Monarchy79

Ummm.... you may be reaching a bit. Everyone’s path in life isn’t to be a “well-articulated orator”. He’s a superior athlete, which definitely deserves respect, as anyone does, if they are prolific in their said profession. Secondly, playing basketball requires more skill than just “throwing a ball into a hoop”. You wanna know what’s sad? That the level of stupidity you speak of, was celebrated for four years, by people wearing MAGA hats....

These are athletes who are fueled with adrenaline and testosterone. Anyone who has played a lot of sports understand that this type of communication is quite common and shouldn’t be made into more that what it is: “Shit-Talking”.

Different strokes for different folks!!!

I guess I should have rephrased my statement.... when I was suggesting washing one’s butthole, I was staying to simply scrub one’s buttcrack. Ensure that there are no skids, dingleberries, or anything else back there.

Actually you’re right.... Years ago, I got ghosted by a very sexy guy I was hooking up with. He flat out told me it was my “overbathing”. To explain, we met off of a hookup site years ago. The sex was fantastic. Typically, after work, I’d go to the gym. He’d always ask to hook up after I’m done working out. To my naïveté, I was showering and putting on fresh undies, after my workouts, and right before meeting him. The final time we hooked up, he said for me to come and see him right after the gym and in caps texted me the following: DO NOT WORRY ABOUT SHOWERING.” I thought it was a timing issue for him, so I shortened my workout, ended earlier and took a shower anyway. Well when we stripped down, and he got a whiff of freshness, he was irritated, and I told him that I wasn’t as strapped for time, so I made time for a shower....... (silly me) When I got back home he sent me a text, basically saying that “it’s not that serious to smell like a fragrance counter all the time”. He was not only annoyed with my showering, he was also annoyed with whatever fragrance was still lingering on my work clothes. That’s when I learned about the importance of B.O., and pheromones.

That’s strange, as I’ve been to Bangkok, and didn’t find the taxi drivers to be smelly.... I just got tired of every Taxi Driver offering me suggestions and places to get “boom boom”. ???

I’ll tell you one weird thing about me... although I like being super super fresh, soapy and clean smelling (I wear cologne too, just not when visiting masseurs) , I don’t mind natural body scents on others.... a sexy guy with some musky pits (or other regions), doesn’t bother me at all, ironically.

Your commentary (which is accurate) made me think of the first time I visited Rome, in the middle of a hot summer. I encountered some of the most impeccably dressed (and pungent smelling) characters ever. It was a major culture shock for me. Then on to France, the birthplace of Perfume, where I naively assumed that everyone would smell of fresh soap, and limited-edition Guerlain fragrances (boy was I wrong) . Then I learned why perfume was created, and got a major reality check. To each their own when it comes to their hygiene preferences.... but (in my opinion), when it comes to visiting dentists, doctors, and masseurs, it’s best to be on the safe side and be “sterilized fresh”.

If you think that’s anal, I didn’t even go into other additional grooming routines I have (not related to masseur prep (which includes body scrubs, soaks, bubble baths, and facial masks).?????? I’ll never be offended by being told that I’m “too clean”. I wear it like a badge of honor... ?

Awesome suggestion!!!!! I’ve always believed in avoiding certain foods and eating certain foods when dealing in more “interpersonal”, activities......

???, I am serious with my hygiene and grooming. It has taken me FAR on the massage table too (now I think about it, my overall approach to cleanliness, has gotten me many small benefits which I’ll gladly explain if you’re curious) Even therapeutic massages can get a bit “invasive”. I always want to make sure the masseur is comfortable to massage every nook and cranny. And they usually do.

