Vegas_Millennial

Random question… when you ask if bareback is ok and they say yes, does that imply that they’re also ok with breeding? Or, do you ask about that separately? No, I never ask in advance to be bred. Gotta leave some things up to the professional to decide in the moment.

Ask HIM (before you agree to it). I've had responses that ranged from outrageous $1000 to free. Around song 4, I once asked a dancer if he was available to come to my hotel room for sex. He quoted me a very reasonable price (around $100), stating that I already paid most of his fee in tips for his lap dance songs. In the past few months at strip clubs (including NYC and other places), I've been quoted prices from hundreds of dollars for a blowjob (which I declined), to $100 for bareback fucking right there in the club (which I accepted).

As for Deposits, Nudes, and Sexting: I keep my messages brief. 2 to 3 messages, confirming rate, date/time, location, and that bareback is okay. I have the money ready and in view when we meet, but always pay at the end. And NEVER send a deposit for an hour/multi-hour meeting. I'm okay with ordering a RideShare. I always send one clothed picture of myself so the provider knows who he is meeting (after we agreed upon a date/time and rate...I don't want the provider to feel he has to give me a "good looking" discount 😉). In the rare instances a provider initiates some "sexting" as foreplay in advance of our meeting, I respond and may include a nude photo of myself to keep the energy going. But I always wait for the provider to initiate, which has happened only a few times.

I use sex with my gardener in lieu of payment. If he mows my lawn and I refuse to give him a blowjob, then am I the one being sexually assaulted or is he? These hypotheticals are ridiculous, because I would: A. Never refuse to compensate the man who mows my lawn, and B. Never refuse to blow the man who mows my lawn.

Hunqz is used quite a lot throughout Europe. Hunqz and other sites are mentioned in the Travel forums, under the respective continents in which you are wishing to hire. As always, never send any deposits, regardless where you find these guys.

The rest of us would like to know as well. Feel free to post here.

Existing discussion in the Men's Health section: Plus, a new trial for once a year injections: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/164922-consider-gilead’s-new-us-based-prep-trial/?do=getNewComment

Attitudes change over time. 20 years ago:

Johnsons announced via Facebook that it will sell tickets for New Year's Eve, but I haven't seen it yet on its website.

Depends on the masseur and probably the market. I’ve taken in the whole magilla a number of times from guys I’ve hired on RMass and even MF, none of whom advertised on RM as escorts. I never expect it though. Yes, sometimes the masseur trips and the entire penis goes in accidentally. It's happened to me a few hundred times.

Towels are worn by some at Wet Dreams, because the boys just got out of the shower show. The rest wear underwear, but will lower it often. At 69, the boys are in their underwear and lower it often.

I read somewhere (Financial Samurai) that wealthy people should not have more than 40% of their net worth tied up in their house. So, with $2 Million net worth, someone's house should not exceed $800K. I've looked, and I can't buy a $800K one bedroom in Manhattan and feel wealthy. I'm looking at moving to Ft Lauderdale in 2 years, and even $800K there doesn't buy anything that would scream "wealthy".

You won't pay that little for taxes on a condo/co-op in a year in Manhattan, much less on an actual house in the West Village. I'm guessing a house in Manhattan in @pubic_assistance's neighborhood (West Village) starts at $12-15 Million. So, $90,000/year in taxes is less than 1% of the property value, which is about right.

That's the beauty of staying out in public and my going back for a private dance. If the dancer stops performing to my liking, I simply stop paying. And if I'm not paying enough, the dancer leaves. There's no need to negotiate up front that way.

Yes, yes, yes, yes My rule of thumb is to pay a dancer about 1/2 his private dance rate to stay with me in public and grope/kiss/massage/caress/suck. In the US where prices are typically $20-$25/song (3-5 minutes) for a private dance, I'll give the dancer $10/song to play with me publicly. At 69, where the dancers are fully nude in public, I gave 200-500 pesos ($11-28 US) every 5-10 minutes. In hindsight, I probably gave too much; because, it was impossible to get rid of a guy after I've had fun with him and was ready to move on to a new guy. If I had paid less, perhaps they would have moved on.

Nudity. Glute work. Sphincter massage. If a penis gets inserted, then only "Just the tip". Anything past the tip is escort territory.

I went through this when I first lived alone at the age of 20. Although still single at middle-age, I find it a comfort that I rent 2 of the bedrooms in my house to single straight men. Just hearing the movement of someone else in the house is comforting.

My good friend insists Mississippi is the land of straight black muscle. He drives through the state with his Grindr on and lots of closeted black men are available in every county to fuck his brains out on the down low. My frind is a chubby older white dude who doesn't hire; and, he says the black men there just crave his white fat ass.

If looking for a group of people known for: - Not changing their mind. - Always in the mood to have sex. - Not playing mind games. Women may be the LAST group you're looking for.

I was going for the tight on top look, no? Oh....I wasn't looking on top. That's a "Hey, eyes up here" picture indeed!

This is why I always insist on watching the register as the cashier rings everything up, so that I may double check the prices. I see too many people be distracted by starting to bag their own groceries or simply not watch the monitor to double check every price.

The OP didn't specific a city in the title. As has been started repeatedly throughout the Deli, not including a city in the subject title yields little, if any, fruitful responses.

Interesting. My European experience has been the opposite. Everyone in Vienna used condoms, but everyone in Athens did not. Again, a larger sample size is needed, so I'll try to sleep with more men on my next European visit next year

Of the 7 men I've played with in Puerto Vallarta this week this far, 2 have used condoms (28.5%). But, its use was inconsistent even by the same guy. One guy penetrated my ass with a condom, but then let me penetrate him without a condom. The other guy let me suck his dick without a condom, but put a condom on me to suck mine. This is still a small sample size. For the sake of scientific integrity, I am working on sleeping with a larger sample size and report back here with the results. Further skewing the results of this study: the 7 men mentioned are a combination of escorts, masseurs, strippers, and hookups.

The escort I hired this morning in Puerto Vallarta is a dancer at Wet Dreams, and we did not use condoms. In fact, neither of us had condoms, lube, or even poppers... Which made for a rough entry given his 9 inch size. Thank Goodness Mexico is noisy during the day, so my yelling didn't arouse suspicion from neighbors. The dancer I met last night at 69 strip club also offered bareback services.