NYMassageAddict

Anyone ever used a tool like this on you? Unfortunately this is only a preview but you’ll see why the title is called SHOOTER

So I’ve had my share of massages and I would agree if you’re not seasoned it might feel really odd to say “no thanks” when you see who you got, BUT, after more than a few misses and spending hundreds of my own dollars when I’m looking for a particular experience, I’ve grown more bold to say something like “sorry I was hoping for someone more (insert word young, muscular, thin, etc). At the end of the day, you’re a paying customer. While it may feel weird at first, you’ll find it was worth it to get what you want. I’ve found the Masseurs understand and move on. They are also not emotionally attached and understand the game.

Same guy from 58/1.

I had Jerry who said he only works one night a week - that was a Thursday. He was very talented.

This is a very long and thought out response but I don’t understand it. You suggest these people want to be taxed for retirement? i don’t disagree entirely but as many are undocumented to work (either here on student visas or no visa at all), their options for employment are usually restaurants cash only or massage. I’m not suggesting their service is comparable to a restaurant service but still those are the options for many.

I’d trust your first instinct of saying it’s none of my business. Do you ask friends how they file their taxes? Grocery store employees? Servers? I think it’s a fair assumption to make that in a cash business with employees who may or may not be documented, that they aren’t reporting all of their income. But even then, unless you work for the IRS I don’t know why it should matter to you.

How many massages do you think a masseur does on a non-peak day vs a peak day? 2 on a non-peak day? 3? 4-5 on a peak day? Let’s say he does 2 on a Monday - Thursday type day. Those days he made $80 per your $20 tip example. On a weekend (Friday - Sunday) they do 4 that would be $160 on those days. A 6 day week would net you $240 + $480 or $720. Mind you this is also tax free (if we want to talk about fair, why am I responsible for paying taxes and they are not?) $720 a week works out to be $34,000/year no tax. I’m not suggesting this is a luxury life they are living but considering it requires no education thats an interesting way of looking at it. The other more realistic way is that on a Monday at 1 pm, they need to incent customers to visit so they reduce their prices.

Terry or Jerry.

It isn’t a “discount” it’s what the market will bear. That’s the glory of a free market. If they want $100 but need to discount to get customers, then the discount price is actually the right price (at least at that moment). No one in business reduces price out of the kindness of their heart.

This goes back to the old question of - if the value of something is greater than the price is, they should charge more. I agree that a $20 tip is bare minimum, but people who lecture that a tip should be 100% (or $60) or more are also over-tipping in my mind. But that’s their right just as it is someone’s right to tip $20-30.

Energy Men Spa on 23rd has table shower and most Masseurs are not going to do extra work (e.g., a hard massage). They will rub and tug.

Steam works in Chicago is an excellent spot. Very clean. Huge. Wide variety of experiences from a maze, private rooms, sling, elevated area with a pit in the middle so guys are at penis height while standing, a huge jacuzzi etc. Best time is weekend evening but it is worth the small investment.

He’s very attractive and not an ounce of fat on his body. If you have hangups about what he does for fun - not with you - then that’s your own issue.

Please tell me where someone can make more than $40 per hour on the street.

Elegantz and Shooters will both give you a great time. My advice to you is don’t overplan or over research. Go, be naive, and enjoy the unknown.

I actually received a massage as a gift from someone once. It was so amazing.

You won’t go wrong in Bali. Banana Spa is a good start but a quick google search or Travel Gay Asia will help you. Have fun! The boys there love to please.

I know there have been a few posts about Rainbow88 before but curious to know if anyone has visited lately. If so I know Jason is the main guy but curious if I should see anyone new. Part of what appeals to me is that I like an unknown factor. I don’t like a formulaic experience. I understand massages can include walking on your back, hot stones, etc. so that appeals. Even a blindfold appeals to me. Also has anyone done 4 hands there? Thanks!

Where might I find this and also be sure a male provides it?

Where would anyone recommend going if young and thin - twink maybe even tending to the fem side would be? Spa preferred but could be individual masseur.

Not sure why, but this series of guys in a Chinese (?) spa being bathed and also getting a little extra excites me. I wish I could find a place like this.

Anyone have any good recommendations at Energy Men Spa? M Star was one of my first regular spots when I moved here so the place provides a little nostalgia. But if it is just upselling and no quality, I don’t think I’ll waste my time. FYI I prefer younger thin asian Masseurs who aim to please. While on the note of seeking recommendations, I’m also on the hunt for a spa that uses a drape, even blindfold during the massage but still ends happily. There is something about a drape and blindfold that makes the experience seem more legit with a surprise at the end. Thanks!

Andy W Men spa.

I had Chen at Yeah Man. He takes pride in giving hard/strong massage. I hate strong massage and let him know. So basically he threw massage aside and went straight to pleasing mode. Boy does he please. I told him he was recommended to me and he seemed to be proud of that and aimed to please. For the price, I think you’d be a fool to not visit him.

East St Louis is a bar that has nudity... well I guess the guys wear socks (on their feet).