FTM Zachary Prince

Because some guys like to bareback!
 
Are you using condoms for blowjobs? Because if not, you can easily contract and spread all the STIs you mentioned from oral sex. That's not a risk SPECIFIC to bareback anal sex.
 
If guys are asking you to bareback when your profiles clearly state that you DON'T, then I certainly empathise with you though. It's never acceptable for a client to push your boundaries when you've already said NO.
 
But at the end of the day, your safer sex preferences are not superior to anyone else's. We all make choices about which risks we want to take and which we don't. You can justify your choices and condemn someone else's by citing STI risks, but in reality no penetrative sex (including oral) is truly safe. The best we can do is choose the types of protection that make us feel at peace with our choices.
 
And you are NOT competing with escorts who bareback for clients who are exclusively interested in barebacking. Those clients will find what they want regardless. If you don't provide the service that they are looking for, they will move onto someone else because that's what people do.
 
If the exchanges are annoying you then I would recommend making it exceedingly clear in all your marketing that you don't BB and don't want to be asked about it. Consider anyone who asks you to reconsider to be a boundary-pusher and delete them without responding. Problem solved.

It's free to watch in public chat, but most of the models won't interact with you too terribly much unless you're tipping them. Unless they're bored and you're just chatting with them in public chat. The general idea is to tip them to compel them to perform a certain act, to show appreciation for something they're already doing or to participate in some type of tipping game that the model is running. Some people also tip for private shows wherein the model has their attention focused only on you, maybe will watch your webcam in return, etc.

I agree that your eyes are the key to picking up strangers. The scenario, from my experience, usually goes like this: your eyes to other guy's eyes; your eyes to other guy's crotch; your eyes to other guy's eyes. Maybe a smile. If he's in the game he will usually make a quick and somewhat ambiguous touch to his package. If he gives no sign or looks away, move on. Has worked for me since LBJ was president though, since George Bush Original, the "ambiguous touches" are getting less frequent.

I've watched some of those videos where a guy is "innocently" jerking off in his hotel room when room service comes. I found them interesting from a voyeuristic perspective (wondering how the waiter reacts) but mostly creepy. However, I recently had two unexpected experiences with *willing* staff at two different hotels!
 
Room Service
 
I ordered room service, and heard a knock on my door right after I got out of the shower. I looked through the peephole and saw that a guy was making the delivery, so I figured it'd be okay to open the door in my towel. The guy was very friendly, and I thought I noticed him checking me out a few times during our brief chat. But I didn't make any moves because I didn't want to offend him/get into trouble if I was misinterpreting the situation. But when I signed the check, he asked whether I would like for him to pick up the cart in about an hour. I'm thinking "Hmm, they typically say nothing at all about that or to call room service at any time/leave the cart in the hallway, right? Interesting." So I said that'd be great. He opened the door to leave but exited somewhat slowly...all the while looking at me...so I knew it was on.
 
I spent the next hour eating and wondering was I was hallucinating his interest? Should just leave the cart in the hallway just in case I'm wrong? If I keep the cart, do I open the door again with only my towel on or should I get dressed? In the end, I figured...if he's going to be bold then so am I. So when he came back as promised, I opened the door naked. He came in, turned on the "do not disturb" sign (it was turn-down service time) and got naked. We jerked each other off, and he left.
 
During the typical brief "how are you this afternoon, sir?" conversation we had when he first came into my room, I mentioned that I thought I might be getting a cold. And wouldn't you know...after milking me dry, he came back with a bowl of oranges so I could get some vitamin C. Bonus!
 
The Club Room
 
I have top-tier status with SPG, so I get club room access when staying at some hotels. You know, that special room where they serve free breakfast, lunch and dinner to fancy people (read: moochers)? Well, as soon as I walked into this club room (different hotel from above), I saw this cute attendant. He immediately came over to say hello and ask my room number (that's his job). But then, like the room service guy, he lingered and made small talk as I went through the buffet line. Then he came over to my table and kept chatting me up and making eyes at me while I ate (this is not his job). When I asked him where the bathroom was, he said he would show me... He actually walked in with me and said he had to use it quickly too. And surprise, surprise, we ended up jerking each other off at the urinals...right there out in the open (definitely not his job, but I wasn't mad)! It was a thrill for both of us.
 
Have any of you had any experiences like those?

Yup! But just keep in mind that the guys are on there to make money. If you are just lurking and jerking then it's no big deal, but extracting a lot of personal attention from a model without tipping is considered bad form. So if you do find yourself developing a favorite then consider supporting him.

It's free to watch in public chat, but most of the models won't interact with you too terribly much unless you're tipping them. Unless they're bored and you're just chatting with them in public chat. The general idea is to tip them to compel them to perform a certain act, to show appreciation for something they're already doing or to participate in some type of tipping game that the model is running. Some people also tip for private shows wherein the model has their attention focused only on you, maybe will watch your webcam in return, etc.

