NYMassageAddict

This is horribly wrong advice. Cooking wine is very different than drinking wine. It is made to withstand the heat and as such maintains the flavoring. Drinking wine is no match for the heat and basically it serves no purpose. It’s also more expensive.

If you click the gallery I think the final two photos are them. One is a bit older and medium build. The younger guy (maybe 40s) is built but more runners build. Nice guys and a fun experience.

I saw these two guys a few years back. They host in their studio and it was a pretty thrilling experience. Tantric Four Hand Massage

I don’t know about those two in particular but the ownership opened Chelsea Men’s Spa on West 29th. a recent yelp review refers to an Allan so maybe he’s still with them.

I’ve also had several failed 4 hand experiences but had one that was fantastic in Mexico City. It was advertised only as a four hand tantric experience. I think in cases where that’s the only thing they provide it can be mind blowing. When you ask solo masseurs to work together, I think it fails for reasons you suggested.

I don’t watch for the hotness factor. I watch for the unique setting, the experience I see the recipient have, the teasing and skill of the masseur. I guess I’ve had enough massages in my life at this stage that I now seek something out of the ordinary and I think the Japanese are great at providing that.

First I’ve seen this one. The Japanese continue to outshine anywhere else in the massage scenes. Japanese massage

Sorry his name may be Peter. It’s a P name.

So I but the bullet and visited Renew Spa today. I think they have one male masseur, Patrick. He is not your 20s twink type. Rather I put him in his 40s and maybe 200+ lbs. fairly tall. Anyway, I recommend seeing him.

If he’s any good, he will make a fortune in Palm Springs with all the old gay money in that city.

You sound very responsible and I’m sure many would appreciate knowing more about their personal masseurs or spa’s efforts to do the same. Sadly as receivers we are left in the dark about a lot of this. I also recognize that providers would also like to have this information as well. Pandemics sure do suck.

We’ve got both individual masseurs and spas and a great opportunity for either side to broadcast measures they’ve taken. It can be dicey because of an innuendo of sexual activity but I think both should be investing in and advertising their Monkeypox efforts, including vax status, latex gloves and disposable sheets. I for one would welcome it.

Has anyone explored the potential of using latex gloves during massage? I wonder how a spa would react if I brought surgical gloves for the masseur to use. Or if any private masseurs are using them. I know it’s tough because a lot of the massage may include forearms rubbing but I might feel more confident if I knew a spa had handed them out.

Whether you can believe this guy or not is up for debate, but I’ve been told that someone claimed that he received MPV from massage. Now again, I don’t know whether the failed to mention m2m sex because massage was a convenient excuse OR if the massage turned to sex. But I just wanted to flag that I heard it and it caused me to pause.

I’ve always wondered about a good old Chinatown spa that might provide extras. Seems they should exist but I haven’t heard of any. Not TOO far away is Yeah Man

Anyone into the more ceremonial aspects of masturbation especially with another man? I love when I’m with someone who is guiding the session talking about the history of masturbation and celebrating the penis - talking about the different parts of the male erection and the power it holds. Maybe he’s performing the masturbation or coaching you. Maybe chanting. That whole scene does something for me.

Are you just seeking someone who is into Asians or someone into the more taboo race play? I’d qualify for both as I am fine with a standard relationship but I also am open to more kinky talk if it’s requested.

I’m actually a little more inclined to try this place now. They said they have a younger Asian male masseur. The fact that it may or may not happen kinda fits one of my massage desires.

How does that text exchange actually go? “Do you provide happy ending”? “No!”

Anyone try Renew York Spa? Seems to be a new spa on 8th Ave near maybe 45 or 46. I saw a sign and due to proximity to Hell’s Kitchen asked if they had male masseurs. They said they do but I haven’t stopped by.

If you’re in Chicago and after an interesting experience, you may want to check out this guy. His website is https://atman.yoga He was trained in Asia somewhere. It’s a full body I mean FULL body experience. More spiritual/healing/tantric and less therapeutic. Offers lingam massage and prostrate for those interested in that. If you’re seeking a different experience from someone who takes their craft seriously, check him out.

I understand the allure but I actually prefer them clothed. My fantasy is that I’m receiving a legit massage in a spa setting and I don’t know if I’ll be touched in a sensual way. Having the masseur clothed makes it seem that this wasn’t the original agenda.

Me too! Oddly, for me, it’s the slow steady strokes that get me so close. It’s like when someone tries hard to make me shoot fast and furious, it’s futile. But if you try to just give me pleasure then I can’t hold off.

100% how I want my massages provided.

Full transparency (while posting under a disguised username) I’m a lover of massage and my partner doesn’t know it. Other than an occasional massage, I am otherwise faithful. I am incredibly concerned about monkey pox transmission from massage. I’ve always felt that I was “cheating” safely by only having touch (no oral no anal) but now that may be thrown out the window.