Drained Empty

Have you ever seen synchro?
 
Those girls have better edges and extension than elite singles (ahem, Zagitova).
 
The girls also lift each other, which requires strength and control.
 
Give me synchro over watching the same programs in the team event any day.

There’s a lot of subtle racism in the US of which most white guys are probably not aware. My husband is a Mexican-born US citizen. He is proud of his heritage and wears a big ‘stache. He also has an advanced degree, owns his own business with 6 employees, and has an income over twice mine. However, invariably, whenever we’re checking into a hotel or a restaurant, or other professional establishment expecting service, I’m the one that is addressed first and all subsequent responses are directed towards me and only me. When we travel, he’s the one that gets “randomly” selected for extra screening at security or immigration. Being his partner for over 20 years has made me much less inclined to express doubt when non-whites feel they have been slighted because of their race.

It was a feeling I got from reading previous entries (both those who had positive and not so positive experiences) as well as a few direct messages.
 
At no point did I disparage the masseur. I even said he was polite over text.
 
However, I have been on the receiving end of strangers who scowl or look you up and down as a way of telling you "I don't like you," "I don't like your kind," and/or "do not engage with me."
 
You can often tell when a masseur opens a door, or you walk into a bar or spa, how people feel about you from one look.

BBC is a pretty commonly used abbreviation.
 
I'm not black either but I've seen and read it everywhere.
 
Also I happen to be into black guys so that doesn't hurt. Gotta learn the lingo.

Nathan won the freeskate and pulled up from 17th to fifth, and just a fraction away from fourth. Very impressive. However, I fear his body cannot take the pounding for another four years.

He says he was the private masseur for Britney Spears but couldn't spell her name correctly.

He says he was the private masseur for Britney Spears but couldn't spell her name correctly.

This is a true story.
 
I really get turned on by the thought of an encounter at a public restroom. But I'm not super hung and usually do a quick piss and zip.
 
So I was recently at this corporate retreat with many other executives (I'm the youngest at my company). It was one of those secluded resorts in the middle of a forest.
 
We had been there for a few days already and always ended the night at the resort bar. On the final night, I was a little buzzed from dinner. I went to the bar but didn't really feel like drinking. I did need to take a piss though so I went to the nearby restroom.
 
I ended up at the urinal next to one of the cute Latino staffers (I could tell he worked there because he had a uniform on). We both were there longer than a normal piss would be. And we gave each other glances.
 
His coworker came in and they started chatting so I zipped up. I couldn't shake the feeling so I sat outside on the coach. The coworker exited but the guy hadn't. I waited another minute or two and the guy still hadn't come out yet.
 
So I went back in to see where he was. Unfortunately he was at the mirror checking out his teeth. So I was bummed out but went into the stall because I didn't want to look like a creep.
 
Then I realized he moved back to urinals. I peeked out of the stall and he was stroking his dick. I motioned him over and we started stroking.
 
My building was just one over so I told him to meet me at my room. I took the outside path and he took the hallway. I sucked his 7" cock to completion in my room. He was young -- maybe 21 or 22 -- and had braces (which why he was checking out his teeth). We decided it was best that he not suck me off lol. I wish it wasn't the last night.

He says he was the private masseur for Britney Spears but couldn't spell her name correctly.

He says he was the private masseur for Britney Spears but couldn't spell her name correctly.

Lots of nudity!
 
James Purefoy is full frontal in episode 2 and huge.
 
Just saw Joel the other day and he is very skinny now, almost gaunt. I hope it's for a role.

Or, in other words, how white guys treat Asian guys at Korean spas in the States. But I doubt that's xenophobia.
 
Back on topic, Kyoto is beautiful!

Or, in other words, how white guys treat Asian guys at Korean spas in the States. But I doubt that's xenophobia.
 
Back on topic, Kyoto is beautiful!

Lots of nudity!
 
James Purefoy is full frontal in episode 2 and huge.
 
Just saw Joel the other day and he is very skinny now, almost gaunt. I hope it's for a role.

Thank you for this.
 
I think some people's reactions are cavalier because they realize there's nothing that can really be done to increase one's size (although losing weight actually can help one's dick look bigger and being fit often translates into stronger erections).
 
I would say I'm modestly endowed (unlucky in the gene pool). I would say 95% of dicks I've seen (and I've seen a lot) are bigger than mine.
 
I would also say the majority of people prefer a larger cock. I have been places where guys can be unattractive but very endowed and that's all that matters. Time after time.
 
My size bothers me. I'm self conscious at urinals, in the locker room, in the spa. If I allow it to preocuppy me, it can be debilitating. Like unable to get out of bed debilitating (although I admittedly have many image issues).
 
One of my earliest "relationships" was with a so-called "straight" guy (I use quotes because I was shamed in another thread for using the term). He was beautiful, above average endowed, and would compliment me on my "big cock." I think he was sincere and trying to be nice but it actually made me even more self-conscious. All I could think was this guy hasn't been with other guys so he has no idea how small I am.
 