As everyone has a different take on Hygiene, I’ll be more specific: Showering: Shower RIGHT before your massage. Wash your hair. Wash your face (if you have any facial hair, pay extra attention to your beard and moustache, as food particles, sauces, and daily grime and gunk can get trapped in there) Wash your body: Scrub your: Neck, shoulders, in (and behind) your ears, your arms, arm pits, back, chest, stomach, inside your navel, the front and back of your legs, both sides of your hands, in between your hands, under your fingernails too. Get the tops, bottoms of your feet and scrub between your toes too. Then pay close attention to the GOODS. Wash your entire dick. The head and shaft, and if you’re uncut, pull that skin back, and soap up under that hood too. Wash your balls, your taint, and then scrub your entire ass.... your butt cheeks and your ass HOLE, get all up in there too. Once you’re squeaky clean, soap up and do it all over again..... Then thoroughly dry off and moisturize. Grooming: Make sure your finger nails and toe nails are trimmed. Trim your nose hairs and make sure no huge boogers are in there and that no boogers are dangling by when you breathe. Oral Hygiene: Brush your teeth (thoroughly) Brush your tongue (thoroughly) Floss (a piece of trapped food could cause your entire mouth to smell, even if you thoroughly brush) if flossing causes gum sensitivity, this can be remedied by getting a thicker/wavier floss and by flowing more frequently (this builds up the strength in my gums). Use mouth wash. And pop a mint in your mouth once you’re done and are on your way to your massage. Check those ears and get rid of any wax. You’re officially squeaky clean and are ready for a massage whose mileage may vary ? Hygiene no no’s before a massage: Skimping on the showering: “Wash ups”, and “bird baths”, just don’t cover it. You need a full shower from head to toe. Not washing that butthole: A lot of guys believe that letting soapy water run down their butts is sufficient for washing their asses. This is a no no. Spread those checks and wash that crack. Assuming that your daily shower has you “covered”: Even if it’s a sedentary desk job, your morning shower does not leave you sufficiently clean enough for an evening massage. While you’ve been enjoying your day, you’ve been pissing, crapping, and incubating in your sweat, oils and juices in your clothes all day. The masseur will smell things that you can’t. If masseurs had a forum where they’d give their top pet peeves, hygiene would be on the top of the list. Trust me on that.

Sidebar: I would recommend to be very cautious of asking any guy to shave his beard off, as you may be shocked to realize what he actually looks like with a clean-shaven face. The beard craze has given a lot of guys “points”, in the looks department, that they wouldn’t have had without those beards.... ?

I think it’s okay to make the request. I also think it would be okay for the said escort to charge you a nice, additional, hefty “specialized grooming request” fee, too ?

Someone passed away for Christ’s sake. Let’s have some level of decency here.

Both are pieces of shit. Period.

Im sorry that you experienced such blatant disrespect. Those two assholes are part of many reasons why I’m the misanthrope that I am. Fuck both of them.

LMAO!!!! This is one of your funniest comments ever!!! ????

He’s contacting him for both. He could easily provide him a massage, and get paid, without the sex.

I never implied that the said masseur wanted to date the client. I simply said that he enjoyed the sex.

I think he likes the money, BUT he likes the sex too. Otherwise, he’d just offer him the massages (without the sex).

B.L.U.F. If the dude is contacting YOU for sex, you shouldn’t be paying for it.

From the sounds of things, he should be paying YOU. Give him your rates and availabilities, and see how he responds. ???

If someone has an issue with the size of your dick, on to someone who doesn’t have an issue with the size of your dick. By all means, do NOT get any surgeries for the sake of seeking validation or approval from others.

Absolutely!!! Your investments were definitely risky, but the reward was certainly greater. I always think of a similar story I read in a local Gay publication years ago, where a man bought an abandoned building , right on Logan Circle, which used to be a “hotel”, that rented “by the hour”, for either streetwalkers, or for crackheads to have a place to “squat , smoke & party”, He endured burglaries, being robbed at gun point, and from his survival, now, every unit is worth over $1M, and the actual circle that’s right at his window (that used to be a crime ridden, drug circle) is now a renovated park, where children are playing and people are doing yoga outside.