Monarchy79

I think there are quite a few. this is a site filled with men over a certain age who have discussed their successes with finances in other forums .

There’s a significant difference between hiring someone in their chosen profession and propositioning someone who is economically disadvantaged. Nice try though…..

Masseurs who do anything outside of the massage (the extras), are usually doing this on a case by case, YMMV basis. Some may have bottomed for some guys, doesn’t guarantee that they’ll bottom for the NEXT guy. This is why asking if a specific masseur (kisses, bottoms, tops, eats ass, or gives oral) is somewhat inappropriate. If you want a massage that guarantees a higher probability that the “ending” will result in a sex act, then hire an escort who will start your session with a massage.

Are you looking for an actual Sugar Daddy? Or a Finsub? Major difference between the two, and from your posting (and others) it appears that many of you are looking for the latter.

Ummm No…. Many construction, landscaping and other companies search for day laborers and wind up hiring them for full time work. Some companies even assist them with obtaining citizenship (for those who are undocumented ) Further, individuals who hire them, refer them to others and they build their own independent clientele. Plus, a day laborer is getting cash in-hand, without taxes or the middle-man (employer), talking their cut…..everybody wins. Therefore, this is NOT exploitation. In terms of sexual exploitation, we ALL know good and damned well that you’re not anticipating paying a day laborer the $300 + hourly rate, that you’d be required to pay a confirmed professional escort. That’s what makes your intentions exploitative. Looking for a cheaper means to get your rocks off, assuming that a day laborer is willing to ignore his own values to appease your sexual proclivities. being in a higher socio-economic status than someone else, doesn’t give you the right to dangle cash in their face, in exchange for you to suck their dicks.

In all seriousness, how low must one go, in soliciting others for sex. I’m guessing the next thread will be about cruising the streets for mentally-ill homeless men, seeing how cheap their tricks can be….. 😒

…. Because no one wants to feel like they’ve gotten snookered. This is why people compare the prices that they’ve paid for cars (especially insurance), mechanics, landscapers, etc.,

I’ve used Day Laborers, for painting, landscaping work, and general contracting. They are great. They are not street hustlers for sex, and I recommend not propositioning them for such activities.

But you DO have control. Manage your schedule, where it makes availability to shower. if it’s “after work”, then hit the gym after work, use their showers and then you’ll be able to show up clean and presentable. But by no means show up ripe and unclean.

Question: if this guy is so “straightforward”, then why is “sensual” and “erotic” highlighted in his profile and one of his initial pictures are with him in a jockstrap with his bulge flexed and his butt cheek hanging out? if he were truly forthcoming, he’d be fully clothed, with only “therapeutic”, checked on his profile. He’s basically a slickster, enticing potential hires with innuendo and false hints of expectation, all to snooker them with “clarity” when they wind up with a wack massage and a set of blue balls.

Men use all of the same things as status symbols too.

This is true. but it’s best (in my opinion), to be the best version of yourself that you can be, spanning the longest period of time. The old tale of “the tortoise and the hare”, has a lot of wisdom, as the fast route for most things fizzles quickly.

Those two are definitely exceptions. Rare exceptions.

I’m glad you made it out of being drugged, unscathed. Wow!!!

Most (not all), tattoo aesthetics, never age well. Our personal style changes over time and those tattoos rarely follow along well with those changes. its “cute”, when you’re 22 years old with a mullet and tats, beat up sneakers and a cropped tee. Try that crap at 35, and it’s beyond tragic. When people ask me what I think about tattoos, I always immediately suggest temporary tattoos. Following that, I recommend considering one’s path in life, and where they plan on placing them. No one can be a porn star, rocker, or a rapper forever. And although the era of youth is fun, it’s also SHORT. The “Grown Man”, phase of life is much longer and far more challenging, if you don’t play your cards right…. That “boring” man in his 20s with no tats can develop into a nice crispy, sexy man in his 30s, 40s and 50s.

The crime in SF will not be addressed until the money leaves SF. When tourism drops, the class of high tax payers move out, and major retailers leave in mass exodus, that’s when leaders of the city will “sound the alarm”, and make changes. Money always talks.

Watches, specifically Rolexes have grown in value significantly, and can be good investment pieces to have. Many people have them and never wear them. Just lock them away like you would lock away and keep gold bars.

Can you PLEASE share this story.

This comment turned out to be more insightful than you could have ever imagined. 😎

There are substance-based addictions (alcohol, drugs, etc.) Then there are non-substance based addictions (video games, gambling, etc) Sex and porn addictions fall under the non-substance based addictions. There are withdrawals from both types. With sex-based addictions, the withdrawals are stimulated from the lack of overproduction of dopamine created from excessive acts of sex. From that significant drop, cortisol and other stress hormones work in overdrive, causing withdrawal symptoms. Sex addicts in withdrawal can suffer from headaches, lack of mental clarity, and other physical ailments.

Does anyone remember when international travel required specific vaccinations? When I was a kid, I was part of an exchange program, and spent about a month in Kenya. I could have sworn I had to get a series of vaccinations, but I can’t remember. This was around 1992. Then I remember working for a company around 2002, and my boss had to take a business was trip to India, and she discussed all the shots she had to get. It seems like in current times, people can travel the globe, without any precautionary vaccinations, which seems to easily spread multiple diseases? Why did this requirement change?

The blue ball special…..

The disheveled room more than likely ads to the “straight guy” aesthetic….

He’s fantastic. I’d highly recommend.

Always welcome 🤗 We have more in common than you may think. I have that same product, and use it weekly. The Ordinary is a great line with fantastic prices.