaves no area untouched... face, behind the ears, arms, legs, chest, shoulders, torso, back, in between the toes, and of course extra attention to the nether-regions... to add on.. these are two musts for me
1.) a washcloth... soaping up a washcloth really helps remove dead skin cells and build suds, nothing like it.... and 2.) an inch of a soapy finger up the butt... yes, I make sure there’s absolutely no residue of anything back there.
 
From this routine of squeaky cleanliness and scrubbing, it has been always a bonus for YMMV with getting massages (even in places that’s strictly professional and “therapeutic”, and even my personal life .... people will lick every nook and cranny of your body, when they realize that you are impeccably groomed and clean....
and because so many guys are lacking in the hygiene department, masseurs are usually pleasantly relieved, when they massage those buns, spread them cheeks and there’s nothing but freshness... ?

Great Discussion Topic!!!
 
My pre-massage shower routine is as follows:
If I have an appointment after work:
1.) gym workout
2.) pre-sauna shower
3.) steam/sauna
4.) thorough shower, which consists of
A. First round with soap (like an Irish spring, safeguard, etc.)
B. Second round is the body scrub in the shower dispensers and my shower gel
The whole routine leaves no area untouched... face, behind the ears, arms, legs, chest, shoulders, torso, back, in between the toes, and of course extra attention to the nether-regions... to add on.. these are two musts for me
1.) a washcloth... soaping up a washcloth really helps remove dead skin cells and build suds, nothing like it.... and 2.) an inch of a soapy finger up the butt... yes, I make sure there’s absolutely no residue of anything back there.
 
From this routine of squeaky cleanliness and scrubbing, it has been always a bonus for YMMV with getting massages (even in places that’s strictly professional and “therapeutic”, and even my personal life .... people will lick every nook and cranny of your body, when they realize that you are impeccably groomed and clean....
and because so many guys are lacking in the hygiene department, masseurs are usually pleasantly relieved, when they massage those buns, spread them cheeks and there’s nothing but freshness... ?

Leo. From Ipanema. Would advertise on Adam4Adam. These were the best massages ever.
 
I’d show up and he’d open the door in his underwear. Would undress me and had me lay on a table. Would work me up and down while grazing his cock on my open palms. I never knew when he’d remove his underwear but the minute I’d feel he thick meat touch me, I’d start leaking.
 
Once the massage was done, he’d pull me off the table and start fucking me. It was so erotic and hot.
 
There was one time, he had me on a wicker chair and he went at it. It was so hard and aggressive. When I got off of the chair, my knees were all scraped up from the wicker. The pain and burning in the shower for days after always got me hard.
 
Haven’t seen him in years. He kind of vanished.

One of my most memorable happened at an apartment in Queens. Seemed like one guy ran a spa service out of his home. A few Asian guys all provided service and you would go to a room with a bed or table. The reason it was memorable was because as soon as I got in the room, my masseur undressed me entirely. From removing my shoes and pants until I was naked. He was on his knees to remove my underwear which already left me hard. Something about that scene really set the tone.
 
He went on to provide an amazing massage that ended with him putting a condom on me and riding me. It was maybe the one time where I felt that I was truly being treated like a king.
 
Don’t know how to find that place or that guy again but it was memorable.

Nice topic! I had a few that were great but have disappeared or retired as far as I know:
 
Julian in LA
 
Eddie/Edgar in Atlanta
 
Thomas in DC (and other cities) of the former 4 hands duo Tim & Thomas

I think he was or thought he was at one time and that might have affected his career in porn. I've followed his porn career for many years since he appeared on Sean Cody and always liked his look over the years.
 
He is also an artist and seems to have gone more in that direction since his misguided interest in politics.
 
I don't expect he would ever be an escort and probably not offer massage either based on answers to questions someone asked him years ago, so I don't think anyone has to be concerned for supporting him if they have issues with his politics or previous beliefs in politics.
 
However, sometimes situations change and we do things we thought we never would, possibly out of necessity.

Didn't it come out that (the real) Colby is a Trump supporter?

I just have not heard anything about him - glad to know he's still around...SCG was my first gay website and remains a sentimental favorite. Thanks for the info!

I like him. Sweet guy. Attractive. He does very light touch. A bit of a rundown. I think your ending may be ymmv.

I have not been fortunate enough to find a masseur that kisses. But I think it’s just YMMV as with other extras. Let us know if anybody finds one.

@Mocha, there is no definitive answer. It’s counterintuitive to even read so deep into the information you’ve provided and no feedback will aid you in finding an answer. Why? Because each escorts experience is unique. It really all comes down to what you’re selling, how you’re selling it, who wants it....and when.
 
If someone tells you a city is a gold mine, that doesn’t mean you will thrive there. If someone tells you a city is a dead zone, doesn’t mean you will tank there. So many factors go into how monetary this business is from one person to the next, there is no concrete answer.

anyone have any experience with this hottie?
 
https://rentmen.eu/masonhunt

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=768188878

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Could it be possible there is a handler in the background, managing several people so the next customer might see a different one?

I had an ex boyfriend who gave massages on the side for extra money. This is what he said to me. "How erotic/sensual the massage will be is dependent on the person lying on the table."

https://rentmen.eu/UncutMonsterCock
 
Amazing! Anyone had the experience?

Whenever I've been asked for a picture my response has been, "I think there's been a misunderstanding. I wanted to hire you to give me a massage. I'm not interested in dating you."

Proving that the search function functions.

I don’t know....I find it strangely appealing.

I get about 1 in 4 to cum with me, because I can't last long enough for him to climax. But over time I have become a loyal client to a very few wonderful masseurs. They have taught me so much about many things, and while I want my masseur to be a trained professional, I also want to swim in cum and spit, his and mine.

Great topic. I happen to LOVE cum and have rarely had the masseur also cum. They usually tell me that they don't cum with clients. I have tried getting last appointments with masseurs and still no luck.Nothing hotter than a guy coming all over my chest or down my throat.