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I don’t think the point here was to say what you are into or not. I am not into fisting, but I don’t judge those who are. Some guys love to be called those things IN THE BEDROOM, but would fight tooth and nails if someone on the streets called them those names. It is a fetish.

So apparently this event is happening in NYC this weekend. You buy tickets in advance as a stallion or mare. The mares pay to be filled by several bare cocks and bred all day long.

This is definitely a “thing” for some guys. I had a guy who wanted me to watch sports while he sucked me off. I was especially into the game too so I couldn’t really focus on his sucking but it also made me last longer which he enjoyed.

LA scene is very different from NY scene in this department. The spas you refer to in LA are nearly bath houses that have attendants. Though there are folks here who are more experienced with those than I am, that is not where a bulk of spa life is for gay New Yorkers. In NYC, the spas most talk about are massage shops only. There aren’t locker rooms. You go to a front desk, they escort you to a room where a massage table is present. They MAY have a table shower, but otherwise you get a massage and you leave. Your definition of hot is clearly subjective. Some think young twink Asians are hot. Others think masculine Latinos are hot.

This is why I posed the question. I am open to the fact that this “fetish” is an issue and may say something about me. But I also have interacted with asian guys who seek it out and the role play aspect is mutually fun. Regardless, don’t crucify me for bringing it up. I am open to feedback. From more than one perspective. thanks for yours

I don’t know what is crossing a line on here, especially in today’s climate, but while I’m a liberal and push for diversity and equity, I have a strong fetish for Asian guys who love to be talked to in a demeaning way sexually. anyone else?

In London, they do differentiate East Asian (Chinese, Japanese, Korean) by calling themselves Oriental. Asian is usually reserved for Indian.

Does anyone know of any spas in Flushing or elsewhere in Queens with male masseurs?

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If you’ve been reading for a while my guess is that you know there’s a 155 page topic on NYC spas. Maybe you should read some of those.

I would really love to be a customer in this spa. To have a glimpse of what’s happening next door and just lay back and enjoy.

I love these videos. I just wish they would show it through ejaculation.

I used to have a guy in Chicago who had an insane shower set up in his home. He would bathe me when we were done. But my worst shower story happened in Bangkok where it’s more customary to shower before and after a massage. Sometimes with the masseur, sometimes alone. I left the massage room to go shower. Only when I paid afterwards did I realize I had 500 Baht stolen from me. I’m too lazy now to even check what that was worth but it still pisses me off.

I hate when a guy can’t get off from a masseur’s hand. Man when I get an expert hand teasing me, it’s more a challenge to hold off.

Decent number of lady boy thai spas in LA if you ever visit.

I need a really nice (lots of teasing) massage from a thin younger Asian masseur this week. Anyone have a specific spa/masseur recommendation for me?

Maybe there’s a business opportunity awaiting.

There has to be an Asian spa with male masseurs in Vegas. Come on. This is the adult playground.

Is anyone into dirty talk for words that are more medically appropriate? For some reason, if someone says something like “I’m going to masturbate your penis and make your erection ejaculate” - it drives me damn wild. Any others out there that have this similar fetish? Any specific trigger words that turn you on? Love to hear.

I recently had a massage at Energy Men Spa. The place is average in terms of facilities but will always hold a special place in my heart as it was one of the first spas I visited in NYC. It had been a while so I stopped by. They were busy but the guy at the desk said he could accommodate me. I had to wait maybe 10 minutes in the room then he made it. We both wore masks and he started out draping me with a towel. Rubbed over the towel and moved it to rub my back, then raised it over my back to rub my legs. As he rubbed up my legs he would rub his hand under my leg higher and higher. His hands were so soft. Eventually, he has me turn over on my back where he finishes the massage very nicely. He seemed so proud of his work. I loved it. Tipped well and thanked him. Will return. I recommend Energy Men Spa.

Energy Men’s Spa is seemingly staffing with new guys. Always enjoy meeting a new crew. If anyone has any experience with Alvin or Roger, I’d be curious to hear.

A few years back, while receiving a massage in a spa, I could clearly hear a guy getting stroked with oil. So when it was my turn, I made sure to moan loudly and grunt when I shot. I wanted to give others a little “noise show”.

I don’t disagree, but in candor these places are pretty brazen about how they market themselves these days. I could make the same argument about a drug dealer. Probably not great harm in the grand scheme of things but what he’s doing is still against the law. If you run around creating Facebook pages and market what you’re doing, the cops kinda have to respond when a neighbor flags it.

If you haven’t been “on the edge” of orgasm for several minutes at a time, you should try and you too would be addicted to it. Imagine how hot am orgasm is. Then imagine being on that level for a half hour.

With all the changes at spas, I’m curious if anyone has had any good recent experiences with any twink type thin Asian masseurs. Thanks!