NYMassageAddict

Bigman is a big fan.

Don’t get me wrong, I tip 20% religiously when out at a restaurant or bar. Also tip my barber. I just think a tipping society is dumb. If you expect more money for your service, just charge it.

Why are you so passionate about this? I think I made my point clear. Owners, historically don’t accept tips. No, I don’t ask someone as I mostly assume someone serving me ISN’T an owner. But I have had owners say “no need to tip, this is my bar”. If a masseur is advertising on masseurfinder or comparable especially under sensual, I do assume a HE is included. If a masseur wants to take a shot at not providing that, that’s their prerogative, but I’m guessing their customer frequency and pool will be smaller. In my opinion, I think a masseur working for himself would actually be at a competitive advantage if they said “this price is all inclusive - no tips necessary”.

I don’t know you or the circumstances involved, but is there any possibility someone walking out was just a rude dude or maybe someone not attracted which has nothing to do with your race? Some white dudes aren’t into me and I’m white. I can’t claim racism.

The old rule was if an owner pours you a beer, you don’t tip the owner because he’s making money on the beer he sold you. It was seen as low brow for an owner to accept a tip if they served you a meal or poured you a drink.

When you’re at a restaurant, you tip the server but not the restaurant owner. Which, by the way, is just another way for a restaurant to pass off its duty for paying staff onto the customers. I wish they’d be more blatant about it and just increase the cost of food. Tipping in general is such a gray area overall, and when you tip below acceptable levels - say service sucks, you are left feeling bad and even managers will pressure you about why you didn’t tip. If it’s optional, get off of me.

Bigman is my favorite person in the world.

Funny. I made an appointment with him and saw this ad. It flagged a concern for me and I told him why. Pointed him to this and he went silent. For whatever it’s worth, he never denied and told me he would bottom willingly. Maybe because he never intended to do anything but take money and kick me out.

More from the “hidden” camera collection. I don’t know why, but I really love these. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/gay-massage-hidden-cam-32293912

I think this is due to having one boy manning the spa by himself. I find one masseur is also the receptionist - so when he’s busy massaging someone, there is no one else there to answer the phone or door. Not good but probably a way of saving money.

Sorry I just came across a full thread on this topic and I see it was quite spirited. Sounds like there are divided views. No need to follow up here.

Sorry if this is already covered, but I have been mostly a spa type guy, mainly because I can’t host and I enjoy the scene there. I have a pretty good understanding of minimum to maximum tips for the guys who work at spas and I know they only get a small portion of the hourly fee. However, I’m considering trying a few independent Masseurs who work from their homes and I’m not sure how tipping works when you hire someone like that. In the “real world” if someone is the owner of a business, you don’t tip them because they are already getting all the money. Is that the case with masseurs? I know they’d all appreciate more money but if you don’t tip, do they think you’re cheap or don’t like the work? What is the norm for going to someone who massages from masseurfinder, etc? Thanks!

I’d love to have a drink in a Hell’s Kitchen bar with bigman!

There’s a thai spa called I’m Thai Spa very near the airport. Not sure if they’ll be open when you’re laying over. They have male masseurs. I don’t think HE is to be expected but could occur.

Would like to know more about Kevin. Asian? Twink or muscular? Cute? I love a consistent thin smooth asian guy. Seems Green House is most consistent for having asian twink Masseurs.

Ha. Yes I noticed as well. I’m guessing he was uncomfortable about the camera or maybe not gay but required to do this for pay. At least he still enjoyed it enough to come to a happy ending.

If you’re the kind of guy into thin asian Masseurs and bodies, here is a 2 parter: Part 1: https://www.gotporn.com/gay/amazing-oily-gay-thai-massage-by-bangkok-boys/video-2012365 Part 2: https://www.gotporn.com/gay/the-best-gay-asian-massage-and-spewing-cumshot/video-2282623

This is more geared to the oh so enjoyable ending of the massage, but still nice to see so many men enjoy. https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph598c347515c77

Anyone try Ben Brooklyn? He’s just my type.

Yes. At least when they first opened it’s strictly legit with signs everywhere saying any requests or suggestions of inappropriate nature by clients will end the massage immediately. Not sure if they’ve changed as I think business has been decent there. Maybe if business slows down

I guess we’ve found white space for a talented masseur or a spa if they want to break out... here’s looking at you multiple west village spas that have nothing special about them.

Jasper is new at Babylon. He would qualify as twink, shorter and cute. He’s talented also.

Anyone know any Masseurs who are trained in delivering tantric, body electric or Lingam massages - really focused on that extra attention to key positions. In particular interested in someone who puts the recipient on all fours or other interesting positions to deliver the edging massage.

Most of those places will require some type of extended patronage and loyalty before you’ll get that unexpected experience. On occasion if there is great chemistry, it could happen on a first go around, but you’re fighting odds. I’d recommend going to New Paradise and finding a masseur you like. Then go back to him a few times. I do know that they tend to use a small towel to cover and during the stretching, it’s not uncommon to have the towel move revealing your level of enjoyment. I think they do this on purpose. I think after a few visits of aroused exposure, you may be pleasantly surprised.

He may have been proud, and I actually did ask for more time and for him to “help” and he just shook his head that he couldn’t. But I was still way aroused laying there exposed like that. He did rub very near it, I believe he brushed it a few times but wouldn’t go all the way.