I find Dr. Bronners unscented liquid castile soap mild enough for most people for external use. Plain water for internal.
 
As far as natural odors go, yes there is a such thing as natural ass odor and no it is not even remotely the same as the smell of shit. Natural ass smell/taste is purely phenomenal and delicious unlike the smell of unwashed or improperly washed ass (or at least it's not MY thing, especially with someone I don't know super intimately). Totally different smells!

I find Dr. Bronners unscented liquid castile soap mild enough for most people for external use. Plain water for internal.
 
As far as natural odors go, yes there is a such thing as natural ass odor and no it is not even remotely the same as the smell of shit. Natural ass smell/taste is purely phenomenal and delicious unlike the smell of unwashed or improperly washed ass (or at least it's not MY thing, especially with someone I don't know super intimately). Totally different smells!

I find Dr. Bronners unscented liquid castile soap mild enough for most people for external use. Plain water for internal.
 
As far as natural odors go, yes there is a such thing as natural ass odor and no it is not even remotely the same as the smell of shit. Natural ass smell/taste is purely phenomenal and delicious unlike the smell of unwashed or improperly washed ass (or at least it's not MY thing, especially with someone I don't know super intimately). Totally different smells!

I agree and now you're making me re-think my decision to offer one hour appointments again at all. Why even offer less than my best?

Because some guys like to bareback!
 
Are you using condoms for blowjobs? Because if not, you can easily contract and spread all the STIs you mentioned from oral sex. That's not a risk SPECIFIC to bareback anal sex.
 
If guys are asking you to bareback when your profiles clearly state that you DON'T, then I certainly empathise with you though. It's never acceptable for a client to push your boundaries when you've already said NO.
 
But at the end of the day, your safer sex preferences are not superior to anyone else's. We all make choices about which risks we want to take and which we don't. You can justify your choices and condemn someone else's by citing STI risks, but in reality no penetrative sex (including oral) is truly safe. The best we can do is choose the types of protection that make us feel at peace with our choices.
 
And you are NOT competing with escorts who bareback for clients who are exclusively interested in barebacking. Those clients will find what they want regardless. If you don't provide the service that they are looking for, they will move onto someone else because that's what people do.
 
If the exchanges are annoying you then I would recommend making it exceedingly clear in all your marketing that you don't BB and don't want to be asked about it. Consider anyone who asks you to reconsider to be a boundary-pusher and delete them without responding. Problem solved.

I'm an experienced fisting top & it's one of my favorite ways to connect! It's rarer than I wish for a client to ask me to fist him. It IS extremely intimate and I always feel much closer with anyone who I have fisted. Intense is an understatement...
 
I'm well-equipped for fisting with extremely small hands and a patient demeanor. My style of topping is service-oriented and driven by my bottom's pleasure. I find that letting his own body control the pace leads to even deeper levels of relaxation, allowing us to go as deep as possible. The pleasure I've watched my partners experience from having my hand inside them has seemed unparalleled by anything else. I'm experienced with vaginal & anal fisting, but there's nothing quite like fisting an ass so deeply that I no longer feel like my arm belongs to my body anymore. Feeling someone's heart beat through my fingertips is incredible.
 
One of my favorite books on fisting is Trust: The Handbook. I'm sure some of you must have read it. If anyone hasn't and seeks to learn about fisting, I highly recommend it as a valuable resource:
https://www.amazon.com/Trust-Guide-Sensual-Spiritual-Handballing/dp/0962475157

You are right, this is a great educational book...

I'm always so excited when I get guys into fisting - both ways - it's one of my favorite forms of sex. I've had some really amazing moments with clients during these sessions. I'll just say, once you feel someones heartbeat at the tips of your fingers you don't soon forget that time with them.

I'm a bit concerned by their security, though…
 
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I find Dr. Bronners unscented liquid castile soap mild enough for most people for external use. Plain water for internal.
 
As far as natural odors go, yes there is a such thing as natural ass odor and no it is not even remotely the same as the smell of shit. Natural ass smell/taste is purely phenomenal and delicious unlike the smell of unwashed or improperly washed ass (or at least it's not MY thing, especially with someone I don't know super intimately). Totally different smells!

Because some guys like to bareback!
 
Are you using condoms for blowjobs? Because if not, you can easily contract and spread all the STIs you mentioned from oral sex. That's not a risk SPECIFIC to bareback anal sex.
 
If guys are asking you to bareback when your profiles clearly state that you DON'T, then I certainly empathise with you though. It's never acceptable for a client to push your boundaries when you've already said NO.
 
But at the end of the day, your safer sex preferences are not superior to anyone else's. We all make choices about which risks we want to take and which we don't. You can justify your choices and condemn someone else's by citing STI risks, but in reality no penetrative sex (including oral) is truly safe. The best we can do is choose the types of protection that make us feel at peace with our choices.
 
