NYMassageAddict

First I’ve seen this one. The Japanese continue to outshine anywhere else in the massage scenes. Japanese massage

Sorry his name may be Peter. It’s a P name.

So I but the bullet and visited Renew Spa today. I think they have one male masseur, Patrick. He is not your 20s twink type. Rather I put him in his 40s and maybe 200+ lbs. fairly tall. Anyway, I recommend seeing him.

If he’s any good, he will make a fortune in Palm Springs with all the old gay money in that city.

You sound very responsible and I’m sure many would appreciate knowing more about their personal masseurs or spa’s efforts to do the same. Sadly as receivers we are left in the dark about a lot of this. I also recognize that providers would also like to have this information as well. Pandemics sure do suck.

We’ve got both individual masseurs and spas and a great opportunity for either side to broadcast measures they’ve taken. It can be dicey because of an innuendo of sexual activity but I think both should be investing in and advertising their Monkeypox efforts, including vax status, latex gloves and disposable sheets. I for one would welcome it.

Has anyone explored the potential of using latex gloves during massage? I wonder how a spa would react if I brought surgical gloves for the masseur to use. Or if any private masseurs are using them. I know it’s tough because a lot of the massage may include forearms rubbing but I might feel more confident if I knew a spa had handed them out.

Whether you can believe this guy or not is up for debate, but I’ve been told that someone claimed that he received MPV from massage. Now again, I don’t know whether the failed to mention m2m sex because massage was a convenient excuse OR if the massage turned to sex. But I just wanted to flag that I heard it and it caused me to pause.

I’ve always wondered about a good old Chinatown spa that might provide extras. Seems they should exist but I haven’t heard of any. Not TOO far away is Yeah Man

Anyone into the more ceremonial aspects of masturbation especially with another man? I love when I’m with someone who is guiding the session talking about the history of masturbation and celebrating the penis - talking about the different parts of the male erection and the power it holds. Maybe he’s performing the masturbation or coaching you. Maybe chanting. That whole scene does something for me.

Are you just seeking someone who is into Asians or someone into the more taboo race play? I’d qualify for both as I am fine with a standard relationship but I also am open to more kinky talk if it’s requested.

I’m actually a little more inclined to try this place now. They said they have a younger Asian male masseur. The fact that it may or may not happen kinda fits one of my massage desires.

How does that text exchange actually go? “Do you provide happy ending”? “No!”

Anyone try Renew York Spa? Seems to be a new spa on 8th Ave near maybe 45 or 46. I saw a sign and due to proximity to Hell’s Kitchen asked if they had male masseurs. They said they do but I haven’t stopped by.

If you’re in Chicago and after an interesting experience, you may want to check out this guy. His website is https://atman.yoga He was trained in Asia somewhere. It’s a full body I mean FULL body experience. More spiritual/healing/tantric and less therapeutic. Offers lingam massage and prostrate for those interested in that. If you’re seeking a different experience from someone who takes their craft seriously, check him out.

I understand the allure but I actually prefer them clothed. My fantasy is that I’m receiving a legit massage in a spa setting and I don’t know if I’ll be touched in a sensual way. Having the masseur clothed makes it seem that this wasn’t the original agenda.

Me too! Oddly, for me, it’s the slow steady strokes that get me so close. It’s like when someone tries hard to make me shoot fast and furious, it’s futile. But if you try to just give me pleasure then I can’t hold off.

100% how I want my massages provided.

Full transparency (while posting under a disguised username) I’m a lover of massage and my partner doesn’t know it. Other than an occasional massage, I am otherwise faithful. I am incredibly concerned about monkey pox transmission from massage. I’ve always felt that I was “cheating” safely by only having touch (no oral no anal) but now that may be thrown out the window.

This isn’t necessarily “unexpected” but reflect something I LOVE when a masseur does it. There is a moment when laying on my stomach when a masseur grabs my leg and positions it so my leg is bent and raised high almost like a frog. In this position he can rub up my thigh entirely and my erection is much more exposed and accessible. With both hands rubbing up my thighs his hands brush against me, easily raising my body slightly above the table. Whenever I have a masseur who does this, I know I am going to have a fantastic experience.

Same here! Especially from these guys who are more than likely not professionally trained. They can cause some real damage. Stay away from the spinal cord and neck too.

Would be amazing if he also wanted them to be blind.

Great body. Poor name choice.

No first hand info but by his pics it seems he’s holding on way past his prime for playing role of “boy”.

My biggest advice is to take the plunge. Seems you’ve already done some research, which is smart, but don’t overly map it out. In short, if you’ve decided on a masseur at a spa, then yes to book in advance is always the way to go to ensure you get who you want. Walking in can work but in some situations you may be turned away entirely if they are all working. While not always the case it can happen. For spas open late, you can absolutely get a later massage but again, worth your time to reserve a spot in advance. Ultimately, you’re going to have someone rub your body and give you pleasure. Enjoy it and don’t sweat the details.