Ob the flip side I have a very well endowed guy I see somewhat regularly. He likes dirty talk. But one time, during sex, he said, "your small cock." That was an immediate mood killer and I didn't want to see him for awhile after that. Telling a guy they're small is like telling them they're losing their hair. They already know. You don't have to point it out.
 
I felt a little bit better a few weeks back. A chatty masseur I was with was telling me how he was turned off by small dicks. So I apologized for my size and he told me that I wasn't small at all. But then again, this guy also told me one of his clients has a 16" penis so I don't know what to believe lol.
 
Hung guys are like attractive guys. You're genetically #blessed, will never know the shame and depression associated with being small or unattractive, and of course are confident because of that and can say things like "just accept it." It's knowing we will never be you and feel that confidence that is sometimes the harshest of all realities.

No need to chastise others and say they have "low standards" if you had one (or in this case two) below average experiences.
 
Standards vary per person and as you can see, YMMV.
 
And this is coming from a fan of Clark's but probably wouldn't see Anthony again, and I'm a legit poster.
 
Judging by the requirements you've posted in another thread, seems you already have the massage unicorn who is good at everything, is into you, manages time impeccably and charges a reasonable price. Of course you're not going to find another easily.

What happened with your masseur is terrible, Glee. That's my worst fear. You can just tell on someone's face when they're disgusted by your race. It's one of the worst feelings in the world.
 
Ironically, it's their problem and not ours. If they're truly professional they should work with clients of all shapes, sizes and colors, especially if they are masseurs and their bodywork is meant to be therapeutic.
 
I can understand if a client has open sores or a skin condition that could pose health risks, but being Asian is NOT a disease, even though some treat it as such. The entire energy changes and you put the blame on yourself.
 
I've come to accept social rejection based on my race, and now business (because that's what massage or escort service is) rejection as well.
 
It's a sad and depressing reality, but one that I can't change. I will continue to disclose my race, but only after the rate is stated so they can't raise it. And if they close a door in my face or don't touch me, so be it.
 
The masseur who allegedly doesn't like Asian clients is Grant (formerly Taylor) in Weho, according to his thread.

Tone deaf especially during these times.
 
I saw maybe two, three black people in the extended trailer and they were all in peddlers.

Tone deaf especially during these times.
 
I saw maybe two, three black people in the extended trailer and they were all in peddlers.

How kind of you to exaggerate my size. I suppose the good news is you can't assault it if you can't find it.

"Greka," "Vladek," "Joseff," and "Davido" are scamming in Los Angeles now.
 
Their ads all say "available now" at the same time and follow the same formats.
 
Investigating a bit more, I sorted by distance and mapped each of their locations. Lo and behold, they all originate from the exact same building near La Brea and Hauser. Different phone numbers though.
 
I don't know what type of scam they're doing, but buyer beware.
 
First post btw!

Thanks for the feedback. So far I am leaning towards Raphael. Before I book him.....any other ideas? I am getting my session Friday. Any more recommendations are appreciated!

I must be the biggest idiot on the planet because I even tip bad encounters. I haven't had many, admittedly.
 
One guy showed up, didn't engage in oral or topping (told me very late in our appointment that I needed to ask in advance for that), struggled to cum, ended early, and still got a $40 tip (on top of his big city rate) for less than an hour.
 
The most recent guy asked for the money upfront (it was in a bedside envelope), broke his cockring (which in general is a turn-off for me), failed to get hard, took out his phone to start watching porn, at which I told him to leave. I still paid him $100 for about ten minutes.
 
I would say I pay the way I do because I've been taught to be polite, nice, and professional (even though I will never see either again) but deep down I think they're disgusted with me (I suffer from self esteem issues and race issues) and feel obligated to pay them for having to "deal with me."
 
This thread has been very enlightening though. I think I need to stick to massages lol.

I must be the biggest idiot on the planet because I even tip bad encounters. I haven't had many, admittedly.
 
One guy showed up, didn't engage in oral or topping (told me very late in our appointment that I needed to ask in advance for that), struggled to cum, ended early, and still got a $40 tip (on top of his big city rate) for less than an hour.
 
The most recent guy asked for the money upfront (it was in a bedside envelope), broke his cockring (which in general is a turn-off for me), failed to get hard, took out his phone to start watching porn, at which I told him to leave. I still paid him $100 for about ten minutes.
 
I would say I pay the way I do because I've been taught to be polite, nice, and professional (even though I will never see either again) but deep down I think they're disgusted with me (I suffer from self esteem issues and race issues) and feel obligated to pay them for having to "deal with me."
 
This thread has been very enlightening though. I think I need to stick to massages lol.

Beware josh_soccerguy.
 
Multiple fake aliases, photos, and will harrass you from at least two different phone numbers.
 
Check the other threads about him.