And you are NOT competing with escorts who bareback for clients who are exclusively interested in barebacking. Those clients will find what they want regardless. If you don't provide the service that they are looking for, they will move onto someone else because that's what people do.
 
If the exchanges are annoying you then I would recommend making it exceedingly clear in all your marketing that you don't BB and don't want to be asked about it. Consider anyone who asks you to reconsider to be a boundary-pusher and delete them without responding. Problem solved.

That moment when you're making out with the mouth that just ate you. The taste of your own ass on his lips.

Shall I dispense PEZ to you down there as well?

I find Dr. Bronners unscented liquid castile soap mild enough for most people for external use. Plain water for internal.
 
As far as natural odors go, yes there is a such thing as natural ass odor and no it is not even remotely the same as the smell of shit. Natural ass smell/taste is purely phenomenal and delicious unlike the smell of unwashed or improperly washed ass (or at least it's not MY thing, especially with someone I don't know super intimately). Totally different smells!

I fully concur!
 
Don't just 'tell an escort' tho; tell everyone! This is advice everyone could benefit from unless you're the kind of guy who just won't let anyone near your ass (& even then a little soap honestly wouldn't kill ya).
 
 
I often have an exchange in the first few minutes of a hookup that goes something like:
 
Me: By the way did you get to shower recently or do you wanna take one now?
Him: Yup! I showered just a couple hours ago.
Me: Ok great but are you sure you're squeaky clean EVERYwhere because I really wanna be able to taste every... last... inch of you.
Him: I'll take another shower real quick!!

I've done the road trip thing in the past before and it's fun! I can't say my profit margin was very large, but it was a great way to see the country and have a continuous influx of cash along the way to fund my adventures!
 
I actually drove around the entire United States that way in a circle once, from Nashville southwest, then up the west coast, then across the north from West to East, then down the east coast, then back to Nashville from FL. Took about 12 weeks. Adventure of a lifetime to be honest!! Between car repairs and the fact that my trip wasn't planned to maximise income, didn't have too much to show for it by the end besides memories tho.

I've done the road trip thing in the past before and it's fun! I can't say my profit margin was very large, but it was a great way to see the country and have a continuous influx of cash along the way to fund my adventures!
 
I actually drove around the entire United States that way in a circle once, from Nashville southwest, then up the west coast, then across the north from West to East, then down the east coast, then back to Nashville from FL. Took about 12 weeks. Adventure of a lifetime to be honest!! Between car repairs and the fact that my trip wasn't planned to maximise income, didn't have too much to show for it by the end besides memories tho.

Only if I'm dubious about the city's ability to fill my schedule in the first place, but a client is begging me to visit. In this case, I'll offer to let said client anchor my trip with a 50% advance deposit. For example: Nashville. I'm happy to come but I'm not convinced that business is going to be booming for me. I'll only come if I have an anchor client.
 
But generally I'm not flying by the seat of my pants or operating primarily by same-day bookings either. I advertise my tours at least a month in advance, sometimes even 6-8 weeks in advance. I buy domestic flights from Southwest.com, which are refundable for flight credit. I take advance bookings and have a clear and effective cancellation policy. As long as I have at least one confirmed booking in any given city, I go. I tend to tour anywhere from 6-12 cities back-to-back in extended multi-week tours, so even if I end up merely breaking even in one city, I don't stress because perhaps in the next city I'll turn a very high profit, so it tends to even out. In some cities I'm busier than others. Sometimes I'm even grateful for the downtime in a slow city when the cities before and after are packed with appointments. It's not uncommon for my schedule to be completely booked in advance before I arrive to a city and for me to be turning away inquiries upon arrival (Baltimore, NYC, Chicago, LA). My cancellation rate is very low now that I employ a clearly-articulated cancellation policy in my confirmation process.
 
I also agree with @Mikegaite 's comment above about it depending on my personal interest in visiting a city. If I have good friends in a particular city who I can stay with and want to spend time with anyway, I may include it in a tour regardless of any certain bookings. Perhaps I would schedule it between two cities that are typically busy for me and expect it to be something between a vacation and a working vacation for me. But again, only if I had compelling personal reasons to want to visit. NOLA is a good example of this type of city for me.

I fully concur!
 
Don't just 'tell an escort' tho; tell everyone! This is advice everyone could benefit from unless you're the kind of guy who just won't let anyone near your ass (& even then a little soap honestly wouldn't kill ya).
 
 
I often have an exchange in the first few minutes of a hookup that goes something like:
 
Me: By the way did you get to shower recently or do you wanna take one now?
Him: Yup! I showered just a couple hours ago.
Me: Ok great but are you sure you're squeaky clean EVERYwhere because I really wanna be able to taste every... last... inch of you.
Him: I'll take another shower real quick!!