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I've heard the term "T-dance" on gay cruises to refer to the afternoon dance party.

According to definition-of.com: A T-Room, often referred to as a "tea room" in gay slang, is a men's restroom used for anonymous sexual encounters between men. These locations provide a space for casual, unscripted sexual activities, often in public spaces like parks, due to societal stigmas and legal constraints surrounding same-sex relationships. The term is a euphemism, reflecting the discreet nature of these encounters and the historical context in which they emerged. As recently as last year, I caught someone in the men's room at a department store trying to engage in gay sex. He was taking forever in the one and only toilet stall with the door cracked open and sitting there masturbating. A line was forming to use the toilet. I really needed to use the toilet, so I just said "Hurry up, stop wacking off, there's guys waiting to shit" and the guy quickly left.

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The first cock ring I ever saw/felt was on my masseur at Massage Envy. He wore it through my full 2 hour massage. It was metal.

My first blowjob was in a public park. I went there to eat my lunch on my first day of college. A guy walked past me in the park with his fly undone. My eyes followed, and a few minutes later I was standing back against a wall and shooting my load down his throat. Alas, this was in a park on the West Coast. The view of the Pacific Ocean I had as my legs quivered on that hilltop park as I came down that stranger's throat was probably more memorable than the Port Authority's men's room tiled walls, but your experience is hot nonetheless

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I've invited a few regular hires out to dinner or to a show, with just the value of the meal or show as compensation. But these were with men I've hired dozens of times. I've not reached out to hire someone for the first time in a public setting. I feel I would need to get to know someone through sex several times, before I would feel comfortable enough hiring him in a social setting. Sex is easy. Social interactions can be hard😉

During a particularly stressful work week, I messaged one of my regular hired men that I needed some pool time and could I use the standing offer to come over after work and use his pool with him and chat. He said sure, and to bring something to drink and snack. There was no charge, and I wasn't seeking someone new. I had a regularly scheduled service with him the following week. So while it's rare, this provider and I hang out on occasion but usually I buy drinks

It is customary to tip at a massage parlor or brothel or strip club where you pay the house at the rate the house charges, but it is not customary to tip an independent masseur or escort who sets his own rates. Offering extra to compensate when time goes over is polite, but also not expected.

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I always bring a small water based lube, inside its own zip-tight plastic bag, packed in my carry-on. Many times just spit and a good rim job will do, but the guy's hole has to be hungry and really wanting that cock to take it without lube. Thankfully, mine is usually very hungry 😈. Someday I'll open that lube I pack in my carry-on.

Yes, indeed. I've had providers coming to my city and posted weeks in advance. Usually, I don't book weeks in advance. But I need to if I want to catch a a popular person traveling through my city.

I try to reach out 3 days before my travel, giving each person a half day to respond. For example, on Monday, "Hello, I'll be arriving in XXX on Thursday morning. Are you available for a 2 hour session Thursday afternoon? I can host near XXX or travel to you, whichever is easier" Either I succeed, or I still have all day Tuesday and Wednesday to find somebody else to schedule.