KeepItReal

I don't get it. If you've been vaccinated, why are you sitting on the sidelines?? Read your post above again - note the tone.

They discover pretty quickly that I can be generous when it comes to tipping - there is no need to spoil the mood by trying to upsell! ?

Not a good first impression, I will grant you, but not what I would call a bad experience. On a scale from 1 to 10, with 10 being the worst kind, hair raising, fear for my life bad experience - inability to establish communications with a companion is pretty much a 0 in my book. It's the cost of doing business. If you can't accept that, you will not enjoy this hobby.

I don't read it that way - it is clear to me from reading the post that the client was aware there was more than one person in the room (he didn't know the identify of the 2nd person, but he did not object to the presence) but he knew he was being massaged by one and getting sucked by another. He did not object - he clearly knew and consented to the sexual activity.

Is this Andy? https://rentmasseur.com/AndyChen

New rule: on the 3rd bump you have to take one for the team and meet him! ?

Skye, Ace (of spades) or Svart (Norwegian)

Posted a link to the previous thread. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/robrds.159742/

Mentioned here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/flake-alert-rob-saint.164453/

Previously discussed here in the Lounge. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/nyt-manhattan-to-stop-prosecuting-prostitution.164407/

Take a look here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/iso-muscle-bottom-ny.163920/ Have you considered these two guys: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/musclevip-dutchpr.153217/ MuscleVIP sounds promising.

South Africa is a third world country with a large population of unemployed people, many of them living in conditions we would consider "poverty". When you are spending all your time and resources trying to make sure your people have access to clean water, basic sanitation and electricity it shouldn't surprise you to learn that they don't have funds for this. ?

If you run a search you will find he has been discussed before. ? Here is an example... Search for his masseurfinder number "38800" https://m4m-forum.org/threads/jessy-now-visiting-dc.155321/

I actually quite like being objectified and being the object of desire. I've been told that I have a very attractive object to boot. That being said, I am clearly not very objective in this discussion! ??

In my (ever so humble) opinion you took the wrong approach here, and it got exacerbated by a lack of communication. ? Reading between the lines, you tried to "get the milk for free" when you should have rented the cow! ? It sounds like you wanted more than just a massage and a happy ending. So in your shoes I would have approached him by saying I saw his Rentmen ad and asking for the escort service. You can then add that you would like a 40 minute massage ending with a 20 minute boyfriend experience. ☺ You would be out of pocket a higher fee than just a massage but you are also likely to get to spend the time the way you wanted. Learn from the experience and move on! ?

Buy a lottery ticket sir - your luck appears to be running strong.

He has been around for many years. Even mentioned here on the forum in some threads (try the search box). I don't remember either glowing remarks or negative remarks.

Welcome to the forum Charles. It looks like you don't have a phone number available on your Rentmen profile. Most of us here prefer texting via phone over using the clunky rentmen messenger thing... Just FYI. ?

If you decide to make travel part of your routine, it is also a good idea to add regulars in each city. Folks you can reach out to when you are planning a trip - it really helps take the pressure (financial and emotional) off if you can line up reliable clients ahead of time. I have a regular companion that I've been the anchor client for over the past 3 years. It works well for both of us - staying with me overnight when he arrives pays for his flight and his next day's hotel stay. ?

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Indeed. But where is the fun in that??? ?

I get that - but it's time to learn from the past!

If I can be honest, I am having a hard time understanding why folks are wasting their time on this particular companion. Everything I have heard indicates that he is a flake, unreliable, hard to communicate with and generally a disappointment. The next member that complaints about him here will get a big: "You Shoulda Known Better" from me. Move on fellas and let this thread go to that wonderful place where redundant threads go to die. How about we move on and spend our time and attention on somebody who is more worthy! ? ?

You always have more extreme options!

May I assume that you change your headline and description after 30 minutes, before you log off? I mean, if you log off it is still visible to others, right, so you could still get banned if it is reported. ?