I appreciate this advice but, my scenario is a little different.
1) I only go to spas which can mean English challenges
2) I go there because I love the spa setting that there are no discussions of extra activities. Put plainly, I dream of not knowing what is happening next. It is almost everything to me. If I’ve scripted it out, a huge piece of the turn on is over.
3) the masseurs don’t wear underwear while massaging. If one wanted to remove his, id want him to do that on his own without me scripting it.
This is why I bounce around to different spas seeking new masseurs and scenarios because as soon as something becomes scripted, it has decreased my excitement.